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Guys...be honest (pg. 6)
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| FallingMoon |
well I've woken up to being touched & my legs being opened, my b/f knows I am a light sleeper so anything would wake me up, I don't think he had/has a rape fantasy because looking at it like that is kinda creepy.
I've woken him up to getting on top of him & I was fully on so is that considered rape? :p |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
well I've woken up to being touched & my legs being opened, my b/f knows I am a light sleeper so anything would wake me up, I don't think he had/has a rape fantasy because looking at it like that is kinda creepy.
I've woken him up to getting on top of him & I was fully on so is that considered rape? :p |
I think thats just good times. Its actually really cool to wake up and realize the other person is into it.
come on any guys that have woken up with their gf begining to give them a blowjob will know what I mean. Its amazing!:tongue2 |
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| Floorfiller |
yeah like i said earlier...i tend to agree with moral hazard. unless it's something you've discussed, then i don't think it's something that you should do.
and if you're not ok with it jamie, you should put a stop to it. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Falcon-X
well im sure he was expecting her to wake up. You really think its possible not to wake up? I really doubt it, so its not rape, its just somewhat kinky and not even much. Now if he knew she was drunk that night or something like that and would not wake up, thats sick |
She said she was passed out (from intoxication).
FYI, in most north american jurisdictions any sex act without prior expressed consent is rape, therefore, even if he expected her to wake up chances are that it would be considered rape under law. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
really? i think i am... maybe not as much as i used to be... but i definitely don't consider myself a dominating person. |
I don't think you are a "dominating" person, but you also don't let any bull fly... Case in point: Being upfront with your boss about Chris...
Maybe you don't run out to smash and grab and take what you want, but you're honest about what you want, and you're going to get it one way or another... You don't wait for things to happen to you, you take on a very active role in making them happen...
I think your personality in life is pretty much the same as your personality in bed... but before we turn this thread into a discussion of our sex life and totally kill it, I should go get breakfast, coffee, and brain drugs asap...
:p
@ Bobby: Alright, no more... srsly.... :( |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by FallingMoon
I've woken him up to getting on top of him & I was fully on so is that considered rape? :p |
legally yes, however, my guess is he wouldn't press charges. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
There is a difference between waking someone up looking to have sex and penetrating them while they are asleep. The former is permissable the later is illegal.
I think one of the key things to look at here is motivation. Did he actually want her to wake up? IF so then that mitigates it a bit but if he would have prefered she stayed sleeping then I think this whole thing is a sign of very servious and potentially dangerous personality defects. |
i really wouldn't go so far as to call it "rape" though... i mean there's a pretty huge difference between "rape" and being forward and/or kinky with someone you're in a serious relationship with. i would never consider that rape if it happened to me... if i didn't want it, i'd push him off, roll back over and start snoring. if it's something that he keeps attempting, i'd tell him to chill out and quit it.
then again i tend to have pretty leniant attitudes towards sex, so maybe i'm the pervert. |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
She said she was passed out (from intoxication).
FYI, in most north american jurisdictions any sex act without prior expressed consent is rape, therefore, even if he expected her to wake up chances are that it would be considered rape under law. |
ok since she was passed out... its pretty ed up. Now about the rape thing, I mean come on if you dont mean any harm to the other person and its your gf or wife then its just not rape. Obviously if you know your partner would not be into this kind of thing then DONT DO IT. if you know she'd like it then go for it. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
does it turn you on to think about having sex with your girlfriend (or a sexy chick in your bed) while she's sleeping?
i mean like if she's just laying there in her underwear dead asleep and her ass looks really nice or something...would you look at her and get arroused and then get undressed and climb on top of her and start going at it? |
Hahahahahaha.
My bf does it all the time. And I've done it plenty of times to him. But we've been together for so long that we've become pretty sick and twisted. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i really wouldn't go so far as to call it "rape" though... |
the courts and legislatures would.... and have. |
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| Aiwendil |
| It's perfectly fine. Old people do it all the time. Especially after 8 P.M. I blame Viagra. |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
She said she was passed out (from intoxication).
FYI, in most north american jurisdictions any sex act without prior expressed consent is rape, therefore, even if he expected her to wake up chances are that it would be considered rape under law. |
OOOO ok...I was really intoxicated once to the point I was completely blacked out. My b/f said he wanted to have sex but he felt so bad that I was passed out to the point I would have never known if he had sex with me & that didn't make him feel comfortable. I can see why. |
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