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Cheating (pg. 4)
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| ZzZ The Goddess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Groundhog Boy
You've got to be kidding me. A legal contract is the basis for you to determine whether to continue being with someone after they've cheated on you. Who cares if he's married or not?
It all depends on the emotional bond, and marriage has nothing to do with that as we all know people who have been together for a few years that are closer than most married couples. |
Marriage is still a much more of a serious commitment than just being boyfriend and girlfriend and it gets complicated especially if there are children involved. Girlfriends come and go, but your wife you vow FOREVER to.
I just said I agreed with Mortal for my personal situation and my choices are not the choices for EVERYONE so stop trying to make it seems that I am imposing my choices on everyone. In my post I said "I" would try to work it out if I was married.
It also depends on what you consider cheating. If my hubby slept with someone I wouldnt accept it. I would also depend on the circumstances but if you read the original post of the situation would YOU stay with this girl? |
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| h0tsweetbabyd0l |
u should leave your gf and never talk and see her again she's not worth ....
from experience i can tell that if she cheated once she'll probably do it again if u stay with her....
i forgave my ex bf when he did cuz he wanted a second chance and all this but it was bull cuz he did it again and i should have after he cheated on him tell him to off .....
be strong and leave her .....think about yourself !she's just a slut |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Chemy..... sound familure??? |
It sure does |
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| mellow_head |
| :( I also come out of several bad relationships *sigh* |
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| Groundhog Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by ZzZ The Goddess
Marriage is still a much more of a serious commitment than just being boyfriend and girlfriend and it gets complicated especially if there are children involved. Girlfriends come and go, but your wife you vow FOREVER to. |
You obviously takes the FOREVER vow more seriously than the vast majority of the US population (proof? check divorce rates) Also, when did it take a marriage to have kids? Marriage is seriously just a contract to make people feel safer and more protected from the that happens in couples (cheating, sudden loss of partner with no financial resources to fall back on, etc.) This is the entire reason for "common law" marriages is to provide some relief for people who don't buy into the marriage scheme. IMO, the only thing that marriage really accomplishes is making possessions out of people and instilling a false sense of trust. I know plenty of people whose relationships are more serious and caring than those of many married couples.
| quote: | Originally posted by ZzZ The Goddess
It also depends on what you consider cheating. If my hubby slept with someone I wouldnt accept it. I would also depend on the circumstances but if you read the original post of the situation would YOU stay with this girl? |
Yeah, this kid needs to get rid of this girl. Take it from me, I was young and stupid once. An ex-girlfriend and I kept an open relationship because I moved away. For a while, we were fine, but then she started to act like the girl that this kid is talking about, saying that she didn't know what she wanted, being hot one minute, cold the next, etc. Not to get into a lot of details, but let's just say it didn't end with me being happy and she left me for someone who was constantly around her.
That said, I do know girls and guys who have cheated, yet reform because they realized that they made a mistake. They were wasted, emotional over a fight, etc. and did something stupid. It's not always cut and dry and dependent on a lot of factors that we might not understand because he only posted a few paragraphs (all merged into one, I might add). |
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| DjConfessions |
| her didn't taste like a dick did it? |
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| Groundhog Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by DjConfessions
her didn't taste like a dick did it? |
Tell him what dick tastes like and he'll get back to you. ;) |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by DjConfessions
her didn't taste like a dick did it? |
how would you know what a dick tastes like? |
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| DjConfessions |
| my HOT girlfriend told me |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Groundhog Boy
Marriage is seriously just a contract to make people feel safer and more protected from the that happens in couples (cheating, sudden loss of partner with no financial resources to fall back on, etc.) |
You should qualify your statement by tagging "IMO" infront of it. Who are you to say what marriage is for everyone as you endevor to do in your statement. Perhaps you believe marriage to be simply a contract but that doesn't mean everyone does.
Having just recently gotten married I have thought a lot as to what it is to me. The ceremony was essentially a pledge made by my wife and I to each other, our families, our friends, our community, and most importantly (for us) God of our love an commitment to one another. It was our way of saying that we have so much love and respect for one another that we no longer wish to be two individuals but rather one couple. In that service we bound ourselves into one entity that is more important then either of the two people that formed it. Marriage to me is the ultimate expression of love, respect, and commitment. Additionally, it is also a contract (as you point out) between us and the state.
Nietzche wrote - "the will to marriage is the will of two creators to create the one that is greater then those who created it." |
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| Ripped Bag |
Ok, here is what you do.
Sleep with her sister/best friend
Don't shower afterwards
Immediately find her
Get her to suck your dick |
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| DjConfessions |
u know shes a slut if she says "this tastes like my bestfriends/sisters "
if she says this, u know u found the perfect woman to teabag. stay with her |
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