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Question/Poll for all the guys. (pg. 3)
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i already knew yours & floorfiller's answers...:stongue: |
yeah, we're pretty predictable. |
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| dj tek |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I use the 4 date rule. I give the girl 3 none-sex dates, if I don't get some on the 4th date there is no 5th date. |
thats a gay rule imo.... sex will come eventually if she digs you.. and if you dont know if she digs you or not, youre a n00b. :D |
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| phizzle |
I havent been dating alot, was off of a 6 year relationship, however I will put my 2 cents in..
The people i have met, ive ended up sleeping with on the first night, however there was one that I "tried" to like, however there was no spark there.. I think however if i find someone cool, I try to talk to them, and respect them, however I also want to have sex with that person. I played a good boy for 3 MONTHS just to get ass once :) Granted there was side ass, but this one was special and worth the wait :tongue2 |
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| CraveTheRave |
| Any girl that I actually take the time to listen to and let them share, whether it's a girl I'm seeing or a friend who's a girl, I actually care what they are saying. If I didn't care, I wouldn't listen. Girls who I don't give a damn about, I don't care to listen and waste my time. So when I do listen, it's not bs and just to show that I'm sensitive to get laid. |
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| Jocker |
| really caring about girl's problems only comes when you become to know her and she becomes a really important person in your life. so before that, i just listen. i don't need to pretend sensitive, since, like someone said, you immediately get on the "friends ladder", i just have to listen and not interrupt. i also have to make a mental note to ask whether her problems were resolved a couple of days later, to show that i "really care". this is a deceit, creating an illusion, but there's nothing wrong with it. i don't think this is what is called "sensitivity", neither this is "being a jerk and thinking only about sex". |
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| Jocker |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I use the 4 date rule. I give the girl 3 none-sex dates, if I don't get some on the 4th date there is no 5th date. |
and that's why you're still a virgin!:D |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
where the F is jason...eric, text message him and tell him to empty his PM box please! :D |
Think Jason had a date last night, so who knows. I texted him for you. I think we should get a good story from Rob today. Possibly a good one for the crackhead thread. We shall see. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by phizzle
I played a good boy for 3 MONTHS just to get ass once :) Granted there was side ass, but this one was special and worth the wait :tongue2 |
hahah
oh yea, answer that one too guys...even if u meet a cool chick who u are really into and she's not giving it up...will u still screw some other pointless hoe, just to get laid?
by the way, i think that's sleasy and ty:p |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
hahah
oh yea, answer that one too guys...even if u meet a cool chick who u are really into and she's not giving it up...will u still screw some other pointless hoe, just to get laid?
by the way, i think that's sleasy and ty:p |
Not if I'm really into the girl, or we've had a discussion about it. If it's really early and you're just dating, it could happen, but I usually feel guilty about it, so I try not to. |
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| igottaknow |
Its a little more complicated than what you laid out and since I'm not a communications major :p I'm not sure I'll be able to lay out my modus operandi in words you'll understand.
1. It takes only couple of seconds to look over a chick and decide whether she's able. Sounds crude but we know you girls do it too even though you won't admit it. What's the point of pursuing something you know your not going to hit?
2. After successfully passing step 1 you're ready to initiate contact. Here's where you discover if her personality is compatible with yours and if there is mutual attraction.
3. You can proceed further to determine if there is something deeper and you share future goals that would make a suitable long term relationship.
One caveat I'd like to mention is if the chick is hot you can in a moment of weakness overlook personality problems. This is probably what your getting at. But hell were only human and sometimes our penis gets the best of us. So sue me. |
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| CraveTheRave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh yea, answer that one too guys...even if u meet a cool chick who u are really into and she's not giving it up...will u still screw some other pointless hoe, just to get laid?
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If I'm really into her, then defo no. |
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| blitz~ |
yes it is more complicated than that.
situation 1 could be a hot chick i'd just want to , i'd try to play my best game to get her laid (hehe not that it works all the time but still :p )
if there was a girl i genuinely and legitly liked or loved i'd still play my game since i know i have to do it to get her to be with me. which, for example, means if she says some that doesn't interest me i'd still pretend to be interested but my motives are different. actually ing her will be less important, i mean i still want it (probably even more) but holding her in my arms and being with her and she liking me genuinely etc... will become much more important.
but i guess it would be very difficult to tell the difference for a observer, it would only really be me who knew...
besides, like igottaknow mentioned, every chick kind of starts off at the "able" stage, and then if i really like her personality, and or she shares interests with me i will go from there. but what can also happen (very very very rarely though, i can fall in love with a girls face (and maybe body too) without having talked to her. sometimes there is just the magic there. but yea it doesn't really happen every day... |
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