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how come i have trouble with girls in the states? (pg. 3)
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| samiotis |
| i really dont approach women, maybe thats my problem. yes that means i will be off my chair and for the 2nd time thats my cousin in the pic. and yes ohio sucks but if i could goto another state i could goto greece |
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| Floorfiller |
you know to be honest i think it's the wheelchair and probably the age group that you're in right now. i'd have to say that most younger american girls aren't going to want be with someone that they think they are going to have to, as someone said earlier, take care of or are going to maybe have to sacrifice something for because they simply are just out there trying to have fun and don't want anything in the way of that. hell, lots of girls that age aren't even looking for serious boyfriends for the same reason. i'd say your average girl in a bar is going to choose the guy that's not in a wheelchair over you if you guys have similar personalities and similar level of attractiveness because it's just one more thing they might have to deal with and they are too young and carefree for that.
i think the bars would be the wrong place to meet people in the United States in general not just for you, but i do think it'd be extra hard for you because of the reasons i've said. no offense to any of the wonderful american girls on this site :p, but i'd have to say that most american girls are too selfish and immature to handle dating someone seriously at a young age in a wheelchair because they are going to be focused on the physical limitation above things that really matter. and i can't just blame the women, i think that would go for most guys as well. even i personally would have to say that at this point in my life, it'd have to be a pretty special woman for me to want to date her if she had a physical handicap like that. i just think its the difference in culture and also the age range that you're in right now...
hope that wasn't too discouraging...just trying to be honest... |
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| HardTranceProd |
Hey Samiotis.
In the past, where have you been successful meeting girls?
I don't mean Greece or the US. I mean, what places .. like clubs, bars, sports activities, etc.?? |
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| Estella |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
you know to be honest i think it's the wheelchair and probably the age group that you're in right now. i'd have to say that most younger american girls aren't going to want be with someone that they think they are going to have to, as someone said earlier, take care of or are going to maybe have to sacrifice something for because they simply are just out there trying to have fun and don't want anything in the way of that. hell, lots of girls that age aren't even looking for serious boyfriends for the same reason. i'd say your average girl in a bar is going to choose the guy that's not in a wheelchair over you if you guys have similar personalities and similar level of attractiveness because it's just one more thing they might have to deal with and they are too young and carefree for that.
i think the bars would be the wrong place to meet people in the United States in general not just for you, but i do think it'd be extra hard for you because of the reasons i've said. no offense to any of the wonderful american girls on this site :p, but i'd have to say that most american girls are too selfish and immature to handle dating someone seriously at a young age in a wheelchair because they are going to be focused on the physical limitation above things that really matter. and i can't just blame the women, i think that would go for most guys as well. even i personally would have to say that at this point in my life, it'd have to be a pretty special woman for me to want to date her if she had a physical handicap like that. i just think its the difference in culture and also the age range that you're in right now...
hope that wasn't too discouraging...just trying to be honest... |
Exactly! I couldn't think of a way to lay it out so... effeminately.
My neighbor is handicapp and has married for over 10 years. I would think that to be the most challenging of relationships. Challenging yet strongest bond. |
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| Gravgon |
About the difference of culture, I'm not sure it's the primary reason. I live in Belgium, it's Europe, and yet I think it's hard to get girls here.
I went 1 week in Italy and it was much easier to get girls than here, same thing when I went to France.
But at the end, I think it came from my attitude, when I was in those other countries, I had nothing to lose and I felt I could just go and ask out any girl. This added a lot to my self confidence and we all know the chicks dig that =) |
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| smallSHEEP |
In bars and clubs you must get a eye-to-butt or butt-to-eye view!! :wtf: sweet
edit : except for the blokes that's not cool. |
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| Aiwendil |
| He must get sweet dick-to-eye views! Yeah! |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by smallSHEEP
In bars and clubs you must get a eye-to-butt or butt-to-eye view!! :wtf: sweet
edit : except for the blokes that's not cool. |
he must put dj sammy is number one in his sig :stongue: |
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| samiotis |
| floorfiller i agree with you i know what you mean. i know the wheelchair plays a huge roll too, people try to tell me it doesnt matter but i know it does. i'm not really looking for a girlfriend either, but when i was in greece i met a girl from texas weho is greek, we ended up dating for 3 weeks and she told me she loves taking care of me i told her shed get sick of it and she still said she wouldn't she was great. but i ened up breaking up with her because we were both getting too attached and we were both on vacation and we didnt want a serious relationship. she's only 20. anyways we talk now just bout everyday since were both home. before my accident i didnt goto bars since i wasnt 21 yet i just went to house parties and raves. |
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| Zeiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
floorfiller i agree with you i know what you mean. i know the wheelchair plays a huge roll too, people try to tell me it doesnt matter but i know it does. i'm not really looking for a girlfriend either, but when i was in greece i met a girl from texas weho is greek, we ended up dating for 3 weeks and she told me she loves taking care of me i told her shed get sick of it and she still said she wouldn't she was great. but i ened up breaking up with her because we were both getting too attached and we were both on vacation and we didnt want a serious relationship. she's only 20. anyways we talk now just bout everyday since were both home. before my accident i didnt goto bars since i wasnt 21 yet i just went to house parties and raves. |
are u gonna be forever in a wheelchair or is it just temporary?? |
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| samiotis |
| zelter im not planning on it, i'm progressing slowly i believe eventually i wont need this piece of to get around |
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| Mr. Pink |
The best approach
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No Approach
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