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Clubbing: Go solo or go in a group?? (pg. 5)
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| dj_moonshine |
| quote: | Originally posted by nOXoNn
R&B/Black Music/Hip Hop Club.... :nervous: |
lol:stongue: |
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| DarkAngel |
| Another case in point in going to a club alone or with a group, or a couple of friends even. Check this out ppl: last year, for November 25th, 2002, i bought me and my at that time best friend tickets to go see Paul Oakenfold @ Opium Garden. He was old enough, I was old enough, his girlfriend was NOT old enough. I have to say this: i didnt want her to come along anyway.....me and him wouldnt have had the same kind of fun like we always had when he was single...also, this girl was like, the young, immature type. SO anyway, we go and we got in drunk as hell over a case of Corona. we obliterate the case before goin into Opium. its just me and him, mind you. we hook up with some other girls; just chattin and stuff. i hit the dance floor with my photon lites. (hehehe) a short while later, the girls leave, they go elsewhere. fine. we go over somewhere else and he goes to get drinks and brings me not only my drink but a hot ass Asian girl . LMFAO Ah yes, a night that will live in history. me and her talk, she asks me to dance, and i'm like, "Aw hell yea!" :) God i will always remember this.....i was teaching her how to rave (i aint good, i was just showin her how to use the lites....) anyway, later on, we sit down and start makin out. he helped set it up tho. he met the girl, and im the shy type and he brought her over. so theres a BIG upside to goin with a group or just one person or a couplea people. she was from out of town so i never saw her after that, but until that night, i'd never made out with an Asian girl before, and that was like one of my dreams.....:) well, i can die knowing that i got that wish granted. :) Other case in point: Paul van Dyk live @ ClubSpace 12/27/02. me my best friend and his girlfriend went. I was having fun by myself anyway, cuz i didnt want to be around them. (i dont like to be around couples.) so later, he goes to get drinks and asks me to hold her hand so no other guy tries to hit on her, cuz she's very drunk....more drunk than i was....i was very buzzed but having fun and stuff....so im just playin with the photon lite in front of her eyes and holding just one of her hands. nothing sensual or any like that. i never liked her that..and god strike me down if im lying....he comes back, sees me with her like that and flips out. she gets upset, he gets upset, i walk away to enjoy the show. later i find out she got them kicked out of Space cuz she was crying. i never heard of sucha dumb reason to get kicked out of a club...so thats the downside to going with couples, unless you're with your significant other (and obviously i wasnt, and still am not.) |
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| DarkAngel |
| Now, i wonder to myself...where can I get a crew of girls to clubbing with me? ;) |
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| mmilo |
^^^ darkangel, lol :haha:
i've never gone alone to a club|rave ..
question for you that have:
doesn't it feel awkward, for example, waiting in line alone?
i donno .. not being there with someone could be kinda awkward at times ..
even tho i'm sure its a much better way to meet people :) |
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| Trancer85 |
| It's not very easy to go clubbing with friends around the westcoast because there aint much trancers around here. i mean there's a few but they dont appreciate trance music like me. |
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| DarkAngel |
| I'll be honest with you. the only time i ever felt awkward....was when i was in a club i DIDNT like, and thats happened only 3 times. i love Space34, Opium Garden.....Crobar is ok but boring. standing in line alone is nothing to me.....nothing new....out of all the times i been clubbing, which isnt a lot, i would say id gone to more than half of them alone. in summation, no, i dont feel awkward. circumstances beyond my control prevent me from going clubbing with people so i have to improvise. i WILL NOT miss Paul van Dyk or DJ Tiësto just becuz my "stupid friend" doesnt wanna go. screw him/her, i'll go by my damn self, and, i did. :) i also wont miss out cuz i have no one to go with. |
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| DarkAngel |
| Trancer85: yea it is hard to get ppl to go with you sometimes. when i did have ppl i knew, i just gave up on them. i called them losers and told them that i'd go bymyself. they liked trance....i thought they loved it, but i guess not enough to go with me. around here im alone in any case cuz getting read of that dead weight on 8/31/03 also rid me of any friends i had. there are some things you just dont do...and that S.O.B. did it.....i made him pay for it tho.....as for me now, i ain't clubbin anytime soon until i can get a stable job. i do appreciate trance a lot, but if i have to go alone, so be it. i may not like it, but i deal with it. |
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| paranoik0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by nOXoNn
Where's the problem? When i'm going out alone in a club/event, then only when there's a trance night or something else where none of my friends are interested in... ;)
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dunno.. i just can't enjoy it as much alone as in a group of friends. totally hate being alone in the middle of a crowd. plus if i went alone to a club here they would never let me in (those doorman twats, you can only enter if you're a friend of them, if you pay them a lot, or if you are with a girl :whip: - plus being 17 year old doesn't help much) |
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| dj_moonshine |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trancer85
It's not very easy to go clubbing with friends around the westcoast because there aint much trancers around here. i mean there's a few but they dont appreciate trance music like me. |
yes i understand wat u mean. u like pvd and they like dj sammy -heaven.:D |
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| Trancer85 |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
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you can tell the 2 girls in the middle were rolling asses by checking out their huge ass pupilz LOL!! |
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| butterfly420 |
| I never go to the club by myself. It is not that I am afraid of being raped or anything because I know most of the people in Pgh but I feel more comfortable with people I know. It is nice to know that you have friends to talk to and dance with. There is usually a group of us so if one of us wants to go off and do whatever, we can because there is still a couple of us left to hang with. My problem is that I don't have any girlfriends so I end up showing up with a group of guys. |
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| kelsta |
I have never chosen to go to a club/event alone.. but that's not to say I wouldn't. It's more that there is always someone in my group of friends who's going to the same place as I am. There have been times when I have drifted from friends and met new people.
I think if there was a night on that I really wanted to go to and no-one I knew was going I would go anyway for the music. |
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