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Adoption. (pg. 3)
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| barbina |
| quote: | Originally posted by Enigmatik
If you were adopted, would you want to know?
If you knew, would you want to meet your birth parents?
If you adopted a child, how would you feel about the birth mother trying to contact you?
If you gave up a child, would you want to contact him or her when they reached adulthood?
Any other thoughts on adoption? |
Yes
Yes
I'd want to meet her and question her
No |
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| CranberryJuice |
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Enigmatik
If you were adopted, would you want to know?
yes
If you knew, would you want to meet your birth parents?[/i][/b]
it depends
[QUOTE] If you adopted a child, how would you feel about the birth mother trying to contact you?
i'd understand
[QUOTE]If you gave up a child, would you want to contact him or her when they reached adulthood?[i][b]
it depends
[QUOTE][i][b]Any other thoughts on adoption?
i have personally no desire to look and find my biological mother or parents.I consider my parents like my real ones and biological , blood related so many times worth nothing compared to real care and love.
Then i think that my biological mother probably thought the best for me |
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| CranberryJuice |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
quote fail. |
LOL yes
let's say im tired *watching clock* i wanna go back to sleep :( |
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| dj_alfi |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
them. if they dont agree with abortion then theyre a mormon. |
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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
why? |
because we're evolutionarily designed to avoid raising other people's kids.
why would we waste our resources on ensuring the survival of genes that arent ours? |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I don't think highly of people who put their children up for adoption... to put it lightly. |
This kind of view is the reason a lot of the kids in this country have it so ty. Do you want a child to stay with a parent that is incapable of raising him or her? Should my 14 year old birth mother have kept me, even though she was obviously completely unready? |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
Should my 14 year old birth mother have kept me, even though she was obviously completely unready? |
According to Theresa, your birth mother should have aborted you rather than putting you up for adoption.
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| iammesol |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
According to Theresa, your birth mother should have aborted you rather than putting you up for adoption.
:gsmile: |
That's the first anti-abortion statement I've ever said "w0rd" to. :p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
I don't like either subject. We are put here to mate. I from a womans point of view, could never bear the thought of killing a child or giving it up.
That's something I would never do but.. in [other folks] extreme circumstances.. adoption is better than aborting. |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| quote: | Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
can think of nothing worse than raising other people's children. |
You speak the truth! Nothing like paying for a deadbeats kids. I have had friends, and a brother marry a chick with multiple kids and their life turns to overnight. |
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| CranberryJuice |
i think it's a quite hard for a lot of us to understand or try to understand how a woman can leave her child.
this may come from the fact we mosly live in rich and wealthy countries where so many times women are taken care so as to avoid this situation and are not left alone in their despair.
i doubt we could make such harsh judgements in any way if we were in a lot of women's shoes |
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