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Question for the girls (and advice from guys is appreciated) (pg. 14)
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
Even worse story...
My high school sweetheart ended up cheating on me with several different girls one summer when I left. I was living in Japan and had come back to the U.S. for the summer to stay with my mom. My dad was going to be gone for most of the summer too on deployment and stuff so my house was going to be vacant. I was stupid enough to leave the key with my boyfriend. It was so he could go there to drink with his friends, not other girls. Yup...he ed one of the girls at our school IN MY HOUSE. lol
There’s nothing worse than cheating on a girl who lost her virginity to you. Oh man was I a wreck after that. Had to go on Zoloft for a month or so until I stopped taking it because it was making me more depressed. I finally just got over it once I moved back to the U.S. my senior year but that was no walk in the park...for me OR my dad. He really struggled with how to handle me during all of that. I hadn't lived with my dad since I was 5 and then I just randomly went to live with him when I was 15. He didn't have a clue what to do so he always just let me do what I wanted. Bought me a bmw and never gave me a curfew lol.
I remember when I found out about the cheating. It was like 11:00 on a school night and I called up my bf and he answered and I was like, "I'M COMING OVER RIGHT NOW! GO OUTSIDE" and I slammed the phone down. I stormed out to the front door and my dad was sitting on the couch having his scotch like, "honey??" I was like, "Not now dad, I have to go beat the out of my boyfriend, he cheated on me!!" hahaha
He tried to calm me down but just let me go. I was a mess by the time I got to his house. I ran up to him and punched him in the face and hitting him in the chest asking him why he would do that to me. He had to hold me down and press me up against the wall until I calmed down. Then he hugged me and I cried to him for like 20 minutes. I kept going from angry to sad every 2 minutes. It sucked. The worst was when he decided to come clean about EVERYTHING the next day. By that point, so many people were talkign , he figured I should just hear everything from him, rather than find out from everyone else. I had to sit there while he told me about all the times he cheated on me.
ughhh...I can't believe that was my first experience with "love"
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what'd you expect..you moved to Japan! haha. there's no way highschool relationship is gonna out last that kinda distance and time.
well atleast i think we all would know that now heheh :p |
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| Slylee |
| no it wasn't like that. i was living there for 10th and 11th grade and all i was doing was going back to the U.S. for like a month and a half to stay with my mom during that summer. we never agreed to take a break or anything like that before i left. we were still a serious item. i was going to be coming back and spending the next year for 11th grade there. |
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| Slylee |
| In a way I’m glad it happened now that I look back. The whole first year of me living in Japan, I was just so goddamn whipped on him, I didn’t really do that much. I was always just being with him. I was living in JAPAN for christ’s sake u know? Then once we broke up, I spent my 11th grade year dating this young marine. Lol he was 19 (I was 17, so it wasn’t that bad). He showed me around off the military base and me and my girlfriends started going out and partying all the time at the bars and clubs in Japan. Going to karaoke bars n stuff. It was ing awesome. I had never really gone out and done that and even though I was underage, who gives a . It was an opportunity to party in another country and I’ll never forget those times. |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
This is a common male misconception. Every girl does NOT love Tiffanys. Most girls think Tiffanys is highschool-grade-puppy-love-I-stole-200-dollars-from-my-parents-for-this-huge-ass-necklace
gifts. |
Whatever..."many" girls dig Tiffanys. My point is that it won't be hard to find a guy who will give buy it to give his girl. |
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| Slylee |
Just talked to my dad. He'll let me know tomorrow. I was right though, it's totally something she would love. It's just that there's no real special occasion coming up for him to buy it.
PS- give it to him for $150 and i bet he'll take it. ;) |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
Whatever..."many" girls dig Tiffanys. My point is that it won't be hard to find a guy who will give buy it to give his girl. |
Yeah, it's not something I would ever ask for, because it's not the kind of thing I desire. But I wouldn't complain if my bf bought me something from there either.
Gifts of just about any kind are nice. Especially when your man buys them of his own will. :) |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Gifts of just about any kind are nice. Especially when your man buys them of his own will. :) |
Yea, rather than having to hog tie him and beat him like a pinata to get him to buy you gifts... right?
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| DigitalMP |
btw, i'm leaving this thread permanently before i get killed in some gruesome manner.
not a safe place for the male species, this thread is. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Yea, rather than having to hog tie him and beat him like a pinata to get him to buy you gifts... right?
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LOL!
Well I dunno. I know that some chicks expect that kind of and get their men to buy them all kinds of crap or else they get all pissed off.
I just think it's a much nicer gesture to get something when you least expect it, because your man was thinking about you...not because he knew he'd be in the dog house if he didn't. |
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| mezzir |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
LOL!
Well I dunno. I know that some chicks expect that kind of and get their men to buy them all kinds of crap or else they get all pissed off.
I just think it's a much nicer gesture to get something when you least expect it, because your man was thinking about you...not because he knew he'd be in the dog house if he didn't. |
+1
and then you can save the hogtieing for special occasions:thepirate |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by mezzir
+1
and then you can save the hogtieing for special occasions:thepirate |
Exaaaaaaactly. ;) |
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| Slylee |
my dad's wife made it very clear that her ring HAD to be a tiffany's ring. lol
she got one but it wasn't very big. i'm sure my dad spent like almost 10k on it and it's a little under a karat. he could have gotten a very decent ring twice that size at like Mayor’s or something. |
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