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gals who like bad boys (pg. 4)
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Allied Nations
Some girls call me a bad boy, some girls call me a nice guy.:stongue: :stongue: |
Are you Jekyll and Hyde then? :p |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
There's nothing to say. Some people just like to suffer.
Now I didn't explain that she had huge self doubt issues, and would constantly say things and later contradict herself totally. Her unstability always freaked me out. |
mmm...on the plus side, less headaches for you then at this point? and yes, i do think that some people trive on drama and are somewhat masochistic (not saying this is necessarily your girlfriend, but i'm talking about lots of people)
| quote: | Originally posted by RapidFire
There has to be a balance, I think. I believe most mature girls look for that in a man because both nice guys and bad boys have their cons; most nice guys are too clingy and over-sensitive and most bad boys are complete posers who dont really care about anything but themselves. you dont have to be a total fruit cake but you do have to respect your woman. in the end its all about charm, I think. if you can make a woman laugh and show her a good time then it doesent really matter... |
if a man can make me laugh and have a good time, then that's awesome. and you're right, while there is a balance, i think it also depends on the personality of the chick. if she's insecure and needy, then she might go after a certain type. some girls want a man they can walk all over and use...some want a man that give them status (riding in a nice car, fancy dinners, money spending, etc). and some girls want a man that can reciprocate respect, care, genuinity, etc. it's just hard for the guys to have to pick these girls out from a crowd... |
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| all-nite-freak |
nice guys crowd and bend over for their women too much...
a woman wants to be dating a man, not a puppy that follows her everywhere |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by jdat
j/k
you sound perfect !
Where do I signup? :p |
Haha! Well bidor already took the vacancy. :p ;) |
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| bidor |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
I completely agree with what you've said. I don't like anyone who finds someone, just to use them as a badge and for sex or whatever. If they really like someone, they will be honest with their feelings with them and will be prepared to commited themselves to them, if they want a relationship to work. They also can't cheat, take advantage, lie, be deceptive, suspicious, edgy, harsh, unfair or anything bad to them. Simple. I'm sure the majority of everyone here knows what to do when they're with someone they really like and know how to avoid the dangers at the same time. Unless you and the other person are completely constrasting to each other and can't relate at all, then it's ok to break up for that reason. That's how it worked with my last bf.... :: Takes a deep breath ::
But it's mainly common sense. :: Apologies if I put anyone to sleep ::
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Miss perfect girl, will you marry me? |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
Are you Jekyll and Hyde then? :p |
:)/:disbelief
I don't know, I try and be a nice guy, but I know I do things sometimes that wouldn't be considered nice and I party all the time- I never get into relationships though because then there is no official commitment, but whenever I'm in a thing or something I'm always faithful- I walk a fine line between the two. |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
here is my opinion on girls.. most girls think theyre pretty and ignore the nice guys.. so instead they hook up with bad guys, to stand out in the crowd. im sick of having a gf and having to dump her for some reason... everytime again.. im sure there are nice girls:) but im not jumping to find or have a gf atm, because i know i wont have time for her. i hate these short-term relationships. and imm hoping to find a girl i can share a part of my life with.. somebody who understands me. and somebody i can talk to openly, wich i expect her to do the same..
a girl you can trust... man where are they?:rolleyes:
Bidor:) |
yea i so agree with getting the bad boy to stand out in a crowd. as for the trusting issue, it's hard to trust some people nowadays....it's quite sad. |
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| pvdAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
Miss perfect girl, will you marry me? |
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We would have to meet first, obviously. ;) |
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| bidor |
| quote: | Originally posted by pvdAngel
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We would have to meet first, obviously. ;) |
would love to... but you live to far away:( |
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| RapidFire |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
if a man can make me laugh and have a good time, then that's awesome. and you're right, while there is a balance, i think it also depends on the personality of the chick. if she's insecure and needy, then she might go after a certain type. some girls want a man they can walk all over and use...some want a man that give them status (riding in a nice car, fancy dinners, money spending, etc). and some girls want a man that can reciprocate respect, care, genuinity, etc. it's just hard for the guys to have to pick these girls out from a crowd... |
well said. its hard to know what youre getting yourself into. I suppose its all down to experience. I just believe that charm and a sense of humor will get you a long way.
looks dont hurt either :tongue2 |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
not a puppy that follows her everywhere |
that's what some girls want
pretty pathetic
couple's need to simply realize that everyone is their own person and the man and woman both need a separate life, not with each other 24/7 |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by Azia
that's what some girls want
pretty pathetic
couple's need to simply realize that everyone is their own person and the man and woman both need a separate life, not with each other 24/7 |
Exactly why I don't like to commit. I know I have my life, and it's mine not hers. |
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