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Oldest TA virgin? (pg. 18)
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
But when you get the right person its much better to know what you are doing. |
I'd rather not know what I'm doing (along with the girl) and have it be romantic, than just some one-night stand. |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
Good points. But I think that marriage can exist without sex if sex isn't a big deal to them going into it. |
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Marriage without sex?
WTF?
Memo to anybody with a brain: huh? |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
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Marriage without sex?
WTF?
Memo to anybody with a brain: huh? |
If it works for those married, all the more power to them. No need to conform to the beliefs of people on the other side of the world, that they only know through the internet. |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancebrat
My unsolicited two cents.
I respect those of you that are waiting to have sex for whatever reason. If you are doing it for religious reasons then that is something that I won't address because that decision should be respected. Those that don't really have a reason there are some things that you should know that most people just never talk about. It is possible that you and your partner may end up not being compatible in the bedroom. I don't care what anyone tells you...if you are not compatible your relationship is headed for trouble. I have dated people where I thought that things were good and had a lot of potential, but when it came down to it the sex was just horrible. You may think that you will just "work" on it and things will be all better. It's just not that easy. Once you have sex you will understand what I am talking about. For me it wasn't an option because after a few times of "trying" I just completely lost interest. You may think that sounds shallow and maybe to a degree it is. You have to remember this though...when you get married that is the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. That means that is the only person that you will have sex with for the rest of your life. Let go of the idea that "but I love her so I will love making love to her". Love does not make you compatible. Why do you think so many couples dwindle down to only having sex a few times a year? They just didn't click. I told my parents when I was younger that I could not imagine not knowing what I was getting myself into with someone. I want to be happy in all aspects of the relationship...including sex. |
As much as this pains me to say it, I agree with this post.
There are plenty of dud s out there, and being stuck with one for the rest of your life will drive anybody to shoot machine guns into crowds and have affairs.
Sex is a really important part of a relationship and someone that is special and every improving with the right person, and variety is the spice, but boring chistian country girl sex is the absolute pits. |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
If it works for those married, all the more power to them. No need to conform to the beliefs of people on the other side of the world, that they only know through the internet. |
Who would people get married and not have sex?
I mean there are stupid people in this world but this takes the cake for sheer stupidity! |
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| Lira |
What's the rush for?
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
But when you get the right person its much better to know what you are doing. |
Pr0n does its job quite nicely, mate. |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
Who would people get married and not have sex?
I mean there are stupid people in this world but this takes the cake for sheer stupidity! |
People who know what true love is, not see women as sex toys, like you.
Oh, and what takes the cake here is you laughing at people living their lives differently than you. |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Pr0n does its job quite nicely, mate. |
I don't think you can learn how to by watchin porn I'm afraid.
You are likely to be slapped really quickly!
Porn is fun, no question, but although I've met a few most girls are going to be pretty turned off if its totally non-personal like porn. |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by idoru
People who know what true love is, not see women as sex toys, like you.
Oh, and what takes the cake here is you laughing at people living their lives differently than you. |
I don't see women as sex toys, I've got many non sexual female friends, I'm a nice guy.
Being married and not having sex does not qualify as a life. Quick question, where do you find these sort of people? |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
You are likely to be slapped really quickly!
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lol case-in-point the shocker :disbelief |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
I don't see women as sex toys, I've got many non sexual female friends, I'm a nice guy. |
That's surprising.
| quote: | | Being married and not having sex does not qualify as a life. Quick question, where do you find these sort of people? |
Everywhere. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
I don't think you can learn how to by watchin porn I'm afraid. |
It worked for me |
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