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I don't like my ex dating my brother. (pg. 7)
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| Halcyon+On+On |
Man, I can think of a lot of things better than watching my friend hook up with something I used to love. This is obviously a very, very personal situation, but if a friend or family member decided to date somebody I used to actually care for - not talking just had sex with or 'saw for a bit' - but an actual ex-girlfriend of mine... there'd be weirdness. No matter how happy they are or how ing fuzzy it makes you feel inside, your intimate knowledge of that other person is going to ing haunt you every time you see them together. And to top it all off, no matter how you feel about it, you are going to have to support them and pretend to be happy for them, if but merely for ther fact that one of them is obviously still close to you. That ing sucks.
Respect for the sexual heirarchy is maybe one of the foremost things we seek in friends. No guy is comfy keeping a friend around who is trying to constantly get his girlfriend in the sack - why is that? Yes, it's a huge insecurity, but humans were simply made to fight one another over mates. Kind of how it is being locked into a consume-death cycle.
//Objectification of the opposite sex probably has almost everything to do with it. To the members of whatever team you play for, the object sex is a product to be bought, sold, flaunted, what have you. Indeed, this is probably one of the best things our species has going for it. |
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| JasonThomas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I think the robot comment was due to your trying to think this out logically. Relationships aren't a logical thing. I'm not espousing 'bro code', but whether you like it or not, people's feelings get all mixed up when these sorts of things happen and more often than not, it's best to avoid them entirely. Yes, it's a stupid and animal thing, but so is love or, more commonly, infatuation. |
There's plenty of logical reasons why I shouldn't be mad and just be cool about it. It's common for people in the same circle of friends to date each other. We had a clean break and we are still friends. They really like each other...
and it ing kills me. I'm not happy for them at all. :whip:
Oh well, I've decided to just keep quiet for now. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
In the end, there's really nothing you can or should do about it.
How you feel is how you feel, sometimes you can't change that, you can just learn to cope with it, and if that doesn't work, kill them both and eat the remains so as not to leave any evidence. I recommend using coke to wash out blood stains as it is more difficult to chemically detect than, say, bleach. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I've never seen that happen. Maybe I just don't hang around drama queens :conf: |
None of the friends were drama queens. It was the women that caused the . There are just some things you can't avoid when you do these things. |
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| jupiterone |
i don't mean to be a dick, man, but...
"where are your god damn brains, son?" |
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| Fledz |
It's not even "bro code" really. It applies to women too.
It shouldn't need to be explained but Halcyon did a good job anyway. |
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| euphoria |
| Keep remininding your brother that he's ing your sloppy seconds. It will get to him eventually. |
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| st3nc |
| quote: | Originally posted by euphoria
Keep remininding your brother that he's ing your sloppy seconds. It will get to him eventually. |
This is very true...the more detail you can provide the better. |
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| lenazi |
| you should tell him what she likes, but wear a helmet. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| And talk about all the dirty things you did to her. lol |
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| colonelcrisp |
JasonThomas: "Do you kiss her?"
Jason's Brother: "Hell Yeah!"
JasonThomas: "So how does my dick taste?"
Jason's Brother: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf:
Profit! |
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| gehzumteufel |
| LOL good one! |
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