Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Have you mentioned this to him? Have you mentioned that you are a bit worried about your future with him if he devotes himself to his career to a fault?
I don't think that's what she's worried about..
She's just worried about his mental health and how she can make the person she loves happy while he's so stressed out at the moment...
Why the hell is everyone overreacting to this? :wtf:
You seem to have a good handle on it Ania and clearly you love him, so just keep making that obvious (and keep going with the whole sex thing) and I'm sure it will all be swell.
Good luck with it all, by the way :)
FuzzQi
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Originally posted by Renzo
Aw, Hal has feelings.
Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Lews
I don't think that's what she's worried about..
We discussed this earlier. It may not be what she is saying, but of course she is worried about it. Why wouldn't she be? If his inability to emotionally divorce himself from his job becomes a trend, that leaves little room for somebody else in his life. It's exactly what IGK's point is, he is just going about it like a damned retard.
igottaknow
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Originally posted by Lews how she can make the person she loves happy while he's so stressed out at the moment.
You can't make someone happy. They either are or they are not. It be like if I asked you "How do I make someone love me?"
Ania_xox
If this was a very serious issue, I would have taken it only to my family and his family.
Not to the COR.
Believe you me.
;)
This thread is now about eating from behind
Renzo
Is that right? Well, you can't come swinging your huge, oversized clit around this place and just changing the subject of your threads.
This isn't 'Nam. There are rules.
Ania_xox
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tubularbills
ania, when's the last time you guys had sex?
igottaknow
here's jpg of my gf
Fledz
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Originally posted by Lilith
At the risk of giving a serious answer... Ania needs to become a little less clingy while things are being sorted out and her boyfriend needs to either deal with his work-life stress and possibly sacrifice some of it for time with her and his own health. Its one thing to become involved with work, but he needs to leave it at work.
Leaving work at work isn't exactly easy in many cases. If there's one thing I've found over the past 12 months it's that. Thank God I wasn't in a relationship during that period.
ChemEnhanced
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Originally posted by Fledz
Leaving work at work isn't exactly easy in many cases. If there's one thing I've found over the past 12 months it's that. Thank God I wasn't in a relationship during that period.
agreed....I try hard not to bring my work home with me but sometimes you just can't help it. There are days where I wish I had a job that I could just forget about unit the next day.