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Physical Contact. (pg. 2)
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| Esiotrat |
Thanks for sharing that article Theresa. :) I love studies, I love reading them and learning tidbits of information. |
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| Project-K |
| I get very uncomfortable when someone hugs me. Unless it's my dog. :wtf: |
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| Akridrot |
Physical contact? I guess I'm weird when it comes to physical contact. Very weird. Is there anyone else out there who's similar to me when it comes to being touched? I'll post a few key points
This is me most of the time: =|
- I don't like being hugged or touched by my mother, sister or any other family members. Nobody. I always push them away. Always. Not even my little baby cousin, even though he's like 3 or 4 (don't know) and always calls my name when I pass him.
- When female acquaintances try to hug me, I never open my arms, I just stay still until they stop. Expression is still: =|
- Even girls I like don't elicit much reaction when they hug me. Weird thing is, when they're really emotional (happy or sad) that makes me not like it. It has to be nonchalant for me to even tolerate it. Sometimes I wonder if it's not the girl I like, but just her looks.
- My guy friends usually nod when I pass by, but I hate shaking hands or doing that fist thing or patting shoulders. I just don't like it and I would rather just say hi or bye.
- I don't like hugging up during sex, just penetration (doggy style) is all I want. My expression is still: =| (Yes, I have actually had sex, which is quite surprising.)
- After sex, I HATE being touched. I hate cuddling, kissing, or anything after I orgasm. I am absolutely serious when I say that I just want to leave and never see her again until I want sex.
- When people touch my hands during training, there's always a strange sexual connotation to it in my mind.
- I am extremely stoic when it comes to fighting. People have punched me dead in the face with not a single flinch from me. I don't even have that stone-faced angry look, I'm just like a statue. I don't feel much unless you hit the right spots (like my trainer did when showing me how to knee people. ouch.)
My mother told me repeatedly that I never liked to be breastfed or held as a child, that I always turned away. She told me she just gave up and fed me from the bottle or left me in my crib.
When I was young, I didn't playfight much. Didn't hug much either. Nobody really got physical with me except for real fighting, and sex (when I got older). |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
Physical contact? I guess I'm weird when it comes to physical contact. Very weird. Is there anyone else out there who's similar to me when it comes to being touched? I'll post a few key points
This is me most of the time: =|
- I don't like being hugged or touched by my mother, sister or any other family members. Nobody. I always push them away. Always. Not even my little baby cousin, even though he's like 3 or 4 (don't know) and always calls my name when I pass him.
- When female acquaintances try to hug me, I never open my arms, I just stay still until they stop. Expression is still: =|
- Even girls I like don't elicit much reaction when they hug me. Weird thing is, when they're really emotional (happy or sad) that makes me not like it. It has to be nonchalant for me to even tolerate it. Sometimes I wonder if it's not the girl I like, but just her looks.
- My guy friends usually nod when I pass by, but I hate shaking hands or doing that fist thing or patting shoulders. I just don't like it and I would rather just say hi or bye.
- I don't like hugging up during sex, just penetration (doggy style) is all I want. My expression is still: =| (Yes, I have actually had sex, which is quite surprising.)
- After sex, I HATE being touched. I hate cuddling, kissing, or anything after I orgasm. I am absolutely serious when I say that I just want to leave and never see her again until I want sex.
- When people touch my hands during training, there's always a strange sexual connotation to it in my mind.
- I am extremely stoic when it comes to fighting. People have punched me dead in the face with not a single flinch from me. I don't even have that stone-faced angry look, I'm just like a statue. I don't feel much unless you hit the right spots (like my trainer did when showing me how to knee people. ouch.)
My mother told me repeatedly that I never liked to be breastfed or held as a child, that I always turned away. She told me she just gave up and fed me from the bottle or left me in my crib.
When I was young, I didn't playfight much. Didn't hug much either. Nobody really got physical with me except for real fighting, and sex (when I got older). |
Paging Dr. Freud. Did you have a creepy uncle who liked to touch you when you were a child?
I like to be touched a lot. Does anyone want to have a cuddle party? |
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| Esiotrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
Does anyone want to have a cuddle party? |
Yes please. :gsmile:
Akridrot: :wtf: is all I have to say...stone-cold person you seem to be. I'd try to seek help if I were you.
Yeesh. |
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| kadomony |
i dont like people touching me unless i know its coming, then i'm all for it.
like if someone comes up behind me and puts their hand on my shoulder i feel awkward. i try to consciously loosen up once i know who it is but i always feel that i'm positioned in a weird way |
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| Darkarbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
Physical contact? I guess I'm weird when it comes to physical contact. Very weird. Is there anyone else out there who's similar to me when it comes to being touched? I'll post a few key points
This is me most of the time: =|
- I don't like being hugged or touched by my mother, sister or any other family members. Nobody. I always push them away. Always. Not even my little baby cousin, even though he's like 3 or 4 (don't know) and always calls my name when I pass him.
- When female acquaintances try to hug me, I never open my arms, I just stay still until they stop. Expression is still: =|
- Even girls I like don't elicit much reaction when they hug me. Weird thing is, when they're really emotional (happy or sad) that makes me not like it. It has to be nonchalant for me to even tolerate it. Sometimes I wonder if it's not the girl I like, but just her looks.
- My guy friends usually nod when I pass by, but I hate shaking hands or doing that fist thing or patting shoulders. I just don't like it and I would rather just say hi or bye.
- I don't like hugging up during sex, just penetration (doggy style) is all I want. My expression is still: =| (Yes, I have actually had sex, which is quite surprising.)
- After sex, I HATE being touched. I hate cuddling, kissing, or anything after I orgasm. I am absolutely serious when I say that I just want to leave and never see her again until I want sex.
- When people touch my hands during training, there's always a strange sexual connotation to it in my mind.
- I am extremely stoic when it comes to fighting. People have punched me dead in the face with not a single flinch from me. I don't even have that stone-faced angry look, I'm just like a statue. I don't feel much unless you hit the right spots (like my trainer did when showing me how to knee people. ouch.)
My mother told me repeatedly that I never liked to be breastfed or held as a child, that I always turned away. She told me she just gave up and fed me from the bottle or left me in my crib.
When I was young, I didn't playfight much. Didn't hug much either. Nobody really got physical with me except for real fighting, and sex (when I got older). |
gay? |
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| Akridrot |
| quote: | Originally posted by Enigmatik
Akridrot: :wtf: is all I have to say...stone-cold person you seem to be. I'd try to seek help if I were you.
Yeesh. |
I think the internet contributed to it.
| quote: | Originally posted by Darkarbiter
gay? |
Nope. All of those things couldn't be explained away by being gay. I don't like touch period. |
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| pinkbubblegum |
| quote: | Originally posted by Darkarbiter
gay? |
Why the question mark?
Group hug everyone! |
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| Ania_xox |
Awww Selma <3
c tellement mignon
the single thing I miss *most* about being in a relationship is spooning
:(
so ya ... bring on the cuddle party |
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