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how come i have trouble with girls in the states?
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| samiotis |
i was in greece for 2 1/2 months i had 0 trouble with girls, even being in a wheelchair it didn't bother most. i didn't go up to one girl, they would all come to me. here in the states i have the hardest trouble getting girls, i don't know if its the wheelchair or not. i just can't seem to get any numbers at all. i dont think i'm a bad looking kid, i also have a good sense of humor and good personality.
i also think it could be the setting here, maybe i'm going to the wrong places to meet women. and for you who are pics or stfu, i'm waiting for pictures from my friends and cousins on cd's so i will post the pics :)
any ideas or thoughts are greatly appreciated by anyone men or women thanks
here's a couple pics of me and friends :)
p.s i had a ing blast in greece as soon as i get better im moving there.
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| dj_bas |
| its because you're an american |
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| HardTranceProd |
OK.. are you American?
where do you live?
Where do you go to meet girls?
Who are your friends?
Are you in college?
more info please |
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| bananas |
| not to offend you or anything, but the girl in first pic, who could've problems..? |
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| samiotis |
girl in first pic is my cousin :)
i'm greek but born here and live here, i've lived in greece for 5 years
i live in cleveland
i usually goto bars sometimes clubs but the clubs here suck
those pics are from greece, i'm now back in the states :(
and no i'm not in college yet i'm gonna go back in the fall, i haven't gone to school since my accident and that was 3 years ago. i'm 24 now |
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| Mr. Pink |
ok so here's my honest opinion.
you're not a bad looking guy, you can get chicas, this is known.
being in a wheelchair isn't all that bad, cuz you can get plastered off your ass and you have someone to push you around. No fear of collapsing on the floor, drunk, in a cess-pool of your own vomit.
so that's a plus.
why don't girls like you in the states? hmmmmmmmm, do you have an accent? if not- get one, and quick!
show your humor more, show your confidence, don't question you being in a wheelchair, just be a social person (extra, if need be).
i dont know WHY you don't get girls, but check it out-
im NOT in a wheelchair and i dont get girls either :(
so i think this is more of a "GUY PROBLEM" and not just yours.
y'see?
in the end, it's all good brotha. Just dont feel down about this whole thing. American girls aren't that great anywayz ;)
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| samiotis |
actually i've gotten plastered lots of times and i managed to falll out of my chair and also not be able to sit up in my chair :) once i start talking to a girl im really outgoing its just getting to that point, no i dont have an accent, also i dont plan on being in this ing much longer. until i go back to greece though i need to find an american chick
thanks alot for your post |
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| ZzZ The Goddess |
I know some guys in wheelchairs they rarely get any girls but they dont complain. They dont go after girls either they just wait for girls to come to them since they want to make sure a girl is ok with the situation before trying to persue her.
Being a female I dont have a problem with it but I can picture some girls seeing it as an inconvenience at times. I wouldnt worry about it, as long as you have a good personality you will def get a girl eventually but like anywhere else in the world there is always competition, you are not the only guy in America that is looking for a good woman. |
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| kid nyce |
| based on the redness in your eyes, i'd say you was more than drunk! =) and remember, (gonna catch heat from girls on this one) you can catch chicken heads anywhere, you take those home and wear out then go find yourself a new one (chapelle show)! so don't worry man, they'll find you... |
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| Estella |
You have georgous eyes.
Personally, rolling you around all day? I get enough of a workout on the treadmill, shiat.
hahaa I kid.
A friend of mine was talking to me about the same thing. We just got back from Spain. The girls were flocking to him. He says it never happens here in the US. He's the one thats always had to make the first move. We've concluded this: It's just the differences in culture. When we were out, there were cat calls in a good manner, others just come up to you. There are no barriers, no inhibitions. The socialization process is just different, how everyone works in social groups, etc. I know, that cliche stereotype is coming; I think Europeans are much more open; inviting. And then you come here, back to the US, and never know. Mind games, "rules" We have some staring, maybe a turning of head to glance back, etc to show interest. We have no effin' backbones and fear rejection, and therefore don't approach? We're a mess. We are colddddddd asss iceeeeeeeeee. Go back to Greece, cutie. Get out on that sweating dancefloor with those spinning rims of yours.
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| dj_bas |
if anything that wheelchair is a plus....you can go to clubs and girls will remember you. they'll be like "oh hey...i remember you"
and BAM you're in
there's a guy i see at Avalon all the time in a wheelchair...he has girls all over the place
but he has an accent....damn you wheelchair guy! |
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| Estella |
| yes, yes. Not to mention the innumerable positions. :eek: |
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