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I don't like my ex dating my brother. (pg. 2)
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| Krypton |
| quote: | Originally posted by JasonThomas
yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides. :sadgreen: |
Looks like your brother couldn't give two s about you. |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by JasonThomas
yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides. :sadgreen: |
I'm sorry, I know how it feels. I had my ex bf not even dump me but just start going out with my best friend out of the blue.. & it hurt a lot at the time bc i really cared about him. it was a very depressing point in my life but i had to see that things happen for a reason. he wasn't the one for me (thankfully) & as far as my friend, i guess i saw her true colors. when they ask you to hang out, just decline nicely, don't show them you're annoyed or else they will probably annoy you more. |
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| trancechan |
an eye for an eye - you must date her brother now.
oh yeah. she won't like that. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by JasonThomas
It's ing hard to just not care. |
How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.
But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong. |
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| chlola |
| If I were you I would f*ck her mother in the ass. |
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| Dj Nacht |
| If she or he is dating your brother its because they're not over you. Deep inside it feeds their comfort zone knowing they can be close to you while being with someone else. Your brother is a tool. |
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| BTG |
dude you gota kick your brothers ass.
she has nothing to do with it. |
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| yukii |
wtf? why is it the guys fault?
it in takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad :conf: if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings? |
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| Sunsnail |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.
But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong. |
It'd be hard to move on if you see her all the time doin displays of affection with your brother. Also depends on the background... if she dumped his sorry ass and he still has feelings, that's even worse
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
wtf? why is it the guys fault?
it in takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad :conf: if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings? |
it's more the guy's fault since its his brother. It's not uncommon for an ex to have disregard for your feelings, but when its family its worse. |
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| BTG |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
wtf? why is it the guys fault?
it in takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad :conf: if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings? |
no. brothers should have an understanding.
this bitch is mine and that bitch is yours.
no sharing.
just like GI-Joes. |
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| yukii |
| ok. awesome bro bonding. but same for the bitch, if she has any sense of dignity/morality- she would take her ex's feelings into consideration. actually, nvm, she's a bitch, so she won't. you're right. |
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