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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
eat her family. |
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i doubt shell be back..unless she got some very important things she left behind..
but yeah...the guy is only trying to get layed. theres so much the chick will let out..its not like the chick will say "oh yeah an this is me and my boyfriends pad"........bahhh whoocares...beat the outta both of em |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
No, sexual partners doesnt mean a whole lot except when its, on the first date and never see them again kind of and its happened a lot and they keep being that ing stupid. Literally ing stupid. People who can get roped into that stuff...
basically there ends up being a fairly acceptable range of partners over the years, but its fairly obvious when someone has terrible decision making.
Try to give me the benefit of the doubt when lambasting logic :p im not ing stupid :mad: |
no offense my brotha, but why are you digging that deep into their pasts? if there is one thing i've learned its that digging that deep just turns out the be painful and really what would be the point of jeopardizing a relationship because you don't agree with a drunken hookup they once had? i mean...from my own experience, digging that deep just gave me something to really dwell on and get jealous over without there really being any need for that...
ps. who says that they are being "roped into" that kinda stuff...i'd say it usually happens because they wanted it to...
i dunno...i mean i think from now on i'm not gonna go too much deeper than they are clean and healthy...anything else they elect to tell me is up to them, but i think its important not to dig too deep because like you said, there could be things that might bother me and i don't want to blow a great girl or a great relaitonship on something stupid and trivial that gets the best of me... |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
Id want to see her cry in a desparate pile of before I kicked out for good & burned all her possesions.
Then get over her quick. She's not even worth your thought anymore. |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
oh man id give her like the diamond cutter or the stone cold stunner or something when she came sneaking back in the house. cut her up shove her down the drain and eat her family. |
silly dorkface.
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
dame mas chocha!:tongue2 |
LMAO my b/f's friend likes to say "chocha sauce" :stongue: |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
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its more that I tend to get to know people before I try anything with them, and all those long talks eventually make them spill their guts to me after a period of N. I could usually give a about people until I switch over to thinking youre a cool person, and I think that makes people spooge thoughts on to me.
Its like...you probably know your sisters history to enough of a degree, and a lot of your friends, but it wasnt because you said "Hey dude how many chicks did you " it just kind of forms eventually.
So ... I dunno. Especially when they have sex with someone you just want to curb stomp you think "holy F*@@ I misread you if you are willing to talk to that person much less...
but , like I said, I usually dont dig, it just comes out eventually... |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
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yeah i know what you mean. it is frustrating when you find out that kinda stuff and you think...wow, i thought you were better than to do something like that...or especially like you mentioned if they have a past with someone that you really don't like...
i remember when i first started going out with my last real serious girlfriend one of my friends said something to me about him hooking up with her at one drunken party...and i really didn't need him to tell me that...not something i wanted to think about, but thankfully i didn't...
i dunno...it's just a choice i've made since the last time i dated someone. it sounds like you tend to develop feelings for friends am i right? that would definitely make it harder because you're right...you do know a lot. luckily for myself the majority of my female friends and fat and i'm not interested hhahaha :p. |
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| ARNATINE |
| OMG haw weird is this :eek: :nervous: |
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| Stilez |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
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So are u saying that u wouldn't ask..or care to know rather, about her past?? what if she was an Escort for a short while during College.. to pay her tuition. Or worked in a massage parlour?? Wouldn't u think it's fair ....for u're own health to know that? or what if she was kicked out at a young age..and lived on the streets.. forced by her situation to sell her body. U wouldn't care about all that... just as long as she's cool with u??
That's actually a pretty good thing... to meet someone and start completely on a fresh/brand new canvass regardless of their past.. but I mean..if it involves u're health.. like her recklessly getting hammered quite frequently and having multiple one nighters... I think u're entitled to ask..or know.
I mean....u could catch a disease or something. |
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| Orbax |
yeah i hate dating, its for exactly the reasons Vince Vaughn gave in Wedding Crashes at the beginning about a forced awkward social situation.
but, i have met the people im interested in, I know they exist, but so far I have yet to find one not engaged. 23-25 seems to be magical engagement age |
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| Danny Ocean |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
no offense my brotha, but why are you digging that deep into their pasts? if there is one thing i've learned its that digging that deep just turns out the be painful and really what would be the point of jeopardizing a relationship because you don't agree with a drunken hookup they once had? i mean...from my own experience, digging that deep just gave me something to really dwell on and get jealous over without there really being any need for that...
ps. who says that they are being "roped into" that kinda stuff...i'd say it usually happens because they wanted it to...
i dunno...i mean i think from now on i'm not gonna go too much deeper than they are clean and healthy...anything else they elect to tell me is up to them, but i think its important not to dig too deep because like you said, there could be things that might bother me and i don't want to blow a great girl or a great relaitonship on something stupid and trivial that gets the best of me... |
dude i so know what you mean..because with the girl im with right now, sometimes i want to ask her about her sexual history..but then i know ill become jealous over something that has no point..
because what it really boils down to is that, she loves me, shes with me and thats all that should matter. But i know that maybe knowing more would ruin that perception that i have..not worth it over past history.
Besides i think we all saw Pretty Woman. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stilez
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read what i said again...you obviously didn't read the entire thing...i said basically that i would want to know that she is clean and healthy and all of that...
and in a situation like the ones you described i think it would be important to me atleast to know that...because i think something like that if not known about and then found out later in life that i'd be really hard to live with...something like that i personally would need to know about...
what i meant more was i don't really need to know about everytime a girl went out to the bars and hooked up with some dude she thought was hot...no point in killing yourself over it, if you're happy together than why would it matter? i'm sure that would work both ways...if i had a wild night at a frat party...i would think that a girl i'm seeing wouldn't really care to know...
if they do...then be honest about it, but i really think that at some point of time, people mature enough not to need to know about those things. people realize that the future is what is important...we all have drunk stories or crazy stories...it's not something to dwell on and ruin a relationship over... |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stilez
So are u saying that u wouldn't ask..or care to know rather, about her past?? what if she was an Escort for a short while during College.. to pay her tuition. Or worked in a massage parlour?? Wouldn't u think it's fair ....for u're own health to know that? or what if she was kicked out at a young age..and lived on the streets.. forced by her situation to sell her body. U wouldn't care about all that... just as long as she's cool with u??
That's actually a pretty good thing... to meet someone and start completely on a fresh/brand new canvass regardless of their past.. but I mean..if it involves u're health.. like her recklessly getting hammered quite frequently and having multiple one nighters... I think u're entitled to ask..or know.
I mean....u could catch a disease or something. |
you can be sure that someone is clean and healthy without finding out all the dirty details of their past sexual encounters. the past is the past and it shouldn't matter when you're trying to focus on the future. like jason said, discussing how many sexual partners you've had or discussing past relationships just gives the person more to think and worry about. stuff like that is NOT good conversation material when you're trying to start a new relationship. |
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