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| Floorfiller |
alright...so there is this secretary in our office building i've been wanting to bone for basically as long as i've worked here (4 years)...i never really pursude it in because i was in one relationship or another... being that i'm a free man and all...i've been thinking about it again. i don't have any problem actually asking her out...just wondering what people think about dating people at work?
here are some details on this particular case if that helps...
we've always kinda joked around about going out to the bars, but it never really seems to work out...usually because i've been hesitant to make it happen. one time i did drunk dial her cell and confess my secret crush to her...that was kind of a bad idea hahaha...so she obviously knows i like her. she also did something similar at one point where she drunk dialed my friends cell phone at like 3am thinking it was mine...we started talking yesterday and she started telling me how her friend that also works here is moving and so she doesn't have her to go out with anymore. i kind of casually said...well you can come drink with me and she seemed interested in the idea...
i dunno...is this even a good idea? i plan on working here for a while still while i finish school... should i even create problems for myself? she is pretty smoking hot...
anyway...discuss... |
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| Boomer187 |
| Get 'er fired then get 'er done. |
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| jonSun |
| I'd say go for it. But if it gets serious & you guys break it off that might be tough. I have dated 2 women I worked with seriously. One for 6 months first & the other for 3 years & they were back to back. And they both worked together. Ya it was tough but at the office I worked at back then there were alot of beutiful girls around my age, so I actually was cheating on my girlfriend (3 years) with alot of different girls at the office. Then I was in my early 20's & actually still hold the record for hittin the most women at that office. But now that im older it really isnt as good of a record than I thought. I'd say tap it, but take it slow. |
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| Floorfiller |
yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe...
ps. cheating is bad mmmkay :p |
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| jonSun |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe... |
Then if its not going to be serious anytime soon & seeing you do have a crush on her. Without a doubt go for it. |
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| beats and beeps |
| Quit your job. |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe... |
ur such a girl.
Take her to vegas :wtf:
oh and make sure you make it clear what your intentions are. It'll suck if she expects something different. |
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| muzzybear |
| As my sister would say, "you don't where you eat". Bad idea to date someone in the same company. Live and learn. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
ur such a girl.
Take her to vegas :wtf:
oh and make sure you make it clear what your intentions are. It'll suck if she expects something different. |
i ain't gonna pay to bring some biznitch to vegas and then have her run off with your chip n dale roomates hahaha :p
but yeah...i'm an honest person...i'd make myself clear.
and ...what if she isn't even interested? what if she is just doing the typical i'm a secretary and like a lot of attention from everyone in the office routine...hmmmm.... |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
Take her to vegas :wtf: |
bring her to the boomer :stongue:
id say take her out to a bar if thats what shes looking for and see what shes like outside of work. |
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| lücid |
honestly, i've been attracted to people i work with, but when i'm with them 8+ hours a day, i want to get the away from them by the end of the day!! i guess it's okay if you work for a big company and you don't see them all that much, but i can't imagine seriously dating someone who works with me.
i guess it'd be cool if i became really good friends with someone i worked with and we had sloppy drunk sex one night. i would never start a serious relationship with a co-worker though. |
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| Pettiscool |
| i need pics before i give you my opinion |
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