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Do you think men and women can be just friends?
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| AlphaStarred |
| Never worked for me. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| When Harry Met Sally was a ty movie. |
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| Dykes_on_Jay |
| Nothing works for you. |
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| Spacey Orange |
| Only if I'm not really attracted to her. Otherwise, no. |
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| Lira |
| Yes, definitely. I've always had more female friends than male ones, and there's no way I could possibly fancy all of them (it's even less likely that they were attracted to me in any way). |
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| Guest |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Yes, definitely. I've always had more female friends than male ones |
^ This. |
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| Looney4Clooney |
| define friends. When i was single, I had female friends, i suppose i'm a little weird but zoolander hot so it there was no reason not to sleep together which was usually the case. Still friends with them. Most are married. I suppose if that is your goal, then it is probably not so great but 2 single friends, both attractive, it would be silly not to. |
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| Vivid Boy |
I have female friends with no sexual tension.....on their part.
actually all of my female friends i would bang. but im a guy id pretty much bang anything. but I dont try to bang them because I like them too much and have already predetermined that a relationship would never work with them for various reasons. so i stay friends with them and I get to get a females perspective on certain situations. |
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| Looney4Clooney |
| i wouldn't call it sexual tension. She is single, you both get along, you know that you aren't compatible as a couple, you can trust them. The way you phase it makes it sound weird and predatory. Girls like sex just as much. IF you connect and you find each other attractive, why not. |
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| Dj Skez |
This thread reminds me of one of my favorite R&B duos. |
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| SYSTEM-J |
It's perfectly possible for men and women to be friends if there's mutual friends or a common social situation. A man and a woman who regularly hang out together with no other party and no prescribed social situation, well... I think tension will almost inevitably arise if it doesn't exist already.
[Insert politically correct qualifier about sexuality here] |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
It's perfectly possible for men and women to be friends if there's mutual friends or a common social situation. A man and a woman who regularly hang out together with no other party and no prescribed social situation, well... I think tension will almost inevitably arise if it doesn't exist already.
[Insert politically correct qualifier about sexuality here] |
In my experience, not really.
During the first time my wife lived far from me, I'd have friends come over all the time, and I can't say this was an issue. If anything, the only problem I had was with a friend who became a bit too comfortable and I thought we were behaving exactly like a couple but without the tension... and I thought this might bring some problems (as it eventually did) with her actual boyfriend.
But that was one out of four or five... tension wise, it was as if the other girls were all blokes.
Edit: But I've turned down jobs teaching at home when I thought the student was getting a bit too chummy. |
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