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I don't like my ex dating my brother. (pg. 3)
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunsnail
It'd be hard to move on if you see her all the time doin displays of affection with your brother. Also depends on the background... if she dumped his sorry ass and he still has feelings, that's even worse
it's more the guy's fault since its his brother. It's not uncommon for an ex to have disregard for your feelings, but when its family its worse. |
What if she realised that it was actually his brother that she liked?
I do happen to know a couple in which a friend of mine first dated a guy, became disillusioned with him and noticed she had much more in common with his brother - so he then started to go out with his brother (had broken up previously, as one would've expected). They're a very happy couple now, and the (then) jilted brother later found an even hotter girl, with whom he's very happy.
Really, his happiness is in no way more important than theirs. It's his problem, and he's the one that should do something to change that. If I were him, I'd be glad to know a girl I (once) care(d) for is now going out with someone I trust.
But, go figure, some people probably find it extremely hard to get over selfishness :conf: |
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| BTG |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
ok. awesome bro bonding. but same for the bitch, if she has any sense of dignity/morality- she would take her ex's feelings into consideration. actually, nvm, she's a bitch, so she won't. you're right. |
exactly.
she's a slut, and she really shouldn't be expected to contemplate any moral decisions.
but his brother...oh man. i'd kick my brothers ass so hard. |
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| Spacey Orange |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
What if she realised that it was actually his brother that she liked?
I do happen to know a couple in which a friend of mine first dated a guy, became disillusioned with him and noticed she had much more in common with his brother - so he then started to go out with his brother (had broken up previously, as one would've expected). They're a very happy couple now, and the (then) jilted brother later found an even hotter girl, with whom he's very happy.
Really, his happiness is in no way more important than theirs. It's his problem, and he's the one that should do something to change that. If I were him, I'd be glad to know a girl I (once) care(d) for is now going out with someone I trust.
But, go figure, some people probably find it extremely hard to get over selfishness :conf: |
lol. people aren't perfectly rational robots lira.
op, what the did you do to both of them? they're obviously getting back at you for something. |
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| Ian |
| Think about what she really really hated, then tell him how much she likes it. When he does it to her, she'll dump him and you'll have revenge on both. |
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| Fledz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.
But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong. |
Please tell me you're trolling, because what you just said is retarded.
You NEVER date a friends or even worse, relatives ex. Never. Ever. Never ever ever. Never. |
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| xCxStylex |
HOLY ING . DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IM RAGING???
No I'm not being sarcastic nor trolling. I seriously feel very strongly that it's disrespectful on BOTH of their parts, especially if the breakup was clean. It's MUCH worse on the part of your BROTHER though. That's terrible and horrible.
I do have one thing to ask... How old are you two? Not that it makes much of a difference, but it's possible that all of you guys are young and your brother doesn't realize how immature and thoughtless (of your feelings) in asking you to hang out with them. I'd ing punch them.
Unless you and your ex had a really casual relationship and your brother approached you AHEAD of time, there's no way in hell someone should date their brother/sister's ex.
| quote: | Originally posted by JasonThomas
yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides. :sadgreen: |
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| jastiC |
| kill your brother. make her watch. rape her |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
don't stump down to their level. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Krypton
Is this her?
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Quoted for ban. :) |
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| colonelcrisp |
seriously, your brother deserves a good punch to the face, he has broken the bro code, and he has it comming.
i decked one of my buddies last night at a bar in ottawa because he banged my x last week. the remedy for teh breach of the bro code is a good punch to the face. afterwards you have to forgive him for his breach, unless he choses to continue breaking the bro code, then you get to punch him in the face once per day until he gets it |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
what kind of brother is that??? that's ed up on his part. |
+1 seriously, what a ing dick. embarrass him or do something awful. |
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| JasonThomas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
+1 seriously, what a ing dick. embarrass him or do something awful. |
haha, this is the kind of mentality i have. i hate my brother and he knows it. i want to punch his face so ing hard sometimes. :whip:
i just still value my friendship with my ex. it was a clean break and we've been friends for a long time. i'm just wondering if i should just get over it and not say anything to her. |
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