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| Slylee |
Ok so I met my current FB through a friend of mine. They are roommates. I’ll try to keep this short.
My friend (I’ll call him Oscar) seems pretty cool. We met back in December at Club Space through mutual friends. Totally hit it off and got each other’s numbers. I’m not even remotely attracted to him, I even get gay vibes from him even though he says he’s not.
Anyway, so I’m at Oscar’s house on x-mas day with our mutual friends and his parents are there cookin up some awesome Puerto Rican food, and in walks this HOTTIE…Oscar’s roommate. He’s kinda quiet, but we talk a little and joke around and I’m instantly attracted to him. A couple days later, I ask Oscar, “what’s up with your roommate?” Oscar sort of cockblocks and is like, “Well, I’ll let you see for yourself, I’m not gonna say anything, bla bla bla”. Now I’m not one to go off of what people tell me about someone because it’s usually bull and I like to make my own judgments. And besides, it’s not like I want to marry the FB or anything. He’s hot and seemed like fun and I wanted to get to know him. So I did, and it turns out that FB is pretty in cool and we have a blast together, not to mention, great sex.
So whatever…things are cool up until last weekend when FB and I are out drinking and partying and we get on the subject of Oscar and FB asks if he can trust me and I say yea and then he tells me that he recently discovered that Oscar has been totally hustling him for utilities bill money. They are in Oscar’s name, so FB always just gives him cash each month and trusts what Oscar tells him he owes. Well I guess he thought that things were a little pricey lately and it wasn’t adding up because they have the windows open a lot, etc…. so he didn’t think the electric bill should be as much as Oscar was saying it was, so he opened up one of the bills and discovered that Oscar has been ripping him off. Pretty ed up.
Oh and he also told me that he saw that Oscar likes to watch tranny porn too, but that’s besides the point. lol
I feel bad for FB because he is really pissed off and he is trying to control his temper and be cool about this, but I can tell he’s struggling with it. He’s been calling me a lot, like to vent and for me to encourage him to be an adult about it. It really sucks that Oscar did this. I don’t want to be friends with some shadeball who in rips his roommate off and likes trannies. It’s going to be really obvious though if I just stop talking to Oscar. FB has been emailing me this morning, asking me to help him w/ the email he is sending Oscar, so today is the day that Oscar finds out that FB knows he’s been lying.
This is totally not my business but FB sort of made it my business and I’m really turned off by Oscar. I should ease out of this friendship carefully. I’ve already stopped talking to Oscar for the past week or so, and that’s kind of obvious.
You guys would feel the same way right? It just tells me a lot about Oscar and I don’t really care to be friends with people like that. |
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| Aristronica |
| That's why I'm not friends with Puerto Ricans. |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| if you had kept it short, I might have read it. Drama is for Laguna and small towns like Christchurch. :wtf: |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
That's why I'm not friends with Puerto Ricans. |
lol
FB is puerto rican too, but he's cool |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
lol
FB is puerto rican too |
that means he's probably lying to you too. trust me on this.
but yes they are great in bed so we can ignore the bull. come to think of it that puerto rican bitch from this summer still has my watch :whip: |
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| distant |
| So what the is the dilemma? Did you just post this to vent? |
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| Slylee |
| there i've bolded the short version:p |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by distant
So what the is the dilemma? Did you just post this to vent? |
yea but also do u guys think i'm overreacting by not wanting to be friends w/ this kid any more?
i think it's pretty messed up and it tells me a lot about him. |
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| djmaxima |
| quote: | Originally posted by distant
So what the is the dilemma? Did you just post this to vent? |
that is not a nice way to talk to a lady.
i think :wtf: |
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| distant |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea but also do u guys think i'm overreacting by not wanting to be friends w/ this kid any more?
i think it's pretty messed up and it tells me a lot about him. |
I'd cut it off immediately. I don't associate with people like that, and there's no reason you should stay friends with him. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea but also do u guys think i'm overreacting by not wanting to be friends w/ this kid any more?
i think it's pretty messed up and it tells me a lot about him. |
i don't think you are overreacting.
though the other guy sounds kind of needy. remember, great sex sometimes clouds your judgement. |
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