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Cheating (pg. 5)
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| Ripped Bag |
| Also, get checked for STDs at the clinic. Seriously... |
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| Groundhog Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
You should qualify your statement by tagging "IMO" infront of it. Who are you to say what marriage is for everyone as you endevor to do in your statement. Perhaps you believe marriage to be simply a contract but that doesn't mean everyone does.
Having just recently gotten married I have thought a lot as to what it is to me. The ceremony was essentially a pledge made by my wife and I to each other, our families, our friends, our community, and most importantly (for us) God of our love an commitment to one another. It was our way of saying that we have so much love and respect for one another that we no longer wish to be two individuals but rather one couple. In that service we bound ourselves into one entity that is more important then either of the two people that formed it. Marriage to me is the ultimate expression of love, respect, and commitment. Additionally, it is also a contract (as you point out) between us and the state.
Nietzche wrote - "the will to marriage is the will of two creators to create the one that is greater then those who created it." |
I guess i thought that the IMO at the end of that paragraph covered it. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
It was our way of saying that we have so much love and respect for one another that we no longer wish to be two individuals but rather one couple. |
i think what Groundhog Boy is trying to say is that the love and respect should be there *before* the marriage... too many people take marriage lightly, or get married for the wrong reasons, or they believe they're not really "with" someone until it's been legally documented.
with that said, it sounds like you and your wife got married for the right reasons, but imo (;)) it wasn't the act of marriage that makes you two fall deeper in love... it's spending every day of your life with someone who you have such a strong bond with that makes you fall deeper in love. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Groundhog Boy
I guess i thought that the IMO at the end of that paragraph covered it. |
had the IMO been there it would have but it was not there, subsequently, one could only assume you were making a blanket statement. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
it sounds like you and your wife got married for the right reasons, but imo (;)) it wasn't the act of marriage that makes you two fall deeper in love... it's spending every day of your life with someone who you have such a strong bond with that makes you fall deeper in love. |
On this point you are bang on. Marriage doesn't create a stronger or more loving relationship, nor should it be expected to. The marriage ceremony and the resulting marriage is an expression of the love and commitment of two people (which exists prior to the marriage albeit it changes over time) not the creation of it. |
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| Groundhog Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
had the IMO been there it would have but it was not there, subsequently, one could only assume you were making a blanket statement. |
It was there, just in the conclusion of the paragraph, not the opening. I didn't edit it or anything.
I don't think that in the COR I have to preface everything with IMO, as most of the stuff in here is opinion. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by trance4life627
pull the same she did on u...that would piss the hell outta me if she did that to me, so go bang her best friend if she still wants ur nuts |
I thought you were going to say he should give another guy a blowjob and then make out with her... wait a sec she might like that... he should go down on another girl and then make out with her... hmmmm she also might like that as well :stongue: |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
sometimes you don't realize the mistakes you've made until someone else points them out for you, so i'm gonna break it down so you can begin to understand where you went wrong...
she's a needy, slutty, attention whore. and you're a for putting up with her . i can't tell you to "grow up" because that's exactly what you're doing by putting yourself through this situation. in a few years from now (or maybe even months) you'll realize how stupid and immature the relationship was, and you'll be glad that it's over and you'll look back on it as a learning experience. |
good post! btw did you have to break down his post line by line? :p |
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| ZzZ The Goddess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Groundhog Boy
You obviously takes the FOREVER vow more seriously than the vast majority of the US population |
Yes I do. I am the loyalest person you will ever know until I am crossed. That being said I would only expect the person that decided to commit to a marriage with me to have the same qualities. I have known my hubby for YEARS for I KNOW he is the person I love and want to be with for the rest of my life. We have a lot of history together as well as a promising future to look forward to. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
good post! btw did you have to break down his post line by line? :p |
i just quoted the parts of his post that i thought were the mistakes he made. ;) |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i just quoted the parts of his post that i thought were the mistakes he made. ;) |
looks like he made a lot of mistakes, but the most notible one for me was not using paragraphs. :confused: |
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| take5 |
"So one of her good guy friends started talking her down adn such so she went home with him and spent the night with him and gave him head"
that doesnt make sense.
so let me get this straight. your girl gave head to some guy she knew and you think it was a rebound? tell me you broke out with her please |
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