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The dumbest **** I have read today (pg. 2)
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunsnail
Well, 5-6 year olds will be exempt from this law. |
well i dont care if its 3 or 4 a little spanking goes a long way.
If a 3 yr old sticks his/her finger in another 3 yr olds mouth at daycare or something..(lets not blame the daycare at this time this is just to make my point) and the kid gets bit you think he will stick it in there again no cuz that hurt..
a 3 yr old acts up in the store and mom smacks that ass you think he will do that again .. no cuz they know that ass is gonna get whopped if they do it again.
keep in mind im not saying a beating on the verge of child abuse but a little smack.. please... |
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| idoru |
| I was only spanked once. I never ran into the street without my mom again. She still regrets doing it. |
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| changosanch |
| quote: | Originally posted by chach
im glad my parents raised me the way they did i see all these little s running around talking back to their parents (anyone with a latin mother can agree) if i ever talked back to my mom or was direspectful i would straight up get back handed.. kids today are little spoiled s |
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| grooviebeats |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Hmm. I think I do.
-I don't believe in spanking any kids, and when I HAVE my own, I won't be spanking them. |
and what will be your plan to keep them from acting up..
are you going to talk to them and see how they feel .....talk about their emotions? |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
and what will be your plan to keep them from acting up..
are you going to talk to them and see how they feel .....talk about their emotions? |
Denying them the ability to use or do something they enjoy is far more effective than spanking. It worked for me; every time I acted up, I was threatened with having my favorite thing at the time taken away so I shut the up. The only problem with this is that parents have to be able to not give into their child's disappointment when the kid realizes, "Oh, , I guess she actually took it away." |
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| nchs09 |
| i actually like it. there is no need to spank a kid.. i used to listen to my parents and what not... and they didnt spank me, sometimes i didnt listen and they just reasoned, took away stuff.. etc. |
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| RickyM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ygrene
Forget spanking, I'm going to give my kids the Stone Cold Stunner |
Haha, I just got a mental picture of you doing that...there are trays and broken tables everywhere, and the place is silent. The wean learnt his lesson though! |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
"Oh, , I guess she actually took it away." |
THIS is how bad kids have gotten today! They're cursing in their thoughts too!
*looks for paddle* |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
and what will be your plan to keep them from acting up..
are you going to talk to them and see how they feel talk about their emotions? |
That's how my mother raised me. Never once did she place her hands on me. I pulled a fit once in a grocery store and she look me in the eye and said, " Don't you EVER do that again, ever" and I stopped. Never again did I talk back, pull a ft, act out ( aside from the teenager phase I went though)
IMO, and what I and my friends have been though with parents, getting yelled at or talked to aggressively, works better than hitting your kids.
answer me this: When your kid acts out, you'll spank them....what appends when they don't take it seriously and turn around and do what they did the first time? Spank them again? You'll only end up spanking and spanking them which is how some parents start abusing their kids. ( I doubt you'll ever do that, I'm just saying as an example and what I've heard happened to kids before. |
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| grooviebeats |
| the problem i have with taking things away..is when i was a kid you just found something else to play with. No biggie.. kids know they will get it back sooner or later i did and that crap didnt work. |
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| RickyM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
That's how my mother raised me. Never once did she place her hands on |
Aye and look how you turned out, a in' tearaway! ;) |
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| luisjb82 |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
Denying them the ability to use or do something they enjoy is far more effective than spanking. It worked for me; every time I acted up, I was threatened with having my favorite thing at the time taken away so I shut the up. The only problem with this is that parents have to be able to not give into their child's disappointment when the kid realizes, "Oh, , I guess she actually took it away." |
Exactly.
I believe in rewarding good actions and that will always be far more positive and will get better results, than punishing bad behaviour with any kind of violence or destructive criticism. |
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