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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
ok ok..so it happened. and i'm not like all creeped out, but i'm just really curiuos because my bf seems really innocent and this is obviously NOT innocent behavior. he's obviously got some little perverted side to him.
i'm gonna talk to him about it this weekend though.
my theory is this. he's very passive and non-confrontational in person...so it would only make sense that he likes to dominate in bed...it's the only way he can regain himself.
i'm a very aggressive and a "leader" type of person...i'm very strong willed, yada yada...so in bed, i like to be dominated. it's pretty normal actually. there's worse cases. lots of rich powerfull business men like to be tied up and dominated and slapped around. so it should be the same for very shy people right? that's when they get to shine:) |
i don't think it's that perverted... i mean there's nothing that weird or kinky about it. it's just sex, and if you guys are seriously dating then i don't really see it as weird if he wakes you up for sex. he has the freedom to do that because it's something he can't do with any random girl he might hook up with if he was single... you're his girlfriend, you love him, and you're not going to dump him if he wakes you up with his penis.
me... i'm submissive in the real world and in bed. but i've known many people who that theory is very true for. |
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| CraveTheRave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
but like i said, i'm not like all scared or whatever. i'm just like, "ok wow...my bf's a little pervert"
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Not a pervert, he just loves sex. Face it, EVERYONE is a nymphomaniac... just depends on how much you actually let it show. He's letting his nympho side play out more now. |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Srsly, penetrating someone while they are unable to make a choice as to whether or not they would like to be penetrated is RAPE. Pure and simple. Whether or not you've had sex before, you love each other, etc. makes no difference. My thinking is that anyone who would do this is either a) stupid or b) acting out a rape fantasy. Perhaps some of you may excuse it because it has worked out well in the past but I would be very wairy of anyone who would do this. |
well obviously you dont just penetrate the person while they sleep. You wake her up naked and close to her and she'll know whats going on pretty quickly... if she dosent want to she'll just tell you. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
me... i'm submissive in the real world and in bed. but i've known many people who that theory is very true for. |
You're not that submissive in the real world... ;) |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
and i was having a convo with a friend who thinks it's not normal |
probably dosent have a very diverse or exciting sex life. :o |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
You're not that submissive in the real world... ;) |
really? i think i am... maybe not as much as i used to be... but i definitely don't consider myself a dominating person. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i don't think it's that perverted... if he wakes you up for sex. |
There is a difference between waking someone up looking to have sex and penetrating them while they are asleep. The former is permissable the later is illegal.
I think one of the key things to look at here is motivation. Did he actually want her to wake up? IF so then that mitigates it a bit but if he would have prefered she stayed sleeping then I think this whole thing is a sign of very servious and potentially dangerous personality defects. |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I think one of the key things to look at here is motivation. Did he actually want her to wake up? IF so then that mitigates it a bit but if he would have prefered she stayed sleeping then I think this whole thing is a sign of very servious and potentially dangerous personality defects. |
Agreed, but I doubt that would be the case. If it is, watch out hes a wacko |
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| UWM |
PM, SRSLY.
edit: @ teh wiscos |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Falcon-X
well obviously you dont just penetrate the person while they sleep. |
But in the first instance that is what he did! |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
what about banging your passed out/drunk girlfriend and then pulling out and cumming in her mouth and making her swallow it. |
I loled at work :stongue: |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
But in the first instance that is what he did! |
well im sure he was expecting her to wake up. You really think its possible not to wake up? I really doubt it, so its not rape, its just somewhat kinky and not even much. Now if he knew she was drunk that night or something like that and would not wake up, thats sick |
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