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gals who like bad boys (pg. 3)
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
LOL
Who cares if nice guys come last or whatever. They are more grounded and more naturally charming than bad boys. |
But that's what girls don't get.
Don't appreciate nice guys and they'll become bitter arseholes who will end up beating up their gfs, wives one day :stongue:
j/K
* ok that wasn't funny I admit * |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
I have been dumped several times for being romantic cause the girls weren't romantic at all... at least that's what I have been told several times.
You think it's true or it's some BS excuse girls love to use?
OH it's not you! It's me! You're too good to me! blah blah blah I'm not ready to be in a relationship blah blah blah ...
and that same evening you catch them at some bar making out with a random dude cause they really can't get involved with anyone right now..... |
i don't know what sensible person would dump someone because they were romantic. what were you supposed to be...a jerk?
mmm...yeah, sometimes i think it's a BS excuse some girls use. i just think they should be real about it. for me, i think the phrase "it's not you, it's me" really equates to "it's you, not me". |
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
i don't know what sensible person would dump someone because they were romantic. what were you supposed to be...a jerk?
mmm...yeah, sometimes i think it's a BS excuse some girls use. i just think they should be real about it. for me, i think the phrase "it's not you, it's me" really equates to "it's you, not me". |
The girl I was in the longest relationship with ( 3 years or so ) the week after she dumped me she started going out with this coke head who had just killed his brother 6 months before ( drunk driving ) and was a manic depressive cause of it.
She was always complaining to me about the guy but nope she stayed with him and eventually moved in with him. |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
But that's what girls don't get.
Don't appreciate nice guys and they'll become bitter arseholes who will end up beating up their gfs, wives one day :stongue:
j/K
* ok that wasn't funny I admit * |
LOL
I'm very appreciative with nice guys, an I'm good at avoiding at pissing them off. I maybe young but I'm an old fashioned romantic, that's just me. ;) |
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| bidor |
here is my opinion on girls.. most girls think theyre pretty and ignore the nice guys.. so instead they hook up with bad guys, to stand out in the crowd. im sick of having a gf and having to dump her for some reason... everytime again.. im sure there are nice girls:) but im not jumping to find or have a gf atm, because i know i wont have time for her. i hate these short-term relationships. and imm hoping to find a girl i can share a part of my life with.. somebody who understands me. and somebody i can talk to openly, wich i expect her to do the same..
a girl you can trust... man where are they?:rolleyes:
Bidor:) |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
The girl I was in the longest relationship with ( 3 years or so ) the week after she dumped me she started going out with this coke head who had just killed his brother 6 months before ( drunk driving ) and was a manic depressive cause of it.
She was always complaining to me about the guy but nope she stayed with him and eventually moved in with him. |
that's crazy! i just don't know what to say about that. |
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
that's crazy! i just don't know what to say about that. |
There's nothing to say. Some people just like to suffer.
Now I didn't explain that she had huge self doubt issues, and would constantly say things and later contradict herself totally. Her unstability always freaked me out. |
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| RapidFire |
| There has to be a balance, I think. I believe most mature girls look for that in a man because both nice guys and bad boys have their cons; most nice guys are too clingy and over-sensitive and most bad boys are complete posers who dont really care about anything but themselves. you dont have to be a total fruit cake but you do have to respect your woman. in the end its all about charm, I think. if you can make a woman laugh and show her a good time then it doesent really matter... |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
how bout a born again guy who can still make your legs shake more than mohammed ali;) |
tempting
as long as he can give me a rose AND i'm guaranteed to not be able to walk for at least 15 minutes after, all in one day :) |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
here is my opinion on girls.. most girls think theyre pretty and ignore the nice guys.. so instead they hook up with bad guys, to stand out in the crowd. im sick of having a gf and having to dump her for some reason... everytime again.. im sure there are nice girls:) but im not jumping to find or have a gf atm, because i know i wont have time for her. i hate these short-term relationships. and imm hoping to find a girl i can share a part of my life with.. somebody who understands me. and somebody i can talk to openly, wich i expect her to do the same..
a girl you can trust... man where are they?:rolleyes:
Bidor:) |
I completely agree with what you've said. I don't like anyone who finds someone, just to use them as a badge and for sex or whatever. If they really like someone, they will be honest with their feelings with them and will be prepared to commited themselves to them, if they want a relationship to work. They also can't cheat, take advantage, lie, be deceptive, suspicious, edgy, harsh, unfair or anything bad to them. Simple. I'm sure the majority of everyone here knows what to do when they're with someone they really like and know how to avoid the dangers at the same time. Unless you and the other person are completely constrasting to each other and can't relate at all, then it's ok to break up for that reason. That's how it worked with my last bf.... :: Takes a deep breath ::
But it's mainly common sense. :: Apologies if I put anyone to sleep ::
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
I completely agree with what you've said. I don't like anyone who finds someone, just to use them as a badge and for sex or whatever. If they really like someone, they will be honest with their feelings with them and will be prepared to commited themselves to them, if they want a relationship to work. They also can't cheat, take advantage, lie, be deceptive, suspicious, edgy, harsh, unfair or anything bad to them. Simple. I'm sure the majority of everyone here knows what to do when they're with someone they really like and know how to avoid the dangers at the same time. Unless you and the other person are completely constrasting to each other and can't relate at all, then it's ok to break up for that reason. That's how it worked with my last bf.... :: Takes a deep breath ::
But it's mainly common sense. :: Apologies if I put anyone to sleep ::
:p |
j/k
you sound perfect !
Where do I signup? :p |
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| Allied Nations |
| Some girls call me a bad boy, some girls call me a nice guy.:stongue: :stongue: |
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