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My Parents are Crazy Story (pg. 5)
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| AndreaCKY772 |
-she blames it on us when my sister and i get sick
-she ignores us when she's mad at us (she's been working on it since that big fight we had)
-she hid the bottle of vodka and made it seem as if i was the one who was not going to show it to the family
-she acts fake in front of company
-she likes to hide things of ours if it pisses her off enough (she used to do it when we were younger... for example i had a tori amos cd cover and she hid it from me because she hated tori amos)
-she is a drama queen
-she gets angry when she hears the music i listen to or she makes snide comments
-she thinks i'm an imbecile and tells me the same things to do over and over again and when i tell her "i know" a lot she gets upset and says "yes, because you know everything!" it's like, NO...i know because it's common sense and you repeat all that 24/7
i remember one time i was in the fourth or fifth grade or so and my mom gave me a training bra... i wore it and i told two of my friends about it (actually the other girl was going to be y friend later in life... we didn't really like each other then). i found out from my friend that she had called me flat chested and i got so upset and i was crying when i was home. my mom was pissed off at ME saying "why did you tell her you were wearing a bra?!" yeah....memories. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
one time i got really drunk after my mom was ignoring me because i told her that my bf would probably not watch "chronicle: barbados". i got insanely drunk, she ended up calling the ambulance and i told them not to take me to the hospital. we got into a big fight later on that night. i HID the bottle of vodka in one of my bags and the next mornign when i come back over (i went over to my sister's place later that night after the argument) to talk to her, i see the bag i hid the vodka in was OPENED. we had a talk and then she ASKED ME WHERE THE BOTTLE OF VODKA WAS. i was looking all over the place and i asked her if she knew where it was because i had a feeling she took it. SHE THEN WAS LIKE "YOU CANNOT LEAVE HERE WITHOUT FINDING THAT BOTTLE". i knew she had the bottle because i found the bottle tag in the kitchen a few months later and then my sister told me a week ago that she FOUND THE BOTTLE IN MY MOM'S ROOM. yes, my mom has problems and that's only one of the many things she has tried to pull. |
yea umm i dont get this story at all lol you got drunk because your boyfriend wouldn't watch something? and then your mom stole a bottle of vodka and blamed you? |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea umm i dont get this story at all lol you got drunk because your boyfriend wouldn't watch something? and then your mom stole a bottle of vodka and blamed you? |
i tried to shorten the story, but i guess i didn't make it very comprehensible. the entire situation was so STUPID. she is from barbados and she saw that there was going to be an episode on barbados on the show "Chronicle", so she told me to have my bofriend watch the show. i told her he might not watch it... so then she got mad at me saying "well any man who is not interested in your background is not interested in you". so she ignored me because of that for two days! it's not that he would not watch it because he was not interested, i just figured he probly might forget to watch it or he might be busy.
so ANYHOW... my mom was ignoring me and i was going back up to campus in a day (this was winterbreak of 2007 in january). i didn't want to leave on a bad note so i went to her room to talk to her and ask her why she wasn't talking to me. she was like "you're not talking to ME"... and all this bull...she KNEW started ignoring me over the chronicle show incident. so i talk to her and then she's all like "i have to go to the bathroom" so she goes and i leave the room thinking things are fine...thinking we were going to talk more about it. she's STILL not talking to me and all of the sudden she wants me to fix the phone cord for her so she can talk on the phone WHEN WE WEREN'T DONE TALKING. i fixed it for her and gave up trying to make amends with she already brought up in the first place... so i was in the other room drinking and i ended up drinking a load that night...i went to my room to lie down by the floor and she evntually came by and thought something had happened to me so she kept calling my name and she gave me cpr and she called the ambulance. she said my pulse was high and i wasn't responding properly..... |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
and so when the ambulance comes by, they get me on the stretcher and i tell them not to take me to the hospital. so when they leave, my mom and i start screaming at each other... i tell her NOT to call my sister because my sister was already going through stress and i didn' need her to get more stressed over this situation and i ripped the phone cord out of the jack... my mom was like "get away, get away...blah blah". so when my sister and her boyfriend come over after my mom calls her, i was just a mess crying and everything. i was just so frustrated everything got to that level and now i was the one looking like an idiot because she ignored me for 2 days over a television show.
i go over to my sister's place later that night and when i come back the next morning to talk to my mom, i realize that the bag i had hid the vodka in was opened and in the living room. i had the bag in my room. my mom was looking through my stuff... SOOOO
she asks me "where is the bottle, andrea?" so i get up looking for it, thinking it fell outof the bag but i realized that i closed the bag back up so she couldn't see the vodka before. she TOOK the bottle of vodka and HID it. so now it looked like i was lying and i didn't want to show them the bottle when she had it hidden since she found it last night. the next day she told me i could not go back up to school unless I FOUND THE BOTTLE. i told my sister that she had it and what do you know, last week my sister told me she found the bottle of vodka in my mom's room. |
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| Slylee |
ooh ok, yea that makes a lot more sense. details girly!!
my mom used to try and control me with guilt, but it doesn't happen these days, not sure why...guess she gave up on that lol i think all mom's do that. |
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| Silky Johnson |
It's funny...all the stuff my mom did when I was in high school that I thought was really wacko, I'm SO grateful for it now. She would call my friends' houses late at night looking for me, or drive around to look for me. Sometimes it WAS a bit much....but , she gave a about me. Her chasing me down kept me out of real trouble, and I look at all my other friends who had apparent freedom...and they're all ed up now.
<3 my mother. |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
i hear you. the guilt stuff pisses me off...my mom is pretty childish about it. i'm getting better about dealing with it though...
it's good your mom doesn' do it anymore though! i'm sure that's a lift off your shoulders... |
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| Slylee |
Yea but I realized now that back when my mom and I were at each other’s throats half the time, it was when I was all ed up and partying with coke and pills every weekend with an boyfriend. It’s like duh. She obviously was worried about me and knew in her heart that I wasn’t in love with that guy, and my mom isn’t exactly the type of person to just sit back and watch her daughter fall down the tubes, so she was doing anything she could to get me to do what was best for me. I was just rebellious.
But now that I’ve matured a lot, we get along great. I’m not saying that she doesn’t have an immature & manipulative side to her, because she totally does, but she just doesn’t have any reason to try and control me these days because I’m pretty much on the right path. And well, if it has to do with something like religion or whatever, she chooses her battles wisely. I know when to put my foot down and she knows what lines not to cross. I think we’ve finally reached an understanding with each other. It’s nice.
Oh and Jenny +1 to that. My mom was like a natzi bitch mom growing up, but i'm thankful for it too now. She actually gave a about me, I realize that now. I even realized it then too, but didn't want to admit it. |
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| metalgearsolid |
| -my mom is always crying |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
From what I understand he's always been like this, its just that now that I'm older I know what's going on. As you get older you realize your parents aren't the perfect role models you once thought. |
i don't think he was referring to yours
| quote: | Originally posted by metalgearsolid
-my mom is always crying |
sounds famliar. |
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| dj tek |
i wish restaurants took checks..lol
goin against a chain restaurants' policy to 'make a point' is kinda retarded.. sorry IGK, no disrespect to ya pops.. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
sounds famliar. |
maybe you should stop hitting your mom  |
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