If you started dating someone, would you care about their past? (pg. 6)
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bobba lou |
a cumm rag will always be a cumm rag.....nuff said |
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torontotrance |
quote: | Originally posted by malek
absolutely, a person's past is an indication of his/her future... |
but the conclusion I have is that it's not 100% right everytime, so we must exercise caution. I mean people can change their behavior, so if their past was like one thing but they are different, will their future be like their past?. |
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torontotrance |
quote: | Originally posted by bobba lou
a cumm rag will always be a cumm rag.....nuff said |
lmao harold |
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malek |
quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
but the conclusion I have is that it's not 100% right everytime, so we must exercise caution. I mean people can change their behavior, so if their past was like one thing but they are different, will their future be like their past?. |
nobody really changes, life 101 |
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torontotrance |
I tend to think it does, yes sometimes it does indicate future behavior but I've seen many people change. I mean a friend of mine went to strip clubs every day for 5 years, he found religion and now has not set foot in one for 3 years, so since he went to strip clubs, does that mean he will go to strip clubs in the future. I'm just saying it's not always that way. |
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malek |
you're explaining a behaviour, not the personnality of someone.
Can you read in his mind and guarantee that he doesn't fantasize about the strip joint?? |
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arturob |
quote: | Originally posted by bobba lou
a cumm rag will always be a cumm rag.....nuff said |
lol wtf?? LoL you cockbag :p |
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torontotrance |
quote: | Originally posted by malek
you're explaining a behaviour, not the personnality of someone.
Can you read in his mind and guarantee that he doesn't fantasize about the strip joint?? |
but who I am to judge him?
actually I asked him and he said No.. |
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ClubGoddess |
quote: | Originally posted by bobba lou
a cumm rag will always be a cumm rag.....nuff said |
gotta love him |
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malek |
quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
but who I am to judge him?
actually I asked him and he said No.. |
who asked you to judge him.
all i am saying is that someone's personnality is almost unchangeable. |
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GHOSH |
I think it's the ostritch philosophy to not want to know what the history of the person is, honestly. True, there are something that at the beginning, you do not discuss (One of the exes had a miscarriage, you cannot really ask something like that on a first date), but the whole concept of a relationship, i think is to have someone that you can be completly open with. She's been with a ton of guys? Well, she's with you now, buddy, and you might be the one she's looking for. Or not. If it can work out it will, if it can't, it can't. She's ed up before? Well she might want to change, and you could help her if you really cared about the core of the person.
I think that's enough for one night. |
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spec |
quote: | Originally posted by malek
absolutely, a person's past is an indication of his/her future... |
So people don't change?
This is opinion seems just a tad immature. |
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