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what's a tactfull way of telling your SO to lose some weight?
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DJ Itchy Tits
Not really into BBW.

Itchy
Quazar
The only way I've seen that work is to say you're gonna start going to the gym/jogging/etc. and ask them if they wanna join cause it's "fun".
jonSun
tell them they are fat
Silky Johnson
There really is no tactful way. Anything you say, no matter how "kind", is going to make your partner feel insecure.
bas
How long have you guys been together?
Silky Johnson
quote:
Originally posted by bas
How long have you guys been together?



Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like .

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Chicks are ed like that, lol.

Also, I don't know how anyone could get to the point where they couldn't recognize for themselves that they've put on an unacceptable amount of weight. When your clothes don't fit right anymore it's time to fix it. I really don't understand how people can just let themselves go.
srussell0018
Grind up some Hydroxycut and put it in their chocolate pudding.
idoru
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like .

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Chicks are ed like that, lol.


This.
bas
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like .

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Well yeah that's what I was getting at. There's no tactful way to straight up say, "you need to drop weight". But if they've only been together for a few months maybe he should just cut his losses
Silky Johnson
Tru. Ditch the fatty while you can, bro!

srussell0018
Get her hooked on cocaine. If that doesn't work you can be all like "I can't do this anymore, the drugs are tearing us apart :( ...and you're still fat."
djhaziel
Her : what should I eat tonight?
Me: Air
Her: :(
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