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how come i have trouble with girls in the states? (pg. 5)
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| Linden Flowers |
The answer too all your problems. |
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| samiotis |
| it's not the fact that i want to meet a girlfriend it's just girls don't look at me or approach me like they did in greece, i would always catch girls staring at me in clubs, here i look at just bout every girl and nothing. maybe i'm just asking for too much who knows |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
it's not the fact that i want to meet a girlfriend it's just girls don't look at me or approach me like they did in greece, i would always catch girls staring at me in clubs, here i look at just bout every girl and nothing. maybe i'm just asking for too much who knows |
All I can tell you is, here in the US, I do catch some girls checking me out occasionally. But when I went to Montreal, Canada, or Europe for vacation, not a single girl checked me out even when I wore the best clothes possible. So... the US is not the worst choice for me ;)
I think the US is far under-rated, :cool: |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
he sooo does, too! :D
If I had to describe from head to toe what my type (physically) is, he would be the perfect example. And he’s sensitive and sweet and not macho and he’s very metro, which I know I usually make fun of, but it’s so adorable with him.
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god jamie...stop describing me...i didn't want the CORe to know :nervous:
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
it's not the fact that i want to meet a girlfriend it's just girls don't look at me or approach me like they did in greece, i would always catch girls staring at me in clubs, here i look at just bout every girl and nothing. maybe i'm just asking for too much who knows |
well america is definitely a place where you have to do the approaching. i know it's hard, but the majority of the time girls here aren't going to approach you... |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
All I can tell you is, here in the US, I do catch some girls checking me out occasionally. But when I went to Montreal, Canada, or Europe for vacation, not a single girl checked me out even when I wore the best clothes possible. So... the US is not the worst choice for me ;)
I think the US is far under-rated, :cool: |
Had any women in Montreal been interested in you they would have approached you... Quebec girls don't play the shy innoccent girl game.
Compared to women in Europe and Canada American girls are prudes. I suppose that is to be expected considering your nation was founded by puritans and quakers. It's really kind of sad, there is such a preasure put on young women to appear pure and virginal that they feel ashamed to proposition a man. This also exists in Canada but to a much lesser extent.
The easiest way to meet women is to just approach them. Chances are if she has caught your eye you've also caught hers. I never have understood this fear many men have when it comes to initiating contact.... what's the worst that can happen, she's not interested.... big in' deal! Sure, if you try you may fail but if you don't try you can't succeed. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Had any women in Montreal been interested in you they would have approached you... Quebec girls don't play the shy innoccent girl game.
Compared to women in Europe and Canada American girls are prudes. |
You're correct to an extent. However, it's not that simple.
First of all, the average American loses his or her virginity at age 16, compared to the Canadian average of about 17-18, according to official studies. This disproves the idea of American girls being too puritan. Just watch any Girls Gone Wild episode. Go to any frat party. I know the media and the politicians are puritan but that doesn't mean the real people are.
Secondly, with regards to Canadian and European girls being more open: It's true, but there's a disadvantage. In my experience, European girls are much more cynical and jaded than the American ones. This cynicism has some root causes which I won't go into right now, but if you want I can expand on that in a PM.
My point: Euro girls are not as friendly and liberal as you make them out to be. It's not that easy to meet them, I've tried. They're accustomed to dirty streets and widespread prostitution which makes them think much more cynically of males.
Think very carefully about this last sentence, and try to recall the last exchange student or temp worker from Europe you've seen. |
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| metalgearsolid |
| American girls are stupid they have been socialised to a point where they only want guys who are athletic and six foot five. They also want a guy who is "though" or what that really means is a guy who talks a lot of so hes a bitch and so are the girls who like guys like that. Don't waste your time trying to get American girls they are ing stupid and not that attractive. If you really wanna meet cool girls I say go to Germany everyone there is really nice and the girls are a lot more diverse. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
My point: Euro girls are not as friendly and liberal as you make them out to be. It's not that easy to meet them, I've tried. They're accustomed to dirty streets and widespread prostitution which makes them think much more cynically of males.
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It would seem that you and I have had very different experiences with European women. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by metalgearsolid
American girls are stupid they have been socialised to a point where they only want guys who are athletic and six foot five. They also want a guy who is "though" or what that really means is a guy who talks a lot of so hes a bitch and so are the girls who like guys like that. Don't waste your time trying to get American girls they are ing stupid and not that attractive. If you really wanna meet cool girls I say go to Germany everyone there is really nice and the girls are a lot more diverse. |
Disagree. There's not that much difference between American and Western-European girls (other than, of course, the fact that the Europeans aren't afraid to show off their bodies on the beach ;))
But anyway, there's a Western kind of lifestyle, where a very high standard of living has made women more independent, and therefore a great deal choosier in males (because their career/success/etc. doesn't depend that much on them anymore); and then there are other lifestyles, where life isn't so great, like Russia and China, and where the style is more traditional.
Now, if you were to draw a distinction between those lifestyles, I would agree. But American and German? Not really. The same "bitchiness" which you describe is there as well, because of the Western realities and individualism.
I've been to Germany. I've been to a lot of countries.
Here in DC I see a lot of German chicks in clubs and at parties (they're au pairs here). They're cute but there's really NO difference between them and your typical white American chick, in terms of behavior and attitude. (Intelligence, maybe, then again, not a whole lot different.) |
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| Floorfiller |
| i'd really like to go to europe and meet a beautiful woman and date her seriosuly for some time...i think that'd be really great to date somenoe from another culture like that...just to see what its like...i bet it rocks hahaha |
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| metalgearsolid |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
I've been to Germany. I've been to a lot of countries. |
Well I have been to a lot of countries also, but you say some women are independant? With the way they spend and their crappy salaries its really the guy who is taking up the bill. I understand that women consider themselves "independant" but how independant can they be when they are making less than most educated men? oh yea most women are not engineers or in ITor doctors those are the jobs where you are most likely to make a lot of money not marketing or business(depends how far you get in business like start your own company or become CEO of a a corp). |
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