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Ever Wanted To Do Suicide? (pg. 5)
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
seriously people stop sympathising or pitying this guy.... all that accomplishes is letting him wollow in his sorrow. That's what he wants and will continue to do so as long as you let him. The correct thing to do is just tell him to either buck up and deal with it or go ahead and end it all. Feeling bad for him just allows the status quo..... like a bum.... if people keep giving bums pocket change they make enough of a living to scrape by in their deplorable conditions and lifestyle.... this does not help them. Rather then giving them change we should be giving them the finger. Once they start to starve they'll either get their together and make something better for themselves or they'll die..... both are preferable to what they have if we keep giving them change. The only difference with this pathetic soul is that he's looking for pity rather then pennies. |
i don't disagree with you, but don't you think that in cases where someone is seriously depressed and considering suicide, they actually do need people to sympathize and pity them? i definitely don't think that the internet is the best place for this... if anyone is seriously considering suicide i'd hope they'd talk to their family/friends/doctor rather than coming on an internet forum looking for pity.
i just don't think it's a good idea to tell someone who is seriously depressed "eh get over it and cheer up or just kill yourself" |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i just don't think it's a good idea to tell someone who is seriously depressed "eh get over it and cheer up or just kill yourself" |
Either he gets over it, which signifies he's strong enough and worthy of life or he doesen't and he kills himself, which signifies he's not strong enough and therefore not worthy of life. Either way things have worked out as they should. If people get in the way and coddle him so that he refrains from killing himself but lives a pathetic life of constant depression, emptyness and suffering then truely those people have done him the worst injustice any person could do another.
FYI..... this is a guy who suffered a "major depressive episode" and has been diagnosed with chronic clinical depression talking.... there is only one way to beat it.... CHOOSE TO.
Damn I'd love to continue with this thread but I gotta go home and do the wife. I'm sure it will still be raging tomorrow. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Damn I'd love to continue with this thread but I gotta go home and do the wife. I'm sure it will still be raging tomorrow. |
doing the wife > talking about suicide
:D |
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| sensorium |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
i want to do it now, im sick of all the people at work, all the problems i have about my holidays and my parents wanting me to kick me out the house, grr i just wanna..... i dont know anymore.. i think im that desperate:( |
Man, that's just normal life. If you're sick of the people you work with, simply quit and find another job. About the holidays, it shouldn't be something to be worrying about, much less thinking of suicide because of them. Just forget about it all, not by commiting suicide obviously. And about your parents, that's also normal. Just talk it over with them and ask for time. Moving out might do you good. But then again it would give you more time to be by yourself and keep thinking about suicide. Only you know what's best for you.
Those three reasons aren't enough to commit suicide. All three could be solved in a timely manner. Of course it seems easy to people not currently going through that crap but you can reason through all this, hopefully.
My advice is that you keep away from sharp things and Dick Cheney.
Now, if you continue thinking about suicide I highly suggest seeking professional help. Or you could do it now, it wouldn't be as useless as commiting suicide. |
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| arcadia190 |
bidor
just dont do it
its stupid running away from problems
specially killing urself lol |
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| Danny Ocean |
| pay someone to kill you instead. |
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| wizniz |
beats and beeps is right.
17 sucks a lot.
that is all.
19? not so bad. |
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| kofrad |
| quote: | Originally posted by wizniz
beats and beeps is right.
17 sucks a lot.
that is all.
19? not so bad. |
17 has been ok for me, except that i know 3 people who died in the past year. hopefully 18 is better for me, which is coincidently in 3 more days. woot! 18 on sunday! |
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| bidor |
| thanks guys:) im not trying to be a attention whore, maybe i took it a bit to extreme. but it was my expression of how im feeling right now, quite . i wont do anything stupid as some posts made me realize how much pain it would cause to the ones closest to my heart. although with all the problems i have i think i need to talk, but in my situation at this moment thats quite hard:( |
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| arcadia190 |
glad u decided 2 be alive
:D
welcome back:D |
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| DjSimonB |
It annoys me that every time someone posts a message about being depressed/suicidal, everyone jumps on them with either "just do it" or basically calls them lame.
I've kinda been though stuff like that, I guess a lot of people have. I'm young too and have had similar stuff (crap jobs, parents have kicked me out, got bullied a load at school and home, crap with 'friends', etc) which some of the older members might not consider too bad but they do matter when you're that age... just life, I guess. Some people are affected worse by some things than others, last year I was diagnosed as depressed, which I know doens't really mean that much but I guess it just means things sometimes affect me more than they should and I find it hard to see the 'bright side' of things a lot of the time, as well as all the physical like crap sleep, weird appetite, loss of interest in hobbies (for me, that was destroying all my motivation towards DJing and producing which I'm still having a pretty hard time finding again even though on average I'm feeling a bit better now) and stuff.
Not really much else to say that hasn't been said already, suicide's generally not the best thing to do and you just need to go through stuff like that, life isn't always the way you want it to be, often it's much less than ideal. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
i want to do it now, im sick of all the people at work, all the problems i have about my holidays and my parents wanting me to kick me out the house, grr i just wanna..... i dont know anymore.. i think im that desperate:( |
cheerup at least ur not Nou |
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