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Online dating (pg. 10)
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spin Laden
hows this one?: women are bought, men are seduced :tongue3 |
i like the 2nd part more :) |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
i like the 2nd part more :) |
only happens to the weak minded ones
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| Killah Monkey |
I have 1 really nice story which ended in a stable friendship, but the remaining people I have met online have been complete weirdos!
I hear there is still hope, you just have to be patient until you meet someone who compliments you.
I have lost all patience though. |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spin Laden
hows this one?: women are bought, men are seduced :tongue3 |
I have always earned significantly more than my boyfriends...
I wholeheartedly agree with the latter part of your statement though ;)
I think it is more like... women are wooed, men are seduced |
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| jon jon |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
If you made a bunch of guys take a lie detector test asking if they wanted to go to the rippers, most would say yes (to fit in with the 'boys') and be shown as lying on the test. |
lol what! |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Killah Monkey
I have 1 really nice story which ended in a stable friendship, but the remaining people I have met online have been complete weirdos!
I hear there is still hope, you just have to be patient until you meet someone who compliments you.
I have lost all patience though. |
Wait until you are 28 sweets, I had to. And even though it feels like I was meant to be with Adam, that everything I have ever learned and every part of my personality that formed was to match, compliment or complete him (and vice versa - something to be said from 2 people that believed they were already complete), I am still very aware that not a lot lasts forever, or even a long time any more so I am going to nurture and enjoy every second.
Be truly, madly, deeply in love with yourself and then *this* will come and knock you on your ass and make you wonder wtf happened. Even if you don't want it. I didn't. |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by jon jon
lol what! |
+1
i'd just tell her the truth, and let her deal with it. no big deal really. |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
+1
i'd just tell her the truth, and let her deal with it. no big deal really. |
No no no no I didn't mean that! Read it!
*sheesh*
I was saying that boys display 'sheep' tendencies. |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
No no no no I didn't mean that! Read it!
*sheesh*
I was saying that boys display 'sheep' tendencies. |
but i agree with you... BOYS, not men
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| Swamper |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
I was saying that boys display 'sheep' tendencies. |
I see it equally amongst both sexes - usually attributed to peer pressure + lack of confidence.
Women (or should I say girls? :P) are notorious for this, it is rare to find a nice girl who has a circle of 'bitches' as close friends - it usually doesn't take long for her to be assimilated into a roboto-thinker/clone -- not only in dress, but also in thought process. |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
I see it equally amongst both sexes - usually attributed to peer pressure + lack of confidence.
Women are notorious for this, it is rare to find a nice girl who has a circle of 'bitches' as close friends - it doesn't take long for her to be assimilated into a roboto-thinkers/clone -- not only in dress, but also in thought process. |
Very true. I guess I don't think about the girlie side because I am not 'one of them' ha! |
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| Dr. DAS |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spin Laden
Guys negatively impact each others' behaviour for sure. Girls are foolish sometimes to date guys who play sports, who are in the military, fraternities, etc, 'cause they are always gonna be guys who are among male degenerates 24/7.
BTW, those guys who are lying about seeing rippers are probably just broke :p |
As a self-professed nice-guy (someone second that please) and former soldier, I take exception to the inference that we are degenerates. Sometimes people join the military because of familt tradition, to help people (medics, DART teams, SAR techs), to get a trade or because there aren't many other option open to them. A lot of guys who play sports are genuinely nice guys (especially true of rugby players, I hear) and a lot of frat boys...okay, you can have that one.
I won't even go into your skewed view of women...but I will ask how old you are. I'm guessing 22 or under, based on attitude. You'll grow up eventually.
The problem I think most guys who develop this attitude have is that they want the 'it' girl. Guess what, we all do. That alone doesn't make her a good person and sure as hell doesn't make her useful at relationships, because she is so used to being adored that if you don't fit into the second category this thread started with than she'll move on to someone who will kiss her ass. Just as girls realize that the bad boy is just that - bad, boys come to realize a thing or two as well...IMO |
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