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Do women tend to look for the "next one" before getting rid of the current one
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| M@t |
As in men and relationships
I would prefer to get dumped as soon as she realises im not right for her, rather than have it go on for weeks and months after while she's looking for a suitable replacement
I guess some people just want to be in a relationship all the time, and go straight from one to the next. But hopefully not all women are like this, though ive got a sneaky feeling my gf commits such crimes against men:wtf:
Any experiences? |
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| Spunky Girl |
| Thats exactly y i cant date, im always thinking of his flaws and other guys just seem so much better. |
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| Spyder |
did that with all but one of my bf's...
obviously the one that i didnt do it with was the one who broke up with me... :(
i dont have the heart to break up with the guy... but then when i have too i doo it.. but untill that point i'll just look around... i wont touch i'll just look .. |
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| Spunky Girl |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
i dont have the heart to break up with the guy... but then when i have too i doo it.. but untill that point i'll just look around... i wont touch i'll just look .. |
I agree no touching 4 me. |
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| Slylee |
yea i used to do that a lot because i hate being single...but i've matured a lot, and i realized that it's very ty to "go through the motions" and pretend (basically make your partner look like an ass) until something better comes along...
if u guys do that, trust me, you're not doing your partner a favor by staying with them. set them free and let them find someone who will appreciate them, instead of holding on to them for your own selfish reasons. |
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| Spunky Girl |
| Y get with someone u know u'll stray from?? |
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| zokissima |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spunky Girl
Thats exactly y i cant date, im always thinking of his flaws and other guys just seem so much better. |
wtf, don't take it the wrong way, but that's kinda stupid. Why would you always focus on someone's flaws? |
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| occrider |
| Yes I've had that happen to me. Even caught the c*nt setting up a date. It's good if you find out though. Tells you that that person's selfishness outweighs any respect they may have had for you. And you definetely don't want to be with that type of person. |
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| Spunky Girl |
| quote: | Originally posted by zokissima
wtf, don't take it the wrong way, but that's kinda stupid. Why would you always focus on someone's flaws? |
I dont focus on them, i do look at the good in a person but the flaws r just so obvious. well iv dated like 3 guys and its like we just dated 4 convinience sake. |
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| zokissima |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spunky Girl
I dont focus on them, i do look at the good in a person but the flaws r just so obvious. well iv dated like 3 guys and its like we just dated 4 convinience sake. |
Hmm, that's something I never understood. If people don't have a genuine interest in someone, why would you be with them. Whatever, maybe it's an LA thing :p |
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| Spunky Girl |
| I have never been in a meaningfull relationship. I think iv missed out on alot, and that sucks. |
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| sandstorm03 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea i used to do that a lot because i hate being single...but i've matured a lot, and i realized that it's very ty to "go through the motions" and pretend (basically make your partner look like an ass) until something better comes along...
if u guys do that, trust me, you're not doing your partner a favor by staying with them. set them free and let them find someone who will appreciate them, instead of holding on to them for your own selfish reasons. |
sometimes though girls seem to get stuck in their own little games with themselves that they dont even remember what they want any more. So in the end imo this doesn't even help. (talking about "until something better comes along...")
But i think to call this just a female thing, is kinda wrong because I know guys that just do the same thing. Like they will go out with this girl for certin reasons. And once in a relationship will look for a "better girl." And do it again and again. Like jamie said you have to grow out of that phase, cause not many people are "perfect" :) . |
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