Question for girls. (pg. 5)
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igottaknow |
quote: | Originally posted by DjDarling
Who wants to be with a "rig pig" for the rest of their life? |
what's a 'rig pig' and how does one go about becoming one? :conf: |
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DarkWater |
quote: | Originally posted by Trance-Aqua
Not so long ago i was talking with my friends gf , and we were on the topic of love/relation etc,
And apparently all the girls by her theory always dream/go for a guy whose older than her and is very financialy stable,,, so i ask her about loving a guy who maybe isnt older and isnt financialy stable,, she says right away that its a no no and thats its every girls dream about older and rich guys.
Then i tell her that if thats how girls work then true meaning of love is down the drain and that girls are money hungry selfish bitches, she got pissd off at me and walked off, so i thought id ask you girls on here, is it true that you always tend to go or always dream of going for a guy who is older and is rich ??? |
Well since there are millions of poor, young guys who are not single, I'd have to say no.
There are just as many girls who think that being with a guy for his money is disgusting, as there are golddiggers. |
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Silky Johnson |
quote: | Originally posted by Trance-Aqua
Not so long ago i was talking with my friends gf , and we were on the topic of love/relation etc,
And apparently all the girls by her theory always dream/go for a guy whose older than her and is very financialy stable,,, so i ask her about loving a guy who maybe isnt older and isnt financialy stable,, she says right away that its a no no and thats its every girls dream about older and rich guys.
Then i tell her that if thats how girls work then true meaning of love is down the drain and that girls are money hungry selfish bitches, she got pissd off at me and walked off, so i thought id ask you girls on here, is it true that you always tend to go or always dream of going for a guy who is older and is rich ??? |
WTF?? I'd like to slap that bitch upside the head. It's dumb gold-digging broads like her who give us cool chicks a bad rep. Tell her to go suck a dick...if she knows how. |
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anuneventrade |
quote: | Originally posted by SuperFarStucker
The irony in that statement bemuses me. Initially you state that they must *BE OLDER* than you and THEN You suggest, or rather, imply you are both equals as far as maturity. Now mind you, I'm clued in to the whole "girls mature faster than boys thing." So far as I can tell, however, you're far past that stage - which subsequently makes your attitude rather condescending towards men in general.
Perhaps it's pure coincidence that you've never met a man equal to or lesser than you in age that you consider mature or perhaps its part of a preconceived notion that automatically discounts an individual based on their age. I certainly cannot say with any amount of authority, regardless I felt obliged to shoot down your bull smoke screen.
If you don't date younger guys, fine, but seriously do you think anybody buys that bull? (besides yourself maybe) |
Ther have been plenty of men "equal or lesser of age" than myself that have tried to hook up with me. In all honesty, I don't find anything in common with them. We don't have the same views and goals about life, we don't have the same values. Perhaps there is some fantastic guy that is my age or younger that will one day sweep me off of my feet. *shrugs* As of right now, there hasn't been one. I'm not saying that there's no way in hell that I would date a younger guy, I'm just saying that the opportunity for a decent relationship involving a younger guy has not arised.
Btw, how old are you? Since you cannot submit an argument without curse words? 16? 17?
quote: | Originally posted by Trance-Aqua
girl/guy you have met, were the exact match for you, you realise that you have finnaly met someone who you feel just right with, they were verry polite, had manners, made you feel like the angel in heaven each time they were just around you and that you would die if they were to ever leave you... BUT they were abit younger than you and were not financialy stable because maybe of some recent tradegy or for other unknow matter, does that mean you would spit in their face and leave ??? |
hehe, Do you realize what you just typed? A recent tragedy that leaves someone with a rocky financial situation is completely different than someone not having a job, mooching off of their parents, and not attempting to find a job. Read Arbiter's post.
quote: | Originally posted by Massive84
so that dude from NASA, you still dating him?
i guess you do, if he work at nasa, i am sure he has a car, house etc...
but if not, something have went wrong, and i thing that something is a bit more important then all those points you stated, or els your releationship woulda been perfect..right?
btw this is just a question.. |
No, we are not still together.
quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
I don't appreciate you telling ppl about our relationship ;) |
Damnit, I'm sorry, I forgot that rule. Will you ever forgive me? :clown:
quote: | Originaly posted by Hienz
woah woah woah, you went out with anuneventrade?? how was the sex?? :p :p |
Unbelieveable. ;) |
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Kirk |
quote: | Originally posted by Streakfury
OK, OK, some women like older guys, some dont. Enough of that, what about older women?? I'm 20, and I'd have no probs with dating a woman of 25-30, they know what they like. ;)
So come on lads, older women or younger??
