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Just saw the girl of my dreams (pg. 3)
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| starsearcher |
Hmmm yeah I think Digital MP is a little more correct than Skipper...she obviously didn't seem like that at all and I'm 100% sure I wouldn't have been ignored...Besides I look totally harmless
Maybe I was right when i said that 99% of the women in the city suck then :p cause according to Skipper they actually do... |
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| mecha |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
Maybe I was right when i said that 99% of the women in the city suck |
:haha: :haha: :haha: |
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| d!abolic |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
Wow...99%? That's never close to my experience.
But seriously, saying hi can't ever hurt, ESPECIALLY if she's smiling at you, because you're likely going to get at least a 'hi' in return, and possibly more. However, some girls give the smile to show they're somewhat interested, and leave it up to you to start a conversation. 'Hi' may not be enough.
Don't say 'Hi, how are you,' because you're wasting two responses with one comment. Say 'hi', let her respond, and look at her for something nice to say about her. Then say 'how are you', let her respond, and if she doesn't give you something to work with, throw the compliment, 'wow, your hair is beautiful'. (even if she has a nice body, don't EVER make that an early compliment...stick to hair, eyes, something else).
If she giggles, laugh back and take it from there. Don't blow it, because the ball's in your court and it may be 100% up to you to keep the conversation going, and you never know what stop she's going to get off the train. Throw in something about school or work, the music she's listening to, the coffee shop you two should jump off the train to hit, etc.
Something will give, if not for the sole reason that you have the social personality to entertain her with conversation.
Go into these things thinking most women are sweet and kind, and just laugh it off if they blow you off. |
I'm with you on this, except the compliment part. Every guy who meets her immediately proceeds to compliment something. I prefer to be the one guy who doesn't. Seriously, why am i gonna flatter this girl? To win her affection? Do i even want her affection? And yea, the success rate isn't nearly as bad as 'maaa' made it out to be ;) I don't think i've ever gotten shot down by a girl who was smiling at me. I mean come on, she's smiling for a REASON! |
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| High on PSI |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
:stongue: Lol hhhmmm yeah you got me :stongue: |
the beauty of being a guy :)
but yeah, i dont think that 99% is a realistic number either... I mean, i dont think theres that many bitches out there, tho there is alot haha...
i think that if ur nice n decent, theyll talk to you n stuff, if anyhting just to be nice n return, and then, who knows...
from my experiences, with girls in public, always be a gentlemen, and you definately wont be ignored 99% or the time :) |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by d!abolic
Seriously, why am i gonna flatter this girl? To win her affection? Do i even want her affection? |
Well...yes i think you do :p
I just think i always freeze...my mind goes blank...but ummm strangely enough with the "perfect" girls things just worked out...i guess it's all about chemistry then right? |
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| High on PSI |
| quote: | Originally posted by d!abolic
I'm with you on this, except the compliment part. Every guy who meets her immediately proceeds to compliment something. I prefer to be the one guy who doesn't. Seriously, why am i gonna flatter this girl? To win her affection? Do i even want her affection? |
well if ur tryin to pick her up isnt taht a yes? I mean, obviously you dont really know the girl, but you are tryin to make a good impression.. otherwise why even go up to her at all?? |
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| starsearcher |
| I think maybe D!abolic just likes the challenge :p |
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| High on PSI |
| starsearcher beat me to it LOL |
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| High on PSI |
| all that beach sex is gettin to his head :P jks |
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| DigitalMP |
yeah, but it's the giving her a compliment just for the sake of doing so. but wow...if a girl has beautiful hair, or eyes that really catch mine, then i'm sure as hell going to tell her.
i've walked by girls and said just that, and continued on my way, without going further.
if something's on my mind, you had better believe i'm going to say it. |
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| starsearcher |
Well honestly guys i'm not exagerating at all that girl was just drop dead gorgeous...stunning...i almod died...:( I wish it wasn't a subway full of people...and I mean FULL of people...I always think I'll look like a moron in a situation like that...maybe if there weren't so many people around :nervous: I guess I'm just shy maybe...
Yeah the beach sex is definitely going to his head :p |
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| Creamfields |
| Well do u always take this subway at the same time??? You might see her again. When you do, smile at her and work from there. |
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