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How Do I Get Her Back? (pg. 7)
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| LiquidX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
pull ur skirt up liquidX |
I dont wanna scare you man.;) |
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| DJ Sunburn |
| quote: | Originally posted by LiquidX
-LoL WoW! allright.. what I wrote I didnt really ment to sound like that. Im not desperate at all. You see, we went out for 2 years, went through alot, and even had in mind many future plans. But ever since I entered college, and we both started to get some busy life, it all changed. I was not up to leaving her just because of that, but she somehow became selfish. Whenever she needed to do something, I never bithced at her or anything, but whenever I had to kill myself studying for an exam, she would come up with stupid excuses like.. ohh thats more important then me, you barely do aything for me and bla bla bla.... not a month passed, and she started getting things in her head and stupid ideas. She works too, and gets home at like 11-12 PM at night. Theres no way I could've seen her . Have in mind that I have to wake my ass at 5AM and work till 5 PM in the afternoon. Now, when she asked to give time or change, she also got out of her job, had more time.. and I was like.. WTF? She wants to end up an awesome relationship, envied by many, because it was.. went throigh so much for some nonesense???.. If you really LOVE like couple LOVE someone, I guess you'll do anything to keep it up.. but she just dropped it. She said so many things that made me think otherwise before. She said "TE AMO" a term in spanish of saying I love you, but its stronger then that.. those who know spanish know what I mean.. so there, Im not desperate, but not willing to drop such relationship for something like that.. everyone would agree with ,e that shes acting like a real bitch for nothing. .... but desperate, no. I dont know where all that the love my parents and stuff came from.. ofcourse its a different kind of love. I love my car.. so? |
I know how you feel man. The term love is so abused nowadays. It's like people can just turn the "love" switch on or off whenever possible.
True love never dies. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by LiquidX
-LoL WoW! allright.. what I wrote I didnt really ment to sound like that. Im not desperate at all. |
Yes, you are. Just read the rest of the stuff you posted after that!
| quote: | | You see, we went out for 2 years, went through alot, and even had in mind many future plans. But ever since I entered college, and we both started to get some busy life, it all changed. I was not up to leaving her just because of that, but she somehow became selfish. Whenever she needed to do something, I never bithced at her or anything, but whenever I had to kill myself studying for an exam, she would come up with stupid excuses like.. ohh thats more important then me, you barely do aything for me and bla bla bla.... not a month passed, and she started getting things in her head and stupid ideas. She works too, and gets home at like 11-12 PM at night. Theres no way I could've seen her . Have in mind that I have to wake my ass at 5AM and work till 5 PM in the afternoon. Now, when she asked to give time or change, she also got out of her job, had more time.. and I was like.. WTF? She wants to end up an awesome relationship, envied by many, because it was.. went throigh so much for some nonesense???.. If you really LOVE like couple LOVE someone, I guess you'll do anything to keep it up.. but she just dropped it. She said so many things that made me think otherwise before. She said "TE AMO" a term in spanish of saying I love you, but its stronger then that.. those who know spanish know what I mean.. so there, Im not desperate, but not willing to drop such relationship for something like that.. everyone would agree with ,e that shes acting like a real bitch for nothing. .... but desperate, no. I dont know where all that the love my parents and stuff came from.. ofcourse its a different kind of love. I love my car.. so? |
Blah blah blah blah blah, how utterly heartbreaking, I'm sure your relationship was so different from everyone else's, and your peers were green with envy at how utterly whipped you were. I bet you tell yourself that they're just jealous every time you decided to hang out with the girl instead of doing something with them, right?
Before you assume that the relationship between you and her was somehow special and one-in-a-million, maybe you oughta look into other people's relationships. Seems like there are several people in this very forum who have posted almost the same heartbreaking stories.
But hey, go ahead and "follow your heart" - a year down the road you'll be wishing you'd listened to us. |
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| LiquidX |
| - DigNut.. you see, not everyone is got such a metal heart like you. It seems that you are into so much experience. I have a friend that went through the same in the beginning, now he can swtich girlfriends like nothing, and moves on.. Im not trying to make it sound like a "heartbraker".. just been honest. I could use my head and talk smart right, but hey, thats not how it is... eitherway, is not like Im dying right here about her.. if things go different ways, then it will, I wont be after her ass. Anyways, I just got into the convo cause it kind of fits the situation, but its not like Im gonna get all stressed about someone saying that my crap is the same blablabla and that moving on its so easy to do. Like I said, I dont have an Iron heart, and sadly, thats what this world is building upon. Thanks for the advices though, some good points that you have, but through time, ive come to agree with all the other guys, the way we think about girls. Wierd creatures that no one can ever really understand, but yourself, cause you are one.;) |
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| DigiNut |
Girls are not so insanely complex as guys make them out to be. That complexity is a recent phenomenon born out of guys who've been trained to do the exact opposite of what women really want.
As for me... metal heart? You should ask my ex how I was about a year and a half ago, I wouldn't leave her alone. Yes, experience does teach you a lot of things, and that's another thing, demonstrating to women that you're totally inexperienced is as bad as desperation. Avoid it! There's no good that can come out of saying "I'm not very good with women" or "I've never done this before."
It's not about having a metal heart, it's about understanding that she should feel as lucky to have you as you feel to have her, and if she doesn't, then she's not bloody worth your time! |
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| Bullet |
| i dunno what thhis thread is about but I'D HIT IT !! :thepirate PIRATE-IS-HERE-AGAIN |
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| Orbax |
| An intact metal heart is better than a pulpy mass spurting blood from the clawed hooks of some bitch :) |
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| eye_03 |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut For some reason, women in North America have a fantasy image of "chivalry" - they claim to love a guy who does sweet things for them, compliments them all the time, talks about his feelings, goes to chick flicks, etc. Unfortunately, it's been shown countless times that guys who conform to this stereotype end up being cast as the proverbial "nice guy" and end up getting nothing.
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truer words have never been spoken.. |
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| waxHead |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrSquirrel
There are many fish in the toiletbowl of love.
MrS |
I nominate this for the Quote of the Year award :D |
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| MeLtrA |
| i accidentaly found this thread just now, i don't have the time to read through all the replies but here is my input anyways.. i'v had alot of experience with girls so i'll be very concrete here.. i'v ben in your situation, i'll have to say that it is a good thing that you are keeping it cool while she is out with other guys, no girl likes when someone is after them too much.. the second thing is that i think that you are too good for her.. you see, she might have liked you or loved you alot for your kindness and all that, but i think that she is too stupid to see the difference betwin thos who are real and thos who just put alot effort in to getting layed.. my last girl was like that, it was exactly the same, she told me she wanted some space, so i gave here that, and i kept my self super cool, though i knew where it was going and i felt so ed up inside.. but these things are only feelings, i forced my self to think logically, cos the truth was that that gils just is too stupid, i don't blame here though.. i just let her go and i didn't even say anything to her, and that is something i don't regret.. there just wasn't any deep relationship anyways, ofcourse some the kuddlyness and sex and funny times and all that, but that is so basic stuff.. for real love there must be so much more.. |
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| Orbax |
| die you stupid bastard |
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| Floorfiller |
| :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: |
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