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how to break up...tastefully? (pg. 3)
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| kid nyce |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
Well, I work with him so I'm extra screwed. Guess it's time for my vacation...
I've become friends with almost all my exes, so I know how possible it is. We have lots planned for the next 2-3 months so do I ride it out, talk to him about a possible slight change, or just snip it? |
true story, i had a vacation planned, booked, and paid for with my ex and possibly 2 weeks prior to leaving we both decided it wasn't a good idea to go on the vacation, problem couldn't get our money back. we decided to go and try and be friends about the whole thing....wasn't the greatest idea but we made the best of it. random tantrums here n there, but we managed. i say really gauge the importance of these events together and see if at all possible to remove yourself from them. possibly attend some randomly over the course of the 2-3 month period to see how things are between you...this will be the ultimate judge as to the character you both portray...it'll work or it won't.
edit-as for working with him LOL - sorry to say but it sounds like you are screwed. lol - wish you luck |
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| Stunade |
About 5 months, which is freaking LONG for me!
I do tell him he's ridiculous for thinking such things, but he thinks I'm too naive to see the "real" World, when in fact I do and he doesn't so...I look at overwhelming good, and he focuses on the bad. He did say he wishes he saw things how I do. :conf: |
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| Stunade |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
im really really immature" |
That's neither funny nor true. |
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| beats and beeps |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
That's neither funny nor true. |
or is it both funny, and true? |
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| Stunade |
| I try really hard to have lasting relationships but, they come crashing down like always. That or I just find that one, irrepresible foible that drives me INSANE! |
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| lex400sc |
| he sounds like an assclown, why be tasteful about it? he probably wouldn't even appreciate/recognize the effort. |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by beats and beeps
hey you got one of beats and beeps' rare semi serious posts.
that is like catching a god damn charizard. |
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| weymouth |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
irrepresible foible |
Whoa whoa WHOAAA!!! TA is a dictionary free zone. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
I try really hard to have lasting relationships but, they come crashing down like always. That or I just find that one, irrepresible foible that drives me INSANE! |
at least you dont have prejudices though... |
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| Stunade |
| I always find a FLAW...is that better? ;) And it's always one I can't let go of easily, or really at all. |
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| igottaknow |
| give him the old 'its not you its me' line. works everytime |
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| RapidFire |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
give him the old 'its not you its me' line. works everytime |
not if his name is george costanza |
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