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Girls! When you tell someone "You're the one" you don't mean it, do you!? (pg. 21)
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| elFreak |
| Pft, stale copypasta is stale. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| Rule 34 on Mudkips and ALF. |
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| iella |
I see he's moved from sad emo to angry emo, in the grieving stages. When is he going to reach emo acceptance stage?
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
My relationship is open to the extent where there are no secrets (even the skeletons in the closet) that we haven't revealed to each other. This means that we've exposed the depths of our psyches to each other completely and have found that we're compatible even at the deepest level, a level that many people keep to themselves to the grave.
This leads to a sense of security and trust that I've never had with anyone else. I say that without exaggeration. I mean it. She knows my deepest, darkest secrets and I know hers. There is nothing else to me in her mind, and there is nothing else to her in my mind. We can truly say "I love you" because we each know and accept the other person completely for who they are.
I can bring up any topic I want without offending her and she is able to do the same. We communicate about topics that would lead to nasty arguments, or even breakups in most other relationships. Because of our extremely open communication and lack of surprises, we've never had a serious argument. Only disputes that immediately get resolved because we talk so freely and neither of us get offended by what the other says. She talks as if she is part of my own conscience, and I talk as if I'm part of her own conscience. We know each other too well. No thought is too taboo.
I don't know if it's the fact that we happen to have the same deep, dark secrets or the fact that we've built a relationship where we can talk about such things... or both. But I am convinced that open communication is the key to a relationship where it's all smooth sailing all the time. Even the non-sexual aspects of her personality make my heart race. I mean, even as a friend, she would be the best best friend I've ever had. We share so many different interests and a deep appreciation for learning, it's like the sex is truly secondary. I feel like a big, sensitive fag when I'm with her. But I'm her fag, and she is my fag.
I want you to answer me honestly: how open is your relationship? Have you ever had serious, nasty arguments or do you find that such things don't exist in your relationship? |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by iella
I see he's moved from sad emo to angry emo, in the grieving stages. When is he going to reach emo acceptance stage?
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He has indicated in both this thread and the one you are quoting from that the entire 'open relationship' thing was a total joke - he was just joshin' us.
Now is he lying about kidding around because it makes him look worse at this point? I don't know.
You should probably accuse him of being a liar though, that'd likely work out better for ya. |
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| iella |
| He meant "open" in the emotional sense and he really did mean that whether he admits it or not. I quoted him as an example of what not to do. Women don't want a men to act like a needy women, they want someone who is confident and strong (not to be confused with being an ). There's a difference between being able express oneself and being a weak, clingy emo fag. If he wants advice then he should start acting more like a man. |
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| Akridrot |
| quote: | Originally posted by iella
He meant "open" in the emotional sense and he really did mean that whether he admits it or not. I quoted him as an example of what not to do. Women don't want a men to act like a needy women, they want someone who is confident and strong (not to be confused with being an ). There's a difference between being able express oneself and being a weak, clingy emo fag. If he wants advice then he should start acting more like a man. |
The emotional sense was true. The fag part was dry humor, and false. You wrote a whole lot of words for nothing, because I was never needy, you ing bad advice giver. Who are you people?!
I'm not insecure or needy in the slightest, you just don't get it. |
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| Akridrot |
| Every single time I make a thread it turns into a gigantic cluster of trolling, flaming and retardation. It's usually the same people too. :rolleyes: |
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| narcism |
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
Every single time I make a thread it turns into a gigantic cluster of trolling, flaming and retardation. It's usually the same people too. :rolleyes: |
this is when ta needs a violin emoticon |
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