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My girlfriend is a whore... (pg. 5)
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by wacky
I'm not saying one is over the other..but the differences in how one cheats over the other is a lot more different as well, girls can cheat a lot more easily, and play it off as more regretful as if they didn't know it was wrong in the first place.
This topic always hits close to home because I know situations like this where it affected too many people around me, streamline on here can vouch for me on the things I've known/put up with in a short life time that no one should have to deal with in 2. Any other topic, I wouldn't get so opinionated and "absolute" with my mentality, I just hate this topic in general. |
Really? Being a person who got cheated on more than once by her last THREE boyfriends i would think i knew something about it as well. And believe me men are just as susceptible to use the "omg, i was so drunk, i thought it was you!" excuse as girls are. Same goes with the crying, the regretting, the begging "I swear it'll never happen again!", etc.
You forgive em and what happens? They go out and do the same ing thing all over again. I've NEVER cheated on a single one of my boyfriends and look at what happens. Don't blame girls for everything unless you know both sides of what happens. Just because you're a guy who may have been cheated on doesn't mean that no man cheats on his girl (once or repetitively). I know a lot of my friends have been cheated on or been with a guy who was two-timing his own girlfriend without realising what was happening. |
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| Jeremy Jive |
Oh man i have the perfect button for you. After a nasty break up many many years ago a close friend gave me a button that said "My ex girlfriend is a WHORE"
I wore it proudly for a few laughs and the one day I ran into her and I had it on. The look on her face was worth 1,000 times the price of that little button.
I could lend it to ya if you'd like. |
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| VERTiG0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jeremy Jive
Oh man i have the perfect button for you. After a nasty break up many many years ago a close friend gave me a button that said "My ex girlfriend is a WHORE"
I wore it proudly for a few laughs and the one day I ran into her and I had it on. The look on her face was worth 1,000 times the price of that little button.
I could lend it to ya if you'd like. |
Where might one acquire one of these buttons? |
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| djbruuen |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
Really? Being a person who got cheated on more than once by her last THREE boyfriends i would think i knew something about it as well. And believe me men are just as susceptible to use the "omg, i was so drunk, i thought it was you!" excuse as girls are. Same goes with the crying, the regretting, the begging "I swear it'll never happen again!", etc.
You forgive em and what happens? They go out and do the same ing thing all over again. I've NEVER cheated on a single one of my boyfriends and look at what happens. Don't blame girls for everything unless you know both sides of what happens. Just because you're a guy who may have been cheated on doesn't mean that no man cheats on his girl (once or repetitively). I know a lot of my friends have been cheated on or been with a guy who was two-timing his own girlfriend without realising what was happening. |
well yah. obviously its not a gender oriented problem. a guy or girl can do it just as well. i totally disagree with the other comment that a girl can put it on better. guys put it on just as good. on the receiving end i think guys are generally weaker and will be more susceptable to false forgivness. (this of course is a sweeping generalization, becuase it has to do with the matter of insecurity, and there are lots of insecure girls aswell, but i think its been more common for the guy to take the girl back for this reason). |
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| moneyman |
| Wow what tool, posts a thread about his GF being a whore, yet he goes and pays for them in thailand. what goes around comes around bro. |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by djbruuen
well yah. obviously its not a gender oriented problem. a guy or girl can do it just as well. i totally disagree with the other comment that a girl can put it on better. guys put it on just as good. on the receiving end i think guys are generally weaker and will be more susceptable to false forgivness. (this of course is a sweeping generalization, becuase it has to do with the matter of insecurity, and there are lots of insecure girls aswell, but i think its been more common for the guy to take the girl back for this reason). |
I don't know about that actually... i think that might be just about equal because most of the girls i know would take the guy back (even though they say they wouldn't) just because they don't think they can get any better or because their mind is set on the fact that they don't know what they would do without the man. It's pretty sad considering there's always someone better than a cheater but sometimes you fail to realise that and end up staying with a guy who repeatedly cheats on you. :(
(btw for those who think i'm talking about the current one, i'm not :D haha) |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
I don't know about that actually... i think that might be just about equal because most of the girls i know would take the guy back (even though they say they wouldn't) just because they don't think they can get any better or because their mind is set on the fact that they don't know what they would do without the man. It's pretty sad considering there's always someone better than a cheater but sometimes you fail to realise that and end up staying with a guy who repeatedly cheats on you. :(
(btw for those who think i'm talking about the current one, i'm not :D haha) |
It should also be considered that when one loves another they genuinely want to believe what that person tells them is true. Both men and women are guilty of this. Subsequently, when a cheating partner is confronted and promises that they will never do it again there is often an urge by the wronged party to believe them... even against evidence to the contrary. I would suggest that this want to believe is even more pervasive then the low self-esteem motivation.
I'm not sure how I would react if I found out my wife had cheated on me, it really depends on the circumstance of the cheating. Knowing me I would likely try to work through it with her because I trully believe that our marriage is too valuable to be thrown away for one indiscression. Multiple indiscressions would likely garner a different reaction. It is my belief that my wife feels the same way as I do. Hopefully we will never know for sure. |
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| DC- |
$5 for anyone who can tell me what movie this quote comes from.
"Girls are for f_aggots." |
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| Nick |
Kent Brockman's my 2 cents on the subject:
It always takes two to tango.
There's never such thing "It wasn't my fault, or couldn't help it" etc. and all related lines. |
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| awishabear |
| Where did d!abolic go in all this?? Poor guy.. We might not be making it any better for him like this. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by awishabear
Where did d!abolic go in all this?? Poor guy.. We might not be making it any better for him like this. |
What are you guys talking about? Jebus...nothing happened...some guy touched her ass and kised her...and for that he's calling her a whore...ppwwuuulleeaaaseee.....boo hoo big cry baby :stongue: :haha: :stongue: yes yes poor d!abolic... |
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| Mr. Furious |
Trust is a two way street. It's important to put your trust into someone, but it's also important for them to conduct themselves in a trustworthy manner.
If I'm in a relationship, I won't ever stay over at a female friend's place. I wouldn't want to give my girlfriend any reson to be suspicious. Having a girlfriend go over to someones' place to watch a movie AND getting a massage would be a definite deal breaker for me.
Dump her like yesterday's trash. |
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