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How Do I Get Her Back? (pg. 6)
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| wienerschnitzel |
| arbiter- good post! i agree and i think it is something alot of people don't realize. Of course it isn't the case for every girl but i think the majority can account for it. It is ironic because all throughout highschool and even after highschool i was the desperate one and i thought of how i could get them back and so on and so forth, so it is funny to read these threads and see how i used to think. Im glad i've over come those feelings. And another thing, if a guy buys me flowers and candy and often then i know there is something wrong and 99.9% of the time the guy turns out to be a freak. So dj sunshine.... you asked for the advice, now i suggest that you take some of it for what it is worth because you are looking at the experience of alot of people! |
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| Vivid Boy |
| im gonna give some serious advice...and the truth is exactly what digi said u lost and u have to move on...theres nothin u can do to get her back...just learn from ur experience and if it happens again ull be able to handle it smoother... girls are messed up theres nothing u can do...they like to play games and we like straight up with the facts on the table...but who cares next time some girl plays games with u dont give her the reaction they want u play your game right back at her...and cut her off...like serious man...shes lookin at u like she has u wrapped around ur finger...u should have cut her off let her loose along time ago..u might have still had a chance |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| very true, and if you wouldn't have let her play these mind tricks or games with you in the first place then it would have been a whole lot easier. Next relationship you are in.. because you are going to move on if you know whats good for you... you will do YOURSELF a favour and not put up with that crap. And as soon as that girl starts pulling these things, pull her aside and say "LOOK, i don't play those games, so be straight up with me now, or we can't continue like this" and you will feel better about sticking up for yourself, and sparing a lifetime of confusement. if she can't handle it then you are better off looking for another girl. |
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| LiquidX |
| - Well, you see, I love this girl, so Im really gonna try and fight for her, and really change things.. or maybe be her "Friend with Priviledge".. whatever.. im up for that, and IM sure she'll be up for it too;) . |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| but she dumped you! you have to accept it! Why would you settle for whatever scraps she can give you.I know you love her and i know you had a history with her... but now thats changed! And you have to accept it! No matter what, things WON'T go back to the way they used to be because she has CHANGED her mind. Do your self esteem a favour and move on! |
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| KLINGKLANG77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by LiquidX
- Well, you see, I love this girl, so Im really gonna try and fight for her, and really change things.. or maybe be her "Friend with Priviledge".. whatever.. im up for that, and IM sure she'll be up for it too;) . |
dont do the 'friend with priviledge' thing!!!! in the end you will only wind up getting more hurt in the end. if you do follow thru with it then she will know that she has you wrapped around her finger and can play with your head, but she really does not care about you. it is just another game for her, move on! |
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| N|te-L|fe |
Yup, let it go man. These are the kind of things that happen when you don't expect it.. Most of the time if you push it too hard and just expect things to happen you're just gonna end up hitting a wall. Almost everytime I asked a couple how they met, they told me they never expected to end up together, or well at least didnt plan anything about it beforehand... It just happened out of nowhere.
Plus the time you spend focusing on that chick, youre waste opportunities to meet other girls. Think about it.. |
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| `pr0digy |
| While I didn't read every reply (wayyyy too many), sounds to me like you just haveta move on. It sucks, but if she's doing this sort of then it's probably better this way... |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by KLINGKLANG77
dont do the 'friend with priviledge' thing!!!! in the end you will only wind up getting more hurt in the end. if you do follow thru with it then she will know that she has you wrapped around her finger and can play with your head, but she really does not care about you. it is just another game for her, move on! |
There you have it, even the women in this thread have spoken.
"Love" is what I have for my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother, maybe even my closest friends, and also whoever happens to be my girlfriend. I suppose I could say I have it for my ex too, although it doesn't signify that there's any relationship between us.
LiquidX, you're not talking about love. You're talking about desperation. Give it up, it's a turnoff, sickening to the guys around you and even more sickening to the object of your affections. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| pull ur skirt up liquidX |
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| LiquidX |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
There you have it, even the women in this thread have spoken.
"Love" is what I have for my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother, maybe even my closest friends, and also whoever happens to be my girlfriend. I suppose I could say I have it for my ex too, although it doesn't signify that there's any relationship between us.
LiquidX, you're not talking about love. You're talking about desperation. Give it up, it's a turnoff, sickening to the guys around you and even more sickening to the object of your affections. |
-LoL WoW! allright.. what I wrote I didnt really ment to sound like that. Im not desperate at all. You see, we went out for 2 years, went through alot, and even had in mind many future plans. But ever since I entered college, and we both started to get some busy life, it all changed. I was not up to leaving her just because of that, but she somehow became selfish. Whenever she needed to do something, I never bithced at her or anything, but whenever I had to kill myself studying for an exam, she would come up with stupid excuses like.. ohh thats more important then me, you barely do aything for me and bla bla bla.... not a month passed, and she started getting things in her head and stupid ideas. She works too, and gets home at like 11-12 PM at night. Theres no way I could've seen her . Have in mind that I have to wake my ass at 5AM and work till 5 PM in the afternoon. Now, when she asked to give time or change, she also got out of her job, had more time.. and I was like.. WTF? She wants to end up an awesome relationship, envied by many, because it was.. went throigh so much for some nonesense???.. If you really LOVE like couple LOVE someone, I guess you'll do anything to keep it up.. but she just dropped it. She said so many things that made me think otherwise before. She said "TE AMO" a term in spanish of saying I love you, but its stronger then that.. those who know spanish know what I mean.. so there, Im not desperate, but not willing to drop such relationship for something like that.. everyone would agree with ,e that shes acting like a real bitch for nothing. .... but desperate, no. I dont know where all that the love my parents and stuff came from.. ofcourse its a different kind of love. I love my car.. so? |
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| Vivid Boy |
| :whip: <---------ur gf |
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