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Another thought-provoking thread by slylee (pg. 10)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by ambs
that made me LOL. seriously. :) that's kinda cute but yea, not what you want him to have as his ringtone for you if you're not interested :p |
i know, i definitely smiled and thought, "awww". but it's just not there. |
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| ambs |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i know, i definitely smiled and thought, "awww". but it's just not there. |
:) btw, this is the same guy we talked about yesterday right? |
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| tctitan |
| this is funny because this just happened to me. i've been friends w/this girl off/on for about 7 yrs. now and recently told her i was interested; we were just sitting down talking and she told me straight up that she just wanted to stay friends. once i knew for sure, because she was not very clear w/her signals, then i was like cool. i took a shot and no harm no foul, now we hang out more than we ever did and there's no pressure. |
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| all-nite-freak |
| i bet if he smacked you around a bit you would be attracted to him:p |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
Do you guys thinks it’s wrong or “ed up” to continue to hang out with a person who likes you as more than a friend, and probably thinks he/she might have a chance in the future?
I mean if you genuinely have a good time with that person (when you go out to a club as a group), but you've dropped major hints that it's just friendly, yet they still keep trying to sucker you in for dates, should you just cut them off? |
( I haven't read the thread yet, so If im repeating anyone, sorry )
Nope, If you're being truthful with him/her, it's out of your hands if they still like you. If there is still a great friendship there, you should still hang out , I mean no need to cut off a great friend, clubber, buddy! If they still like you, that's thier fault, I mean you've told them and were stright up with them from the start, so good for you. |
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| Orbax |
you broke up with Craig?
and if hes trying to get break up sex hes a rapist. Ditch him. |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_bas
Seriously, what a dick. Doesn't he know you have 3 other guy friends to do that. Tell homeboy to step off our turf. |
:stongue: :stongue: :stongue:
man I gotta wake up earlier, I miss all this quality cor time. |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
And btw thank you akridot!
The way I see it is, he’s clearly not an idiot, yet he is chosing to be. He wants to me, plain and simple. I’m confident that he likes my personality too and would probably like to date me seriously, but the bottom line is that he thinks that he has a chance of scoring with me. I have made it CRYSTAL clear to him that I’m depressed about my breakup and whatnot. I don’t really call him back, I’m always declining dates with him… So I see it as he’s a big boy and he needs to smarten up and take a hint. But you men can’t do that. You’re always thinking with your penises and trying to get in our pants. And while he’s a nice guy, he also has a penis, so I don’t feel THAT bad for him. But I will still give him the respect of some straight-forwardness since I did kiss him that one night while drunk. I admit to that being stupid. I’m gonna lay it out for him in an email. I’m not going to have a bite to eat with him to tell him this because I don’t owe him anything face to face. I’m not breaking up with the guy, I’m just letting him know I’m not available for anything other than friendship and he can take that or leave it. |
I love how you give the blanket knock on all men, then you say, I did kiss him. :p That one kiss totally nullifies all your rejections, especially if thats the last experience you two had together.
Im in the same situation right now, though kissing has happened several times (ocassionally with no inebriation), and she says to me like, 'I could spend everyday with you.' Guys often think with their dicks, ill fully agree, but girls send mixed messages and expect everything to be kosher. No ones hands are clean |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
No ones hands are clean |
Hey you man, I use soap! |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis86
Hey you man, I use soap! |
Do you see a wedding ring on my finger? Does this place look like I'm ing married? The toilet seat's up, man! |
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| Clovis86 |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
Do you see a wedding ring on my finger? Does this place look like I'm ing married? The toilet seat's up, man! |
Obviously, you're not a golfer. |
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