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Getting married (pg. 10)
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| emc^2 |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
wow dude that sucks! i hope something can be done to fix whats wrong but i also know its not always possible.
and thanks again for the vodka! im going to open it next weekend! :)
and the word spelling is proselytizing. i had to look it up though haha. |
Yeah, that's the word - I couldn't find it. Thanks! Dunno. thinking about getting anti-cult councelor involved... INTERVENTION-style, as her family is up in arms about it too.
p.s. You're welcome dude, glad you get to enjoy it responsibly soon:crazy: :D |
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| emc^2 |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
we know, this is like the hundredth time you've told us *sigh* |
for some reason reminds me of a scene in "not another teen movie" where chick comes up to some dude @ party and says "Hi, my name is (so and so)" and dude says "Yeah I know, we just had sex".
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
and the word spelling is proselytizing. |
try saying that while your drunk |
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| RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by emc^2
Ha! :stongue: So you were paying attention!!!! LOL. I keed I keed.
besides you got so much more!! a family that tokes up together... or you both love pu$$y... the furry variety!!! erm, I mean the MEOW koshka variety... and your DJ duo sounds like fancy pizza cheese - c'mon TURNER & ROMANO has a certain ring to it. Like "I'd like a pizza with extra Turner & Romano cheese"
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That's what I'm saying. :) |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
that's pretty much exactly how i feel about it...
honestly i don't really expect much to change after RJT and i get married. even before we started dating, we had an amazing connection, and our commitment towards each other has been incredibly strong from the very beginning. our feelings have only grown stronger over the last 2 years, and i truly feel that they will continue to grow like that for the rest of our lives.
basically... it's not the act of getting married that makes you more committed and more in love. that kind of stuff happens naturally over time, and getting married is just one way to celebrate it. |
yeah this is pretty much how i feel too.. i've been married for 2 years now and it wasn't really any diffrent than when we were dating, except now we have a kid. Eli and i are somewhat religious so it had to do with god and it mostly had to do with us making a legal commitment to each other. I plan to be married for a long time.. i would like to think my love is unconditional, so if pops up, we could work through it. However, i don't think anyone should tolerate physical or mental abuse, and i would have a really hard time forgiving adultery, but if it stopped i might be able to, who knows.. also emc^ situation, that's rough.. anyhow, LIRA! you will know for yourself if marriage is right for you now, if you are unsure about it, it's probably not a good idea yet. I had no 'pre wedding jitters' the night before because i knew exactly what i was doing. If she can't stick it out, then she'll have to realize at some point that you did her a favour. |
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| lücid |
| a mutual love of pot & kittens, and names that make pizza delicious are obviously the keys to a healthy relationship. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| quote: | Originally posted by emc^2
Yeah, that's the word - I couldn't find it. Thanks! Dunno. thinking about getting anti-cult councelor involved... INTERVENTION-style, as her family is up in arms about it too.
p.s. You're welcome dude, glad you get to enjoy it responsibly soon:crazy: :D |
good luck with that.. seriously, it sounds like she choose some nutty cause over her own marriage.. and some may say that's the pot calling the kettle black, but my religion wouldn't promote causing strife in your marriage to convert someone. |
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| igottaknow |
| so are you going to open up a pizzeria together? |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by emc^2
Yeah, that's the word - I couldn't find it. Thanks! Dunno. thinking about getting anti-cult councelor involved... INTERVENTION-style, as her family is up in arms about it too.
p.s. You're welcome dude, glad you get to enjoy it responsibly soon:crazy: :D |
be careful with that. not that i dont support it as she has obviously chosen religion over you but it could make it worse. of course you will not know unless you do it though. just make sure you get her family involved. as you already mentioned her family is up in arms about it too cause shes gone psycho about this. i hope for the best in it all but i know that theres always extenuating circumstasnces that may or may not keep this all together.
| quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
good luck with that.. seriously, it sounds like she choose some nutty cause over her own marriage.. and some may say that's the pot calling the kettle black, but my religion wouldn't promote causing strife in your marriage to convert someone. |
unfortunately religion is a powerful thing. its fine to have your convictions too many religious people take things wayy too far. generally religion teaches tolerance but it seems that religious people are some of the most intolerant of them all. very sad but true. |
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| Slylee |
emc, oh my god, that sucks!
i'm not even joking when i tell u that i'm going through a similiar thing, only it's with my mom. she's becoming more and more religious and it's creating a huge barrier between us...just when things were starting to get healthy and mature with us (my mom and i have had a pretty unhealthy co-dependancy type of relationship for ever lol).
so yea, i just dont get into it with her, but she is so ing blind and moronic sounding w/ the catholic bull. it's amazing to me how stupid she sounds despite being really smart. when she starts w/ the jesus talk, i'm just like, "uhh, i gotta go to the store, u need anything" *out the door* lol
i'll be out of there soon enough, but still...i can't stand it. and not only that, but she's a big hypocrite too. she claims she's so religious, but she's always talking abotu ppl and not doing very "christian like" things. i know she's human and she gets caught up in every day bull like we all do, but i mean cut the christian bull propoganda if all u do is sin. she just picks and choses which part of each religion she likes and just listens to what everyone else tells her about religion. i keep encouraging her to just do some research and make up her own mind instead of turning to her phony "born again" christian boss. she works at a law firm that is "faith based" and they are the biggest phonies ever. one of them is having an affair with his secretary and the whole office knows...and she goes to THEM for advice? it's a ing joke. And to make things worse, she gets really irrational if I call her out and we start arguing to the point where I just give up because I don’t want it to escalate so I just change the subject.
so yea, i feel u on that and i'm sorry to hear that. i ing hate religion and i refuse to make it a part of my child's life. id rather they do some research and studying on their own when they're old enough to realize what it is and then I’ll respect whatever decision they make. I was raised catholic with my confirmation and communion and stuff, and I’d like to think there is some sort of reason we’re all here or some sort of pretty after life, but I’m definitely not religious by any means. I’m content just being a good person in life and doing my part and not pushing my views on everyone else. it sucks because i love my mom a lot and we're really close in a lot of aspects but we're also like on different planets most of the time. |
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| dj tek |
| my moms a catholic.. so was i until like 14... lol |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i ing hate religion and i refuse to make it a part of my child's life. id rather they do some research and studying on their own when they're old enough to realize what it is and then I’ll respect whatever decision they make. |
Oddly, I am religious and feel the same way with regard to children. |
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