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how to break up...tastefully? (pg. 4)
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| Stunade |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
at least you dont have prejudices though... |
No, I really don't, but isn't that a GOOD quality?!@?! :rolleyes: |
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| Dervish |
Not really read all of this (skimmed.. drunk you see) but how about:
"It's not you it's me" (well he'll get the message... and aleast he'll know you are trying to be nice)
OR maybe even the truth? I hadn't noticed how long you've been going out with him but you reelled off quite alot of of "negatives" there. Are you sure you haven't been putting this off too long and his "major flaw" one that to some degree... well everyone has.... is actually a cover for something else which doesn't feel so self gratifying?
(p.s. I'm an arse while drunk........ sorry... normally I'm nice) |
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| Spacey Orange |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
I can deal with my boyfriend: being overweight, having chronic illness, with scars covering his body, him not listening to edm at all, supporting evil companies (buying/trading), listening to Stern, seeing the World in a negative light...but I can NOT deal with his predjudices! I'm such a hippy, in love with everyone, at peace with the Earth, and he's just not-at all. I can't change that, and don't plan to, but how do I tell him I want to leave? :sadgreen: :sadgreen: :sadgreen: |
break up tastefully? what are you stupid? there's no en way to do that. |
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| bogartgreens |
| tell him that you feel that the two of u are at "different points" of your life and that you need to be independent in order to hve some time to think and do things for yourself....at least thats what all those girls told me be4 i got the boot :nervous: |
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| Stunade |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spacey Orange
break up tastefully? what are you stupid? there's no en way to do that. |
I'm anything BUT stupid, and yes, there is a way to go out with some class, though I doubt you have any. |
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| beats and beeps |
| Just tell him you smoke weed everyday, and he doesnt, so its over. |
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| Sunsnail |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stunade
I'm anything BUT stupid, and yes, there is a way to go out with some class, though I doubt you have any. |
that's no way to get an answer |
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| Dervish |
I just read the "should I still go out with him for 3 months because we planned it... maybe a sligth change" bit.............. you obviously don't even like the guy! BREAK UP!!! ARRRRRGGGGG
You have a list as long as yor arm that you don't like about him which to be fair is what you first presented to us (and I KNOW you are going to go but hes x y z and y and sometimes REALLY z) but fact is I think you don;t like him. End it now. |
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| Stunade |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dervish
you reelled off quite alot of of "negatives" there. Are you sure you haven't been putting this off too long and his "major flaw" one that to some degree... well everyone has.... is actually a cover for something else which doesn't feel so self gratifying?
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I guess you're not too drunk, since that's a valid point. But those have been overlooked, until now. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by RapidFire
not if his name is george costanza |
i forgot about the costanza clause :o |
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| Stunade |
| Why, you want me Derv :haha: |
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| igottaknow |
i just had a brilliant idea.
if you have a black friend, stage a make out scene where ur bf will happen to see. you won't have to break up with him, he'll drop you like a hot poatato. problem solved |
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