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Nice guys finish last? (pg. 2)
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| quddha |
Hahahah women always say they want nice guys. But we all know women never know what they want.
This was posted in the Toronto Forum, the Ladder theory:
http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
Women of course won't admit that they want a badass. Or a rich man, or a powerful man, but either subconsciously or consciously, thats what they look for.
Nice guys usually end up on the "friends ladder". Hmm, i could post more on this subject, but i gotta go study for my last exam. :P |
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| Prototrance |
Yeah this is soooooooooooooooooooooooooo true. I'm nearly always nice to people and I get shat on. most people now dont appreciate a person who isnt prepared everyone over for their own gains.
And as for women well........................
How many of us have ended up as 'friends' to women we fancy because we were nice to them?? This happened to me for the 20th time last week - literally the 20th time.
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Why do all the sleazy guys pull women by grabbing their arses and with cheesy lines??????? Then when you speak to women all they say is they hate sleazy blokes??? |
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| goodnet |
It's all true.
For example, I tell one woman..
"Why have a hamburger like him, when you can have a steak like me?"
Naturally, she gets all excited & went for me.
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| xxTRANCEBOYxx |
| quote: | Originally posted by Prototrance
And as for women well........................
How many of us have ended up as 'friends' to women we fancy because we were nice to them?? This happened to me for the 20th time last week - literally the 20th time.
Also:
Why do all the sleazy guys pull women by grabbing their arses and with cheesy lines??????? Then when you speak to women all they say is they hate sleazy blokes??? |
Most women don't know what they want... they think they do when they've never experienced it..... :sadgreen: |
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| Julie_Spyder |
| quote: | Originally posted by xxTRANCEBOYxx
Most women don't know what they want... they think they do when they've never experienced it..... :sadgreen: |
I SOOOOO AGREEEE
i still dont knwo what i want.. i try to write it down when i doo know but then theres no words that fill it:eyespop: :nervous:
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i guess the only way you know what u can want or know anything about anyone is threw experience..
meaning testing the waters and hopefuly you wont drown in one of them.
knowledge does come with experience.. beacuse i dont belive we are boren with every thought and mind but then again maybe we are but all the doors are closed and whatever we learn we just open a door.. i sometimes feel like that.. ohy i can soo get off topic
amm ya experience is really a key issues to knowing what you want and to make sure what you know your real self |
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| torontotrance |
| it's not just women.....it's men also. From what I have seen...I think that many people have no clue what they want from say a friend or even a girlfriend. Also I don't think that either sex understands the other very well either.... |
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| goodnet |
I think females are particularly looking for a guy that challenges them in a good, positive way.
Therefore, nice guys don't tend to do this very well. Thier intentions are good from the start - with being polite, giving gifts. However, this doesnt give the girl what she really wants subconsciously. The way I see it - since jerks are more on the extreme side being a "challenge" (i.e. they're abusive, they ignore the girl, etc)... and since there's a relatively large ratio of them, the odds of girls going for that jerk type of personality is much greater.
The jerk will provide the challenge in some way, whereas the nice guy won't at all.
The epitome of attraction, to me, is to be a balance of both nice and jerk. |
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| AnotherWay83 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
What are everyone's thoughts on this very important subject.
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it's not that important :D
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In my experience thus far this statement has proved quite true. Especially in dealing with girls. (Or, not dealing with them :rolleyes: ) |
it is true, yes, as almost everybody on this planet already knows by now :D |
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| imprt2nr |
| yes, being the nice guy sucks, i always get blown off for some jackass. girls always say they want a nice guy, but truly they want a guy thats a hassle, someone that will piss off there dad and not someone whos already nice. nice guys are usually put on the "friends" list, which i found out tonight... damn confusing women... |
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| goodnet |
w00t - All hail the mighty Players Guide! |
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| Endlesswave |
That is VERY true. I remember a girl I was dating on and off (we are now good friends only though) and it was like that. To be more open in terms of sex as opposed to being shy and not approachable. Like everyone says CONFIDENCE. I'm slowly gaining momentum in that dept. ;) |
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