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Nice guys finish last? (pg. 3)
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| zzleeper |
I TOTALLY AGREE.
Be a nice guy, finish last.
Don't be a nice guy (don't be a jerk neither), and then u have at least some chance...
Thats the truth..
Just avoid being a nice guy and u'll do a lot better... |
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| InfiniteSquare |
| that is correct |
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| InfiniteSquare |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by quddha
Hahahah women always say they want nice guys. But we all know women never know what they want.
This was posted in the Toronto Forum, the Ladder theory:
http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
Women of course won't admit that they want a badass. Or a rich man, or a powerful man, but either subconsciously or consciously, thats what they look for.
Nice guys usually end up on the "friends ladder". Hmm, i could post more on this subject, but i gotta go study for my last exam. :P |
yes the ladder theory is very true. the first time i read it i laughed so hard at how well it read me. i'll admit that i don't know what i want (besides regular sex), but do men really know either? |
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| Slylee |
Another thing to watch out for is the code words women use. Here is a translation guide for dealing with women.
Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: He's from a really good family.
Means: He's from a really rich family.
hahhhahhahahha |
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| Sand Leaper |
| I totally agree.Being just a nice guy or a jerk will not get you anywhere.I think the key lies in being a little bit of both.You can be polite,charming,romantic and so on to a girl,but you should also at the same time be a bit of a "bastard",for instance make fun of the girl now and then,show your sexuality when socializing,etc.If you manage to combine the two extremes when you're getting in contact with a girl,and not overdo either extremes,I think the chances for getting a girl will increase vastly.Think about it:you let her know that you're a great guy and worth her feelings,but still,you let her know that she shouldn't take you for granted,and that you can be "wild" if you feel like it.I think it'll work!:) |
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| Slylee |
| nicely put. for those of you who are saying, "be a jerk" or "treat girls like and you will go far"...WRONG. you will only go far w/ bimbos who have no self respect. they are just the insecure types that dont have a clue as to what they want and need to be around s to make themselves feel special that these s even give them the time of day. but really, the only time of day they are giving them is for sex! and let's not forget, these "s" who act like this and get all the girls...AKA the "players" are really very insecure on the inside too and need to have lots of the insecure girls drooling over him to feel good about himself. anyway, enough of the psychological aspect of these types of people. do it all in moderation. don't be an at all...you should just be "busy" and don't always drop everything for a girl or guy. even if you have no life...pretend you do. make yourself look important and act like you have a million other options without being cocky and while also giving him/her subtle hints that you are definitely interested. that's the way to do it;) |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
nicely put. for those of you who are saying, "be a jerk" or "treat girls like and you will go far"...WRONG. you will only go far w/ bimbos who have no self respect. they are just the insecure types that dont have a clue as to what they want and need to be around s to make themselves feel special that these s even give them the time of day. but really, the only time of day they are giving them is for sex! and let's not forget, these "s" who act like this and get all the girls...AKA the "players" are really very insecure on the inside too and need to have lots of the insecure girls drooling over him to feel good about himself. anyway, enough of the psychological aspect of these types of people. do it all in moderation. don't be an at all...you should just be "busy" and don't always drop everything for a girl or guy. even if you have no life...pretend you do. make yourself look important and act like you have a million other options without being cocky and while also giving him/her subtle hints that you are definitely interested. that's the way to do it;) |
Yes, yes, yes, and yes. :p |
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| Eugene |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
you should just be "busy" and don't always drop everything for a girl or guy. even if you have no life...pretend you do. make yourself look important and act like you have a million other options without being cocky and while also giving him/her subtle hints that you are definitely interested. that's the way to do it;) |
I've always felt this to be true, but couldn't put it into words!
YES! I agree with you!!! |
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| kr00t0n |
Doesnt anyone find it a bit sad that ppl have to resort to these kinda things just to make relationships work?
Why cant ppl ever just be themselves and be happy?
Thats the only thing I dont like about the whole "be a bit more of a jerk" philosophy, I dont actually know how.
I guess if I put my music above a girl, then she'll want more or something, and that shouldnt be too difficult ;) |
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| Stéphanie_M |
I was surfing the web and found a quote that i thought was pretty funny!
"I know that somewhere in the Universe exists my perfect soulmate -- but looking for her/him is much more difficult than just staying at home and ordering another pizza."
~ Alf Whit
Love is not complicated, ppl make it complicated...
And thats the truth.
My opinion is, just don't think about it and let things flow 'cause love is enough to make anyone go crazy.:crazy: |
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| Renegade |
| quote: | | Doesnt anyone find it a bit sad that ppl have to resort to these kinda things just to make relationships work? |
I agree mate.
The entire dating game looks to me like a series of elaborate tricks used to convince a member of the opposite sex into going out with you. If you can't accept yourself for who you are, then how can you expect someone else to?
Act as the person you are, and if it's no good for someone else then sod em, they aren't the person for you. If you have to act as someone else to attract someone then the question must be asked, how long do you expect to keep it up for? You can read all the tricks in the book, but how long until the real you gets exposed?
Furthermore, why am I so drunk and why am I listening to ing Bjork? |
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