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whata****ingslut (pg. 12)
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Marriage isnt my factor here, its the devotion to another, some choose to codify it and speak vows, yet there are probably billions of people thoughout history who never formalized their "love" for each other. I dunno...ive never really MET someone who disagreed with the concept of :
If you met your wife early on, and you clicked, and you knew, and man, every day rocked...would there be ANY thought of "maybe I should have gotten a few more vaginas under my belt before I started on her"
thats why I was saying sex tends to be a tad selfish. its 2 people being selfish hehe, not saying people are necessarily selfish because of it, but more that the act itself tends to be masturbatical. |
well maybe i've confused your whole stand on it to this point. if it just happens to be that you haven't found someone yet that you would want to share that with...then that's one thing and i agree. but what if you did meet the girl of your dreams...you guys slept together...and eventually it didn't work out? does that mean that you should never date again or that someone shouldn't date you because you've already had sex? |
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| chojin |
| any nekid revenge pics yet? |
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| Orbax |
| im saying that I believe that there is a potential for someone Ill want to spend my life with, and I kind of am gonna be egotistical on this one and say im a little bit right in holding myself back. I might never meet that person, but im a little hopelessly attached to an ideal, but, again, its one of those things where if you take both ideals to the extreme "everyone waiting" (less world population, more romance :p ) or everyone ing (the world today) i like my idea better ahah |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
im saying that I believe that there is a potential for someone Ill want to spend my life with, and I kind of am gonna be egotistical on this one and say im a little bit right in holding myself back. I might never meet that person, but im a little hopelessly attached to an ideal, but, again, its one of those things where if you take both ideals to the extreme "everyone waiting" (less world population, more romance :p ) or everyone ing (the world today) i like my idea better ahah |
well all i'm saying is that there was a time when i thought i would spend the rest of my life with someone and then it didn't work out...maybe my way of thinking has changed since then, but i just feel like its for the better. i'm still a hopeless romantic...and i'm still looking for someone i can spend the rest of my life with, but if i sleep with someone that doesn't work out...i probably won't feel bad about it in the long run and if the girl of my dreams has a similar past, i don't want to hold it against her...i'll just keep searching and learning from where i up until i find her...but if i feel a strong connection with someone i'm not going to not sleep with them...
anyway...i think i ultimately agree with you orbax...i mean i hate stupid sluts and guys as much as you... |
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| kelly923 |
| what a filthy whore... poor u |
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| Orbax |
I think my point would be that sex still wouldnt be the determining factor in a life long relationship
its like loving family, the idea of Agape, unconditional love. If you loved someone because of everything and sex, and they couldnt have sex one day, you should still have love, implying that it wouldnt necessarily have to happen to have it...
so....maybe waiting a bit of time and try the harder things like moving in and not having the end it all, because we all know how hard it is to live with people even if sex is a mystery...
doin all that....
I just think in the end, people are kind of doing it, because they want to, not because they think they *should* |
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| New Wave |
This sucks man. She's piece of .
Can we have an update of the situation here. You allready saw her? Kicked her face? |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
I think my point would be that sex still wouldnt be the determining factor in a life long relationship
its like loving family, the idea of Agape, unconditional love. If you loved someone because of everything and sex, and they couldnt have sex one day, you should still have love, implying that it wouldnt necessarily have to happen to have it...
so....maybe waiting a bit of time and try the harder things like moving in and not having the end it all, because we all know how hard it is to live with people even if sex is a mystery...
doin all that....
I just think in the end, people are kind of doing it, because they want to, not because they think they *should* |
well i agree sex isn't a requirement for love...
and i agree that people normally do it because they want to...
but why do people avoid sex because they think they *shouldn't*? i don't think everyone is just fulfilling some instant sexual gratification by screwing the second they meet someone hot...so if you're dating someone, what is wrong with sleeping with them? if you care for them...and you both want to...why should you feel that you shouldn't? |
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| jonSun |
| When it starts to get cold, put limburger cheese in the sluts heater core. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
if you care for them...and you both want to...why should you feel that you shouldn't? |
Same reason you arent allowed to poop on eachothers faces in public haha
something gestalt in its greater-ness :) |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Same reason you arent allowed to poop on eachothers faces in public haha
something gestalt in its greater-ness :) |
well i don't really see the point being made by that example hahaa :p
but i guess just answer me this...
lets say you meet a woman and she is everything that you've ever wanted in a woman. you guys are both about the same age...lets just say 25-26ish i dunno. you are completely in love with this woman and she is completely in love with you. the only difference is that you are a virgin and she has slept with 5 guys in her life before you.
as for the situations arising from all of the people that she slept with...they had all been in serious relationships...each one she lived with...and had dated for at least a year before they slept together, so she obviously values her choices when she made them...it wasn't some drunk decision or a wild night out that resulted in a mistake...they are all meaningful to her, but for whatever reason...time goes by and things didn't work out with any of them.
would you not date her because she had been with 5 people and is not a virgin? is it really her fault that she had found 5 people before you that she saw a potential to spend her life with? just because she has had those experiences in life and you have not...is it something that would keep you from dating her? |
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| Basstard |
| quote: | Originally posted by {b.s.e.}
i came home early tonight to find my girlfriend making out with another dude.
speechless. |
dude if it wasnt your own home i'd tell ya to all over the place. |
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