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Well im 20 as well and the last women i was with was 37 (bit old i know), but i think i prefer older women, although she doesnt have 2 be older, and i wouldnt go out with a girl 18 or younger, differnt ages differnt style of life basically :) |
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LoCa |
quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
WTF?? I'd like to slap that bitch upside the head. It's dumb gold-digging broads like her who give us cool chicks a bad rep. Tell her to go suck a dick...if she knows how. |
what she said :D
i'm older than my bf (not by much tho) and less financially stable than he is as i'm still in uni and he's finished with a job already.
Regardless, i wouldn't care if he didn't have a car or a job. The point is he makes me feel good about myself and that's all i need from him.
It's not all about how "what if he can't support me and my children" crap. How long have men been doing that? Why can't women support the husband and children if needed?
Ideally it would be great if the 2 could have jobs but if not, big deal! I sure as hell wouldn't leave anyone because of that.
I've dated guys who were far younger than myself and had to support them too, paid the rent, the food, the utilities etc. Yeah it wasn't always easy but if i left them, it was never because they were "poor" or not as financially stable as myself.
Like Jennypie said, it's gold diggers like that girl that make the rest of us look bad. Older, younger, richer, poorer... BLAH :p |
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KarenLuvs2Party |
Girls may STRIVE to be with the rich and older guys.. but they always end up cheating on them with the young hot loser guys with no jobs and treats them bad.. |
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Streakfury |
quote: | Originally posted by KarenLuvs2Party
Girls may STRIVE to be with the rich and older guys.. but they always end up cheating on them with the young hot loser guys with no jobs and treats them bad.. |
Yep, nice guys finish last. :( |
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Heinz |
quote: | Originaly posted by Hienz
woah woah woah, you went out with anuneventrade?? how was the sex??
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congrates to you igottaknow. your old girl answered my question that was to you. that damn hot.
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nice guys win in the long run. the girls usually get out of that bad boy stage around the early 20's. when they begint o see, the bad boy working at mc. donalds, living with his mother, and turn into a control freak. thats when the nice guy finally gets through. just takes patience. |
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Heinz |
quote: | Originally posted by Streakfury
Yep, nice guys finish last. :( |
i keep thinking your a girl because of your avatar. |
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Inertia |
quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
Ther have been plenty of men "equal or lesser of age" than myself that have tried to hook up with me. In all honesty, I don't find anything in common with them. We don't have the same views and goals about life, we don't have the same values. Perhaps there is some fantastic guy that is my age or younger that will one day sweep me off of my feet. *shrugs* As of right now, there hasn't been one. I'm not saying that there's no way in hell that I would date a younger guy, I'm just saying that the opportunity for a decent relationship involving a younger guy has not arised.
Btw, how old are you? Since you cannot submit an argument without curse words? 16? 17? |
ok, this is something that is beginning to deeply annoy me. you basically infer from his writing tendencies that he is immature, specifically the tendency to use curse words in his statements. then you assume he is young because of this. WHY? hypothetically speaking, (i'm not expressing an opinion either way) he could very well be 35 and just be a person who uses a lot of curse words. you then rhetorically ask if he is either 16 or 17.
i am 16, and just because i'm young that automatically makes me incapable of expressing an idea without using a curse word? that ing peeves me. (haha, threw that one in there, just for the sake of contradiction)
seriously speaking now, either i (and several friends in my age group) are different from most 16 year olds, or this is nothing more than a generalized cliche. i understand most males this age you come in contact with are quite immature, but i have discovered it rarely has to do with age, they're just immature, and will continue to be so for quite some time.
its the line i most hear, "all year old guys are so immature". whereas the general consensus may agree with you, its just because they're immature, not because they're that age. kinda ruins it for the ones that try, yet are automatically dismissed because theyre X years old. |
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