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If you started dating someone, would you care about their past? (pg. 4)
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| Mr. Pink |
I dont date whores or sluts.
Fact is that if a girl has ed way too many guys, or did some messed up .....sorry, but you ed up then, and even though you might have learned from it- you have the potentiality to up some more in the future. Sure, if a person has grown from it, ok- but the idea that they went through that (im talkin some evil ) then it pretty much exhbits their character right up front.
essentially- naaaaaaaaa if a chica has ed a few men, done a bit of partying or whatever- fine.......... but hey........ if we're talking drama to the exteme.....peACE HOE!
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| Nell |
can a 100% lesbian fall for a male guy?
hmmmmm |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
I dont date whores or sluts.
Fact is that if a girl has ed way too many guys, or did some messed up .....sorry, but you ed up then, and even though you might have learned from it- you have the potentiality to up some more in the future. Sure, if a person has grown from it, ok- but the idea that they went through that (im talkin some evil ) then it pretty much exhbits their character right up front.
essentially- naaaaaaaaa if a chica has ed a few men, done a bit of partying or whatever- fine.......... but hey........ if we're talking drama to the exteme.....peACE HOE!
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Sounds like you are a nerd! |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
Sounds like you are a nerd! |
sounds like you don't know mr pink |
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| Trancer85 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
I dont date whores or sluts.
Fact is that if a girl has ed way too many guys, or did some messed up .....sorry, but you ed up then, and even though you might have learned from it- you have the potentiality to up some more in the future. Sure, if a person has grown from it, ok- but the idea that they went through that (im talkin some evil ) then it pretty much exhbits their character right up front.
essentially- naaaaaaaaa if a chica has ed a few men, done a bit of partying or whatever- fine.......... but hey........ if we're talking drama to the exteme.....peACE HOE!
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w0rd on that! |
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| Swamper |
| If their past relationships went downhill because of the same or similar issues then its important to know that - in case there are signs of things leading in that direction again |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
If their past relationships went downhill because of the same or similar issues then its important to know that - in case there are signs of things leading in that direction again |
Are you talking about dating a serial cheater or something?
You are a little vague, this is probably intentional I'm guessing. |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| A persons past makes them who they are... but people still have the ability to change. I dont know... I like to know about a persons past experiences but I cant say that I would judge the person on them. Im interested in the here and now, and if I like what I see now then why worry about what happened before this? |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
A persons past makes them who they are... but people still have the ability to change. I dont know... I like to know about a persons past experiences but I cant say that I would judge the person on them. Im interested in the here and now, and if I like what I see now then why worry about what happened before this? |
Thats a decent opinion.
It takes someone pretty mature to want to know about someone's past and then not care about it. Usually people either want to be oblivious, or find out by accident, rather than ask if they are non-judgmental. |
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| Turbonium |
| quote: | Originally posted by spec
It takes someone pretty mature to want to know about someone's past and then not care about it. |
Or someone pretty stupid or naive. What if the girl had, say, like 50 orgies in one night or something, and has like a baker's dozen worth of STDs? Would you still have a relationship with her then? |
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| kr00t0n |
I've seen a few typical cases of 'if she's been with alot of men, she's a slut', which I think is so stupid, as if a guy has had loads of sexual partners he gets regarded a hero :rolleyes:
Why shouldnt women be allowed as free a sexuality as men?
What if say you were a virgin, and you started dating someone older than you, who had lost there virginity ages before you, something like 8 years or so, could you really hold it against her that she has had her fair share of sex just because you up until that point hadnt?
Having had lots of sex in the past does not mean said person will be unfaithful, thats a rather silly way of looking at things.
It's the silly old notion that women should be chaste, and not 'give in' to sex as easily as men.
Why not?
As for th topic, yes, because if I am going to be with someone, I like to know everything about them, I could never love someone I didn't really know, now could I? |
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| torontotrance |
| Yes I do care about someone's past, not just because I may want to be friends or date that person. I care about people's pasts because some people carry their past around and it becomes excess baggage that bogs people down and I'd like to help them deal with the crap anyway I can but they do have to want to get rid of it. Any girl I date, I will ask her what's your past like because I am a)curious about her life b)wanting to see what things happened that causes her to behave like she does. If I date someone, it will be because I love that person, not because I want to open old wounds or trying to dig skeletons out of their closets. |
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