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pinkbubblegum
facebook + darthvader = jennypie :p
Darkarbiter
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Originally posted by jennypie
Would you eat adopted children? Do you think they taste the same?

I'd eat out adopted female children (once they get to at least 14/15 ofc) :gsmile:
Theresa
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Originally posted by Enigmatik
If you were adopted, would you want to know?

If you knew, would you want to meet your birth parents?

If you adopted a child, how would you feel about the birth mother trying to contact you?

If you gave up a child, would you want to contact him or her when they reached adulthood?

Any other thoughts on adoption?


Yes.

Yes.

Fine. Biological mother has the right to see the child she birthed. Not to mention that I would want my child to have a relationship with her.

I would never give up a child... ever. However, if for some crazy bizarro world reason I did, yes, I would try to contact them.

I don't think highly of people who put their children up for adoption... to put it lightly.
jastiC
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Originally posted by Darkarbiter
I'd eat out adopted female children (once they get to at least 14/15 ofc) :gsmile:


whose your daddy.. im not :toothless
gehzumteufel
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Originally posted by Theresa
I don't think highly of people who put their children up for adoption... to put it lightly.

This is a dumb view to have. I am not a child of adoption, but there are many cases where adoption should be the first thought after abortion (if you agree with it). There are so many couples out there that can't have kids, and would LOVE to adopt a baby that their mother is in no way, shape, or form able to care for a child at that moment in time. Not everyone has family that can take on that responsibility. I don't think that people should be taking the risk of getting pregnant, but this is a much better alternative to a kid having a horribly life or being a criminal. Or even potentially abused. I can tell you, that people don't take lightly to giving up their child, but it is usually the smarter decision for them at the time.
Theresa
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Originally posted by gehzumteufel
This is a dumb view to have. I am not a child of adoption, but there are many cases where adoption should be the first thought after abortion (if you agree with it). There are so many couples out there that can't have kids, and would LOVE to adopt a baby that their mother is in no way, shape, or form able to care for a child at that moment in time. Not everyone has family that can take on that responsibility. I don't think that people should be taking the risk of getting pregnant, but this is a much better alternative to a kid having a horribly life or being a criminal. Or even potentially abused. I can tell you, that people don't take lightly to giving up their child, but it is usually the smarter decision for them at the time.


I don't think it should be allowed to go passed abortion. If you have no intention of keeping it, stop the pregnancy.

Sorry, I know my opinion is harsh. :nervous:

*waits to be hated on* :rolleyes:
jastiC
dont even waste ur money on abortion.. it can all be fixed with a flight of stairs
gehzumteufel
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Originally posted by Theresa
I don't think it should be allowed to go passed abortion. If you have no intention of keeping it, stop the pregnancy.

Sorry, I know my opinion is harsh. :nervous:

*waits to be hated on* :rolleyes:

While I don't disagree, not everyone agrees with abortion. You must consider that.
Theresa
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Originally posted by gehzumteufel
While I don't disagree, not everyone agrees with abortion. You must consider that.


Well, obviously. However, that doesn't mean I have to like it :p
gehzumteufel
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Originally posted by Theresa
Well, obviously. However, that doesn't mean I have to like it :p

But, that doesn't mean that you should think very low of people that do choose adoption. While they should take the many precautions before it happens, happens. People make mistakes. I am personally a fan of adoption, but I think that people are ing idiots.

pkcRAISTLIN
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Originally posted by gehzumteufel
While I don't disagree, not everyone agrees with abortion. You must consider that.


them. if they dont agree with abortion then theyre a moron.
Theresa
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Originally posted by gehzumteufel
But, that doesn't mean that you should think very low of people that do choose adoption. While they should take the many precautions before it happens, happens. People make mistakes. I am personally a fan of adoption, but I think that people are ing idiots.


Well... I think that being opposed to abortion isn't entirely logical (just my opinion... if you feel that it is logical, good for you). Not being logical, accompanied with being irresponsible makes it hard not to think poorly of them.

I am sure there are a lot of people who have put their children up for adoption that weren't entirely bad people. However, I highly doubt that they make up the majority, and therefore, my general opinion regarding those people is not a particularly good one.

EDIT:

I made the "assumption" that they are irresponsible because...

- they managed to get pregnant when they didn't mean to (yes, I know accidents happen so not all of them fit into this bullet point, however I would hazard a guess that a very high number of them do.)
- they are not capable of taking care of a child (Pretty sure this applies to all people who give up their kids for adoption. Why else would you do it? *Open to suggestions*)

For some reason I got this inkling that someone would get bitchy about my usage of that word.
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