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Musings for the sausagefest (pg. 6)
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| igottaknow |
| doesn't matter to me whether she stays with him or not. the ways she characterizes the relationship that this is an on going thing not a once in a while bad day that we all have. this is my take on it based on what she wrote i can't confirm because my crystal ball is out of service. but women have a habit of blowing things out of proportion and complaining |
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| Excess |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
doesn't matter to me whether she stays with him or not. the ways she characterizes the relationship that this is an on going thing not a once in a while bad day that we all have. this is my take on it based on what she wrote i can't confirm because my crystal ball is out of service. but women have a habit of blowing things out of proportion and complaining |
lol, to be honest it doesn't look like she blew anything out of porportion. she knows the deal, and she knows what the cause of everything is. beyond that, the issue is that with the limited time they have she's struggling for new ideas to help him through this stressful time. it's not like he's coming home and verbally abusing her, he's just stressed and that takes a toll on anyone.
i'd like to see you do the same thing, come home, and not have a frequent response along the lines of you becoming somewhat introverted. it happens. and the previous posts of guys not knowing what will make them happier in that moment is definitely true, and sometimes you can't make us happier. sometimes it's good to just let us deal. it sounds like you guys are pretty good about communication, so i'm sure he'll let you know if something about YOU is bothering him, or if he needs more/less out of you. |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Don't become upset over something igottaknow says. Pretty sure he still lives with his mother. |
Pretttyy much. |
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| Ania_xox |
It's like a breath of fresh air to hear something like that from a male.
Thanks for the sound perspectives. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
It's like a breath of fresh air to hear something like that from a male.
Thanks for the sound perspectives. |
Well it doesn't help that the majority of males here are man-children. Not sure why you expected anything more, really. :p |
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| enydo |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Well it doesn't help that the majority of males here are man-children. Not sure why you expected anything more, really. :p |
Deep down, all males are man-children. |
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| bas |
Man-children :stongue:
EMOTIONALLY RETARDED FTW |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by enydo
Deep down, all males are man-children. |
Ah, sorta like the way all women are whores? I suppose I'd have to agree with you then. |
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| enydo |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Ah, sorta like the way all women are whores? I suppose I'd have to agree with you then. |
Yeah, and alcohol is the catalyst for all of it. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| So true! :stongue: :stongue: |
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| DancingMonkey |
I'm pretty sure you're going to have to DO something. Most of these jackasses wouldn't have the balls to do half of what your guy does Their advice to leave him alone comes from a lifelong experience of selfishness.
If he really is as selfless as all that, and really does spend most of his time helping others and asking nothing in return, he probably really does appreciate anything you can do. If he says you're doing fine, then you probably are. Just do your best to be a good girlfriend by trying to make his day a little better, because he makes everyone else's days better all the time.
On a side note, he should also realize that you need attention as well. Being a good guy to kids and gangsters is no excuse to neglect your partner. Why go and give and give to a bunch of strangers, yet come home and be selfish toward someone you love? |
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