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FAO: People who are married or have been married (pg. 6)
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| UmmiE |
| esuohruonistnapehtraewi :o |
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| Fast Turtle |
| I'm kind of unhappily married, sometimes what you plan on doesn't go how you thought it would. I don't think there's anything wrong with admitting you've made a mistake and getting divorced if your relationship isn't going anywhere. I don't have kids so that's not really an issue. We'll see how things work out. |
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| klingklang77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
im the same exact way. child birth is like one of my biggest fears in life. i dont think im cut out for pregnancy. i'll just adopt lol |
Lol, b/c my husband suggested adoption last night. I can't say a light didn't go off in my head, but I know I would like to at least have a biological child- it is just the getting out of that child I can't do. Pregnancy sounds like an amazing experience. |
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| Slylee |
well here's the thing...birth control works by tricking the body into thinking its pregnant. i have always had problems with birth control. nausea, fatigue, headaches, depression, etc... i dont do well with birth control at all. i have a feeling it's a pretty good indicator of how i'll be when i'm pregnant and it worries me. i'll be ing miserable the entire 9 months, i just know it lol
i have that total mother nurturing side to me and i have no doubt i'll be an excellent mom...it's just the physical part of becoming a mom that i don't think i can hang with. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| jamie i had the exact same experience with birth control, but my pregnancy wasn't that bad. I had morning sickness for the first three months and was alot bitchier then usual but i think that is pretty common, lol. However, everyone is different so who knows! |
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| klingklang77 |
| I never been on birth control, so I don't know, but I have heard of it tricking your body into being pregnant. I guess I will cross that bridge when I get to it. |
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| Slylee |
| eh we'll see. i'll cross that bridge when i get there too...but it's gonna be a while lol |
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| klingklang77 |
| Yea, I hear ya. |
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| djmaxima |
I of course have never been married but,IMO, YES ARCADIA HAS AN OPINION OMG GET THE CAMERAAA!!
If a person is not 100% sure they wanna spend the rest of their life with their respective couples then, i think they shouldn't get married at all.
Divorce rates go up more and more O-o it's quite amazing. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by djmaxima
If a person is not 100% sure they wanna spend the rest of their life with their respective couples then, i think they shouldn't get married at all.
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what a really well thought out thought. i mean, it's deep. lol |
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| djmaxima |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
what a really well thought out thought. i mean, it's deep. lol |
I sense sarcasm o.o , either way, that's just my opinion |
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| UmmiE |
| Im getting married to make my parents happy and if its wasnt for them I would have never gotten married my take on life is that you dont have to have someone (gf or bf) in your life to be happy if you have good friends and family you can live a happy life without being in the whole realtionship drama and wedding and kids thing......If you at later on in your life need kids...just adopt its not that hard life can go on without those social norms. |
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