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whata****ingslut (pg. 11)
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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
hadnt had some guy stick his dick in her after all. |
i think that should sum it up..unless he didnt mention oralwise... |
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| Orbax |
| but the point is: wouldnt yah rather none of that had happened at all? |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
all i'm saying is that if you don't date people and realize certain things about yourself...then you aren't going to be able to find someone that you can hold on to... |
+ learning some tricks in the bedroom is cool too  |
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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
but the point is: wouldnt yah rather none of that had happened at all? |
i totally agree..
recently me and my ex have settled some stuff so now were good friends..
i hear that shes boned some guy...from what i hear...its not official...
i would def try to get back with her if I KNEW she def did not sleep w/ anyone else..
we both lost it to each other so its one of those things thta i find VERY important..
but since i heard she did someone else....ITs totally out of the question...
i guess im in Orbax page aswell |
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| Stilez |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
but the point is: wouldnt yah rather none of that had happened at all? |
Yes~~! sacrifice all teh virgins :p But LUCID did have a point when she said they start getting all curious about what else is out there.. I've dated a few virgins, and that ended up being the case. I just think that girls/women nowadays have sex as a means to get to know someone alot more frequently then they used to. Rather then get to know someone before letting them have that most..oooooh most wonderful prize. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
but the point is: wouldnt yah rather none of that had happened at all? |
actually no. there is more to realtionships than just sex...but i'd also say that people that are inexperienced in bed still have a lot of insecurities associated with it and that in itself can be a problem...
i promise you that guys and girls that haven't had sex before have only a couple of things to say after their first times... "did you cum?"..."was it good?"...you get the idea. and no matter how much you sit there and reaffirm them they are going to wonder "did she fake it?"..."was i as good as the last guy?"...its endless.
i also think that in dating its important to date people in different levels of experience with dating in general. i kind of always dated older girls so naturally they had dated more than me. well i found myself really needing lots of attention from them and being dependant on them...then the last girl i dated was younger than me and hadn't had too many relationships and now she was dependant on me. given that experience...i realized how terrible it is to date someone like that. its not desirable at all...and that just one of those things that you learn from dating...i just think its a valuable lesson i've learned when it comes to dating because next time i find a great girl...i won't have that issue anymore...and that goes for a lot of things... |
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| Googooly |
| quote: | Originally posted by {b.s.e.}
i came home early tonight to find my girlfriend making out with another dude.
speechless. |
I bet it was Psy-T ;) |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
actually no. there is more to realtionships than just sex...but i'd also say that people that are inexperienced in bed still have a lot of insecurities associated with it and that in itself can be a problem...
"was i as good as the last guy?"...its endless.
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agreed on DATING which would fall under understanding society better
but those first 2 are off the basis that they had sex previously. if no one had sex before "the 1" it wouldnt be such an issue because your index for sexual pleasure would be at 1. |
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| fitom tiel |
i learned everything i know from porn
just kidding |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
agreed on DATING which would fall under understanding society better
but those first 2 are off the basis that they had sex previously. if no one had sex before "the 1" it wouldnt be such an issue because your index for sexual pleasure would be at 1. |
well that would be true...i agree with you. of course we think a little differently on things in that...i don't feel like i have to wait til marriage. i have only, except for one girl, had a serious relationship with all the girls that i've slept with and can honestly say that they all meant something to me and still do. if you choose to wait that's fine...i mean really it just comes down to our differences in beliefs on the issue. i personally don't see a problem with it. and you have to know that you limit yourself completely in terms of the people you now will even consider dating or being with...and that kinda sucks...not that it is a reason to not do it... |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
well that would be true...i agree with you. of course we think a little differently on things in that...i don't feel like i have to wait til marriage. i have only, except for one girl, had a serious relationship with all the girls that i've slept with and can honestly say that they all meant something to me and still do. if you choose to wait that's fine...i mean really it just comes down to our differences in beliefs on the issue. i personally don't see a problem with it. and you have to know that you limit yourself completely in terms of the people you now will even consider dating or being with...and that kinda sucks...not that it is a reason to not do it... |
Marriage isnt my factor here, its the devotion to another, some choose to codify it and speak vows, yet there are probably billions of people thoughout history who never formalized their "love" for each other. I dunno...ive never really MET someone who disagreed with the concept of :
If you met your wife early on, and you clicked, and you knew, and man, every day rocked...would there be ANY thought of "maybe I should have gotten a few more vaginas under my belt before I started on her"
thats why I was saying sex tends to be a tad selfish. its 2 people being selfish hehe, not saying people are necessarily selfish because of it, but more that the act itself tends to be masturbatical. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by DjWhooCares
i totally agree..
recently me and my ex have settled some stuff so now were good friends..
i hear that shes boned some guy...from what i hear...its not official...
i would def try to get back with her if I KNEW she def did not sleep w/ anyone else..
we both lost it to each other so its one of those things thta i find VERY important..
but since i heard she did someone else....ITs totally out of the question...
i guess im in Orbax page aswell |
see i don't think you're on the same page as orbax because he is abstaining until he finds the right girl and in your case it just seems that you are hurt that she might've had with someone else what she had with you whereas you have not. you see sex as something special between two people...which i agree with, but the fact that your ex might've shared that with someone other than you has you jealous about it. |
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