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Being aroused vs. being affectionate (pg. 2)
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| Excite |
| You're talking about intimacy vs passion. Intimacy can be felt amongst family and same-sex friends with a lack of passion/physical attraction or 'horniness'. Read my thread on soul mates for more info. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
to be honest, i think you're just too immature for a real relationship.
based on what you said...
you don't take relationships seriously because you are dating people that you aren't really into like lucid suggested. you like physical stuff, but when it comes to other aspects of the relationship, you don't want them because it's a burden to you because you aren't into the girl. |
Thanks for the well-thought-out response.
You are correct except one thing. I don't even want the physical stuff with these "real" girlfriends, because I don't feel lust for them. I only crave physical stuff with sluts, strippers, and one-night stands. That's my problem: I'm aroused by illicit and slutty women, as opposed to "normal" dating situations with "nice" girls.
But perhaps this has to do with everyone's early experiences. My early experiences were all with girls who were very slutty, i.e. no real relationships. |
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| DOOMBOT |
| Relationships aren't a joke nor should be taken as one. If you get yourself in one then be serious about it and realise that your partner isnt always going to want to have sex. You can do it with that person any time you want! So sometimes cuddling should be good enough. Easier said then done, I can tell you that, but the more you work on it the easier it will become and the happier you will be. :) |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
yeah I'm sure that's how it is for most women, but what about us men? You already have some evidence from DOOMBOT's reply above that it can be a little different for us men.
Anyway, most men admit that they want sex to be "dirty" and that they fantasize about strippers, whores, etc. |
what about you men? well let's see... the men that i know don't have a problem combining love with lust when they are in bed with a girl. to me that sounds more like something a boy would have a problem with.
and what magazines are you reading that teach you that "most men" admit they want dirty sex? you really need to get off the idea that men want dirty sex with whores and women want nice loving sex by candlelight on pink silk sheets... men AND women want dirty sex. men AND women also want nice romantic sex. but the key to great sex (of all variations) is finding a partner who you are compatible and comfortable with in every aspect - sexually, mentally, etc...
btw, how old are you? |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
btw, how old are you? |
25. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
Welcome to the male version of the friend ladder.
Who knew there even was one? |
could you elaborate? |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
25. |
ok, so i assume you've had a few meaningful relationships by now, but have you ever fulfilled your fantasy of hittin' it with a whore, hooker, or any other equally dirty girl?
the way i see it you have 2 options that may solve this dilemma...
1) a whore
2) find a nice girl who s like a whore
good luck, and remember to wear protection. :gsmile: |
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| Swamper |
if we had a relationship forum lücid would be all over it
:D |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| If you ever create that forum, please name it "Motel 6." :stongue: |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
if we had a relationship forum lücid would be all over it
:D |
:stongue:
what can i say... i enjoy relationship threads wayyyy too much. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | | it's like she becomes a "littler sister" |
Just Do It
come on....who hasn't thought about doing their sister |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
If you ever create that forum, please name it "Motel 6." :stongue: |
you gotta give me more credit than that, girl! my relationship forum would be high class... DoubleTree jacuzzi suite style! :p |
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