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Guys...be honest (pg. 15)
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
and what did we learn?
most guys say it's creepy and considered rape.
most girls say it's hot. |
translation... no means yes :tongue3
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
I'll tell you tomorrow ;) |
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| Slylee |
lol lucid...i know right?
oh and i wasn't saying that it's impossible for ANYONE to sleep through sex...i just meant for me. i'm a pretty light sleeper.
but when i was drunk...that was another story. i pretty much blacked out and didn't remember much when we got home. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
and what did we learn?
most guys say it's creepy and considered rape.
most girls say it's hot. |
Well , you get busted as a guy for rape you're totally ed, so it's more of a 'better safe than sorry' mentality I think :conf: |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Well , you get busted as a guy for rape you're totally ed, so it's more of a 'better safe than sorry' mentality I think :conf: |
i guess i'm just analyzing it from my own perspective, there's no way i'd EVER press rape charges against my bf... but i also forget how many psychotic and manipulative girls there are out there, that probably would press rape charges if their bf forgot to pick up milk on the way home or some .
i definitely see both sides... |
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| Moongoose |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
I'll tell you tomorrow ;) |
Only if this doesnt happen :D
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
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| quote: | most guys say it's creepy and considered rape.
most girls say it's hot. |
Proving once and for all that girls are much naughtier than boys :D |
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| Slylee |
lucid's gonna get sleep ed this weekend! woo h00!
maybe i should go out with my bf this weekend and pretend to get all wasted and see what he does. hahaha |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moongoose
Proving once and for all that girls are much naughtier than boys :D |
dude, i haven't had that many close girlfriends, but from what i've learned over the years... girls are nasty freaks. they just hide it a lot better than dudes.
and bobby brings up a good point with the "better safe than sorry" theory... i think in a way guys are limited as to what they can say or do, because a girl might freak out over it. whereas if a girl says or does something perverted, most dudes would be like "HELL YEA!"
sucks for you guys :p |
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| FallingMoon |
I LOVE being woken up for sleepy sex...best sex ever!!! Mostly because it's unexpected!
BUT I wouldn't like drunk & unconscious sex cuz it would creep me out to think my b/f only likes to do this when I am unresponsive :nervous: |
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| allcentury18 |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
I LOVE being woken up for sleepy sex...best sex ever!!! Mostly because it's unexpected!
BUT I wouldn't like drunk & unconscious sex cuz it would creep me out to think my b/f only likes to do this when I am unresponsive :nervous: |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
BUT I wouldn't like drunk & unconscious sex cuz it would creep me out to think my b/f only likes to do this when I am unresponsive :nervous: |
but what if it happend like once and the sex when u are conscious is great...like he's REALLY into it and really into you. i mean, if he can't even get it up unless you're knoced out, then yea, there's a problem. but if he just did that once, or if u found out he kinda has a thing for "taking advantage of your innocent body when you're passed out" sorta thing, would that freak you out too?
that's kinda normal to find that hot right? i mean from a guy's perspective...is it hot to take advantage of your drunken sexy girlfriend passed out on your bed in a thong (just spicing it up a bit so u can think about it as more than just "ewww that's creepy").
right? |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
but what if it happend like once and the sex when u are conscious is great...like he's REALLY into it and really into you. i mean, if he can't even get it up unless you're knoced out, then yea, there's a problem. but if he just did that once, or if u found out he kinda has a thing for "taking advantage of your innocent body when you're passed out" sorta thing, would that freak you out too?
that's kinda normal to find that hot right? i mean from a guy's perspective...is it hot to take advantage of your drunken sexy girlfriend passed out on your bed in a thong (just spicing it up a bit so u can think about it as more than just "ewww that's creepy").
right? |
I think he just wanted to have sleep sex with you cuz he was turned on I really don't think he meant to do it because you were unresponsive...I was just saying IF he does it ONLY when you're like that then maybe he has a weird fantasy not necessarily a nasty/scary one. Try it again to see if anything just talk to him about in a normal conversation about sex...like did that turn you on? blah blah
but then again, we're women, we always read TOO much into everything. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i mean from a guy's perspective...is it hot to take advantage of your drunken sexy girlfriend passed out on your bed in a thong (just spicing it up a bit so u can think about it as more than just "ewww that's creepy").
right? |
alright, i'm not a guy. but here's what i think it really comes down to... it would be pretty ed up if it was just some random girl or a girl you JUST started dating, but i think after you're with someone for a while and you're in a pretty serious and comfortable relationship, you learn to know what is considered "crossing a line"... i think most guys would be able to guess if their gf/wife would freak out about something like that. it all depends on personal preference whether someone would find drunken passed out sex fun. some guys probably wouldn't enjoy humping their girl if she's just laying there doing nothing. some guys probably enjoy it because it's naughty and it gives them a sense of dominance.
but this really brings up another very important question...
say you're having drunk sex, and your partner passes out while you're going at it... do you stop, or do you keep going until you finish? |
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